A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too mental
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you wish to do an action with the mind, reflect upon that same
mental action thus: “Would this action I wish to do with the mind lead
to both my own affliction and the affliction of another?” If, upon
reflection, you know that it would, then do not do it; if you know that
it would not, then proceed. (MN 61)
Reflection
It may seem odd
to us that we could be aware of our intention to think thoughts before
actually doing so. Thinking before you speak is one thing, but thinking
before you think? And yet in the Buddhist model of mind and body,
actions of the mind are not so different from actions of body and
speech. We can learn to be aware of them before, during, and after
undertaking all forms of action.
Daily Practice
Identify some
of your thought patterns that are familiar to you: the stories you tell
yourself over and over, the episodes from the past you ruminate over.
Now make the decision not to go there yet again. Some of this
introspection can be helpful, but if it becomes repetitive and
involuntary it can “lead to your own affliction.” There are ways to take
more control over your mental action, and not ruminating is one of
those ways.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures One week from today: Reflecting upon Social Action
Share your thoughts and join the conversation on social media #DhammaWheel
Ancient
texts compare the process of concentration to the taming of a wild
animal. It is a difficult endeavor, full of ups and downs, but one that
yields reliable results if practiced diligently and with patience.
You get to be at home with change and uncertainty. You get to be at home with not knowing how it all comes out. You make a plan knowing full well that it may be irrelevant a moment later, and you're at peace with that.
I find that when I'm at a choice point, the best thing to do is to be quiet and empty and go back to square one. But I try to stay at the choice point as long as I can, because that's as interesting a place as any other place, to stay with not knowing what to do. But if you listen, it all becomes apparent in time. Patience is good—the tolerance for not knowing what's what is quite an art form.
Harsh speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from harsh speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning harsh speech,
one refrains from harsh speech. One speaks words that are gentle,
pleasing to the ear, and affectionate, words that go to the heart, are
courteous, and are agreeable to many. (DN 1) One practices thus: “Others
may speak harshly, but I shall abstain from harsh speech.” (MN 8)
When one speaks unhurriedly, one’s body does not grow tired and one’s
mind does not become excited, one’s voice is not strained and one’s
throat does not become hoarse. The speech of one who speaks unhurriedly
is distinct and easy to understand. (MN 139)
Reflection
The previous
text on right speech emphasized the drawbacks of speaking hurriedly, and
this one reverses the focus and speaks to the benefits of taking your
time when you have something to say. This can seem out of touch with the
pace of modern life, but does that mean we should ignore this advice to
fit in with the times? Might it be better to be guided by these wise
words and learn to slow down how we communicate?
Daily Practice
How much of the
stress in your experience comes from speaking too fast or trying to
follow the speech of others who are speaking at a mile a minute? Notice,
by paying attention, when this happens and make a conscious effort to
slow down the pace of your own speech. This can have the effect of
slowing down the people you talk with as well. You don’t have to be
swept along by the speaking habits of others.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Mental Action One week from today: Refraining from Frivolous Speech
Share your thoughts and join the conversation on social media #DhammaWheel
As
you extend tenderness to others, you may also begin to recognize how it
brings out tenderness in them. Life begins to look more like a mother
gazing at her infant child with deep adoration.
Elizabeth Mattis Namgyel, “Nurturing the Intelligent Heart”
This review of Ben Van Overmeire's American Koan: Imagining Zen and Self in Autobiographical Literature explores how koans and autobiographical narratives reveal the evolution of Zen practice in America.