Friday, May 23, 2014

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Nosso diretor Karim Aïnouz fala a O Globo: "A intolerância e o preconceito são manifestações muito tristes da alma humana, e elas em geral são frutos da ignorância, assim como o fascismo e o racismo. Ver um filme onde um monte de gente morre, onde há violência e tiros para cima e para baixo não tem problema. Mas uma história de amor tem? Do que essas pessoas têm medo?". 

Leia a matéria completa aqui: http://bit.ly/oglobo-praiadofuturo

RuPaul Drives... John Waters Part 2


Via JMG: OREGON: Ballot Measure Dropped


Via press release:
Oregon United for Marriage submitted an amicus brief in the Rummell v Kitzhaber marriage equality case, noting that if the judge ruled in a way that allowed for same-sex couples to marry by May 23, the campaign would not submit the 160,000 signatures gathered to put a marriage equality measure on the ballot. Today is May 23—and following Judge Michael McShane’s ruling that extended the freedom to marry to all loving, committed couples in Oregon, a ballot campaign to address the same issue is no longer needed. “We are confident that the freedom to marry is secure in Oregon and that we do not need to move forward with the ballot measure,” said Oregon United for Marriage deputy campaign manager Amy Ruiz. “It is time to celebrate this victory for Oregon.”

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Long Journey to a Bow | May 23, 2014

Learning to make that first bow to ourselves is perhaps a step to realizing that a bow is just a bow, a simple gesture where all ideas of 'self' and 'other,' 'worthy' and 'unworthy,' fall away. It is a step of confidently committing ourselves to realizing the same freedom and compassion that all buddhas throughout time have discovered; it is acknowledging that we practice to be liberated. 
 
—Christina Feldman, "Long Journey to a Bow"
 

Thursday, May 22, 2014

I Am Harvey Milk Original Cast Recording


10 Tips for Keeping Love Alive in Modern Times



Postedon 2/7/20142:30:00 PMbyDavid Cruz III
[Editor's note: Relationship expert—and current Frontiers cover model—David Cruz knows the importance of love. He shares that importance with us in this fun guide to keeping love alive in a time when most people consider chivalry and love at first sight to be things of cheesy rom-coms.]

1. Be a Warrior of Chivalry

There is much to be said about being a gentleman. Not only should you marry one but you should also be one! Open doors and treat the love of your life like a king. 


2. Write Handwritten Love Notes
Whether it’s a handwritten letter, card or even a Post-it, surprise the one you love with a short and sweet declaration of your love. 

3. Do Something Your Partner Enjoys 
It’s easy to get caught up with what you like in a relationship. Switch things up and make your partner feel special. Maybe tonight’s the night you watch a documentary instead of The Carrie Diaries!

4. Create Traditions with Good Friends
Whether it’s planning a monthly dinner party or a karaoke night, fostering your relationships with friends creates a strong support system. Become the ambassador of good times while catching up with the people you care most about. Remember that friends need love, too, and traditions like these keep everyone feeling special. 

5. Make a Phone Call
When was the last time you actually talked to someone? Connect on a human level and call someone you care about. The general rule should be to replace one text a day with a phone call. Go ahead, I dare you—dial. 

6. Plan Date Nights
Whether you’ve been together for a year or 10 years, remember to keep that flame burning bright. Plan nights out like you did when you first met, and make them fun and sexy. 

7. Embrace “Guys Night Out”
Sometimes it’s good to let guys be guys. Spend time away from your relationship and let loose with the old gang. At the end of the night you will still get to cuddle with your little spoon! 

8. Unplug from Technology 
It’s so important to take a day and simply unplug—no tablets, phones, laptops or Twitter, just human communication. Take this time to make dinner, go for a hike or go to the beach together. Disconnect to reconnect! 

9. Play
Life can be too serious sometimes. People often get so caught up in being grown ups that they forget what it’s like to just play. Take time in your day to read the comics, run in the sprinklers, wander the toy aisle, watch cartoons and just relax. This will help your relationship “breathe” and not be taken too seriously. A relationship can be a lot of things, but it should also be fun. 

