A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay leftist leaning liberal progressive fit married college-educated former Baha'i NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma from California to Minas Gerais, Brasil.
my needs, without making them into demands, can be as much a path to
growth as letting them go. Needs aren’t the problem; it is rigidly
clinging to a particular strategy to meet them that produces suffering.