10. Be Thoughtful 
Go the extra mile for the one you love. When your significant other is sick, make him soup and put together a special “get well” care kit. When you see his favorite candy, buy it for him. Do something without obligation and surprise him with it. Thoughtfulness is a one-way ticket to a long and happy relationship. 


- See more at: http://www.frontiersla.com/findingcupid/blog/2014/02/07/10-tips-for-keeping-love-alive-in-modern-times#sthash.ZxOOpIR6.dpuf

Gay Bashing: What Would You Do?


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The Path of Reasoning | May 22, 2014

Gold merchants do not merely accept the seller’s praise of his goods; rather, they use a variety of methods to examine the quality of the merchandise before they make their purchase decision. Similarly, the Buddha said, do not accept my teachings out of faith in me, but rather out of your own confidence in my words—confidence that you have reached as a result of your own intelligent analysis.
—Khenpo Tsültrim Gyamtso, “Dissecting Devotion”

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Andrew Solomon: How the Worst Moments in our Lives Make Us Who We Are


Via Merepresenta.net: Brasil X Argentina : Perdemos de goleada no combate a homofobia

Por Davi Godoy
Correspondente internacional na Argentina

O Brasil é oficialmente um País Laico (sem a interferência da Igreja no Estado), mas se comparado à Argentina que tem a Igreja Católica religião oficial do país, poderíamos supor que o Brasil teria maior aceitação, tolerância e respeito aos LGBT, certo? Errado. As contradições começam quando percebemos as diferenças no tratamento dispensado aos LGBT em seus respectivos países.

Além de dividirem fronteiras, Brasil e Argentina também dividem uma história semelhante. Ambos sofreram anos de ditadura militar e também sofrem com problemas sociais graves. Ambos têm governos presidenciais inclinados à esquerda e forte presença religiosa em seu povo. Mas são como dois continentes separados por um imenso oceano quando o assunto são os Direitos Humanos para a população LGBT. A Argentina goleia o Brasil neste quesito, aqui os homossexuais, bissexuais, travestis, transexuais são cidadãos plenos com seus direitos protegidos.

Moro na Argentina desde fevereiro deste ano e é visível a liberdade que os homossexuais vivenciam no país. Você não é surpreendido com linguagem homofóbica na rua, quando vai comprar um presente para o Dia de São Valentin ( comemorado dia 14 de Fevereiro em todo o mundo como o Dia dos Namorados, com exceção do Brasil, que comemora dia 12 de Junho) é extremamente comum ser perguntado na loja “Tiene vos novio o novia?” (Você tem namorado ou namorada?), todos os bares e boates (chamados de “boliches”, aqui) são gay-friendly e é raro você ouvir sobre assassinatos por conta da orientação sexual ou de gênero, mas quando acontece o país para; quando um LGBT é assassinado na Argentina tem a mesma repercussão que teve o assassinato do pedreiro Amarildo no Brasil.

Na Província de Rio Negro (equivalente ao Estado de Rio Negro) e na cidade de Buenos Aires a união civil entre pessoas do mesmo sexo já era garantida desde 2003, mas o Casamento Igualitário em vigor no país desde Julho de 2010 substituiu estas leis e garante o casamento a todas as pessoas independente de seu sexo e/ou identidade de gênero, garantindo inclusive, o direito à adoção. Em julho de 2003 Marcelo Suntheim y César Cigliutti se tornaram o primeiro casal de homens da América Latina legalmente unidos. A cerimônia foi transmitida ao vivo por diversos canais de TV da Argentina e teve repercussão em todos os jornais no dia seguinte. Uma multidão se aglomerou em frente o Cartório Civil da Avenida Uruguai em Buenos Aires. Depois, em agosto foi a vez de María Rachid y Claudia Castro históricas dirigentes da “Federación Argentina de Lesbianas, Gays, Bisexuales y Trans”. No Brasil, desde o ano passado, graças ao STF, os homossexuais podem se casar.

A Constituição Nacional da Argentina contém parágrafo contra a discriminação por qualquer tipo e as cidades de Buenos Aires e Rosário implementaram leis anti-homofobia e as divulgam constantemente. Uma lei que puna a discriminação por identidade de gênero e orientação sexual foi aprovada na Câmara dos Deputados e espera-se a aprovação dela no Senado. Existe forte campanha publicitária anti-homofobia para turistas e a Argentina é uma das rotas de turismo mais conhecidas entre homossexuais da Europa.

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Em 2012 a Argentina aprovou lei que garante alteração do sexo de travestis transexuais em documentos sem a apresentação de qualquer atestado médico, isto acabou permitindo que na Argentina houvesse o primeiro casamento entre transexuais da história da América. A noiva, Karen Taborda, nasceu homem. O noivo, Alexis Bruselario nasceu mulher. O noivo casou grávido e teve seu ventre abençoado pelo Padre Católico Raúl Benedetti. Quando poderíamos imaginar esta cena no Brasil? Gênesis, o filho do casal, nasceu em Dezembro.

Ainda falando sobre travestis e transexuais, Buenos Aires conta com a primeira escola transexual do mundo, a “Escuela Mocha Celis de Buenos Aires”. Esta escola atende principalmente – mas não exclusivamente – travestis e transexuais maiores de 18 anos que queiram estudar e sair da prostituição. A escola têm 25 professores, metade deles é trans, 90 estudantes de diversas minorias sexuais e acreditem, 2 surdos Cis-héteros que se sentem melhor acolhidos na escola do que fora dela.

A Presidente Cristina Kirchner é adorava pela comunidade LGBT da Argentina, mas não é para menos, ela faz por merecer. Cristina Kirchner, em diversas oportunidades que teve demonstrou total apoio e respeito pela comunidade LGBT. Na ultima Parada Do Orgulho Gay em novembro de 2012 (“que é considerada “de interesse social, cultural e para a defesa dos direitos humanos” ) ela foi homenageada em gritos uníssonos pelas ruas de Buenos Aires. Além de defender o casamento igualitário desde a sua discussão no senado argentino, ter sido madrinha de batismo de um filho de um casal de lésbicas, Cristina fez algo mais notável, defendeu um garoto gay da oposição ano passado por conta de xingamentos que ele recebeu no twitter por conta de sua homossexualidade.

Devido à segurança que os homossexuais, travestis e transexuais sentem na Argentina, o país já se tornou rota de “refugiados” por orientação sexual; um casal gay russo realizou em fevereiro, em Buenos Aires, seu sonho de oficializar sua união e anunciou sua decisão de pedir asilo na Argentina, após fugir de seu país e denunciar a discriminação sofrida pelos coletivos homossexuais na Rússia. Alexander, de 47 anos, e Dimitri, de 35, se conheceram pela internet em sua Rússia natal e mantiveram dois anos de namoro até que decidiram sair do país para poder consumar seu amor perante a lei. “Estamos muito felizes por ter conseguido o que estávamos querendo fazer desde que nos conhecemos”, disse à imprensa Alexander, oriundo de Sochi, na porta do cartório civil em pleno centro da capital argentina.

Sem dúvida que ainda existe homofobia na Argentina, sobretudo no interior do país, mas as ações anti-homofobia existentes estão permitindo uma vida cada dia melhor aos LGBT argentinos, turistas e estrangeiros residentes. Minha ideia inicial era fazer um comparativo entre Brasil e Argentina, mas na verdade, já sabemos que o governo do Brasil não faz “propaganda de opções sexuais”. E a realidade brasileira nós conhecemos muito bem! Estamos perdendo por W.O, é bom pensarmos em entrar em campo!

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Larry Kramer Interview: Playwright on 'The Normal Heart' Movie | The New York Times


Via JMG: GALLUP: 55% Back Gay Marriage

 

Gallup reports:
Americans' support for the law recognizing same-sex marriages as legally valid has increased yet again, now at 55%. Marriage equality advocates have had a string of legal successes over the past year, most recently this week in Pennsylvania and Oregon where federal judges struck down bans on gay marriage. Two successive Gallup polls in 2012 saw support climb from 53% to 54%, indicating a steady but slight growth in acceptance of gay marriages over the past year after a more rapid increase between 2009 and 2011. In the latest May 8-11 poll, there is further evidence that support for gay marriage has solidified above the majority level. This comes on the heels of gay marriage proponents' 14th legal victory in a row.
RELATED: A Politico poll released last week showed that 52% of likely 2014 midterm voters opposes same-sex marriage, but that poll was limited in its scope.
Reposted From Joe Jervis

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Fetters of Fear | May 21, 2014

Fear is the basic anxiety that creates separation and fixation. Fear keeps us bound to the past, to our cozy, habitual way of doing things.
—Daniel Naistadt, “The Money Mind”
 

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

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No Essence | May 20, 2014

The wealth of the world is mist on the mountain pass.
My closest friends, but guests on market day.
Uncertain joys and sorrows are last night’s dream.
I think and think; they have no essence.
—Gendun Chopel, "In Memory of My Childhood Friend"

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Via JMG: BREAKING: Pennsylvania's Ban On Gay Marriages Has Been OVERTURNED UPDATE: There Is NO Stay On Ruling


Here's the full ruling.

UPDATE: Chris Geidner reports has an initial report:
“We now join the twelve federal district courts across the country which, when confronted with these inequities in their own states, have concluded that all couples deserve equal dignity in the realm of civil marriage,” Jones wrote. Although Pennsylvania has no constitutional amendment barring same-sex couples from marrying, Jones on Tuesday struck down the state’s 1996 statute banning same-sex couples from marrying and barring recognition of out-of-state marriages of same-sex couples.

In concluding, Jones wrote, “[W]e hold that Pennsylvania’s Marriage Laws violate both the Due Process and Equal Protection Clauses of the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution. Because these laws are unconstitutional, we shall enter an order permanently enjoining their enforcement. By virtue of this ruling, same-sex couples who seek to marry in Pennsylvania may do so, and already married same-sex couples will be recognized as such in the Commonwealth.”
UPDATE II: There is NO stay.


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Via JMG: Updated Wikipedia Marriage Map




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Via JMG: The City Of Philadelphia Celebrates




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Same-Sex Marriage Legal In Oregon After Judge Overturns Ban


Gay marriage reaction at Oregon United for Marriage


Monday, May 19, 2014

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Triple-Loss for NOM in Oregon: May 18 MNW


Via Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters: Marriage equality opponents need genuine 'come to Jesus' moment about their leaders

In case you have been living in a cave under a rock with your fingers in your ears, you now know that Oregon became the 18th state to legalize marriage equality.

Mazel tov!

Now let's get serious for a bit. On election night less than two years ago, many Americans got caught by surprise when President Obama was reelected to a second term. Fox News, just about all of the conservative media and bloggers, and their gut had told them that Mitt Romney would either win in a close vote or a landslide.

As it turned out, what they probably felt in their gut was a brief case of happy gas.  However, when it came to all of the other prognosticators, it was genuinely agreed that these seers, these so-called correct predictors of the election day mood, was taking their audience for a ride. Prominent conservatives and republicans like David Frum and Joe Scarborough had it so correct when they read the riot act to folks like Fox News commentator Dick Morris and talking heads Rush Limbaugh and Sarah Palin for leading fellow conservatives down a primrose path of destruction fueled by a conservative bubble which shut all reality out of an assured Obama victory.

By that same token, someone needs to yank all of these folks who voted for these statewide anti-marriage equality amendments and give them a good figurative slap. And I'm not talking about a wimpy one. I'm talking one of those infamous Joan Crawford type smacks where you really get your hand in the cheek, leaving a loud noise and a lasting sting.


http://holybulliesandheadlessmonsters.blogspot.com.br/2014/05/marriage-equality-opponents-need.html#.U3qX__ldVwt

Via JMG: Politico Poll: 52% Oppose Gay Marriage


According to a just published poll conducted by Politico, a thin majority of likely 2014 voters say they oppose same-sex marriage.
Clear generational divides exist on the hot-button social issues of gay marriage and marijuana legalization, a new POLITICO poll of voters who will decide the most competitive House and Senate races finds. That split is starkest on the question of same-sex marriage, which is supported by 48 percent of those surveyed overall. But that number skyrockets to 61 percent among people between the ages of 18-34. Slightly more than half of those between ages 35 and 49 support gay marriage; the figure drops to 48 percent among those aged 50-64 and tapers off to 35 percent among those 65 and older. Overall, 52 percent of those surveyed oppose gay marriage.
The Family Research Council is already tweeting their joy.


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Via JMG: MARRIAGE COMES TO OREGON!


Here's the full ruling.


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Via JMG: Updated Wikipedia Marriage Map




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Via JMG: LGBT Groups React To Oregon Ruling


Oregon United
"The importance of Judge McShane’s decision cannot be overemphasized,” said David Fidanque, executive director of the ACLU of Oregon. “Our federal Constitution does not allow any state – or its voters – to deny same sex couples equal protection under the law simply because of who they are and who they love. This type of discrimination is wrong and it’s also unconstitutional.” "Our clients Deanna Geiger & Janine Nelson and Bob Duehig and Bill Griesar are grateful the Attorney General, Governor, Ms. Woodward and Mr. Walruff carefully considered their position and so clearly articulated Oregon’s position that it values our relationships and commitments to each other and our families," said Lee Ann Easton, an attorney at Dorsay & Easton who, with co-counsel Lake Periguey, filed the Geiger case. "They are very pleased the District Court adopted their position along with the Rummell plaintiffs in his decision. With this advancement of civil rights, gay and lesbian Oregonians are now equal under the law.”
Freedom To Marry
"Today Judge McShane did the right thing for families, affirming that the denial of marriage to committed same-sex couples in Oregon is unconstitutional. In recognition of the strong support for marriage among Oregonians, no one with legal standing, including our state Attorney General, wanted to go down in history as defending discrimination. Across the country, the courts agree: same-sex couples and their families need the protections of marriage, and anti-marriage laws are indefensible. With over 70 marriage cases now making their way through the courts, today's decision in Oregon underscores that all of America is ready for the freedom to marry."
GLAAD
U.S. District Judge Michael McShane stated in his ruling, "Because Oregon’s marriage laws discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, the laws violate the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution." "Love is in the air in Oregon," said GLAAD President and CEO, Sarah Kate Ellis. "This ruling is going to add stability to LGBT couples and families across the state and continue to advance LGBT equality across the country." Hearings were held on April 23, but here were no defendants in court to defend the marriage ban, because the state's Attorney General refused to defend the amendment, saying the ban serves no rational purpose.
National Gay & Lesbian Task Force
"We are delighted that Judge Michael McShane has finally brought a decade of uncertainty to a close with his ruling. Thousands of LGBTQ couples will be celebrating today across Oregon and around the nation. We are another step closer to marriage equality everywhere for everyone. This victory would not have been possible without the leadership of Oregon United for Marriage who are: Basic Rights Oregon, Human Rights Campaign, Freedom to Marry, ACLU of OR, ACLU National, SEIU of OR, American Unity Fund, Gill Action, and countless other Task Force Action Fund staff and volunteers."
Human Rights Campaign
“Today’s ruling from Judge McShane affirms what a majority of Oregonians already knew: discrimination has no place in our society, much less the state constitution. The plaintiffs and their tremendous attorneys Lake James Perriguey, Lea Ann Easton, Perkins Coie LLP, the ACLU of Oregon and the ACLU, should be incredibly proud of their historic victory. Thanks to their willingness to fight and the decades of work done by groups like Basic Rights Oregon and countless others, America is now one giant step closer to full equality nationwide.”

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JMG Quote Of The Day: Judge Michael McShane


"Oregon recognizes a marriage of love with the same equal eye that it recognizes a marriage of convenience. It affords the same set of rights and privileges to Tristan and Isolde that it affords to a Hollywood celebrity waking up in Las Vegas with a blurry memory and a ringed finger. It does not, however, afford these very same rights to gay and lesbian couples who wish to marry within the confines of our geographic borders." 
 
- US District Court Judge Michael McShane, in just one of many memorable lines in today's ruling that overturned Oregon's ban on same-sex marriage.


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First Lady Michelle Obama Addresses Senior Appreciation Day in Topeka, Kansas


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You Are Your Own Best Proof | May 19, 2014

In the end, when it comes to spiritual practice, you are your own best proof. Individual practitioners can understand from their own personal experience that practice is helping them to be more understanding, to be more open, to be more at home with others, or to have a greater sense of ease.
 
—Thupten Jingpa Langri, “Under One Umbrella”
 

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Via JMG: Pentagon Recognizes LGBT Pride Month


 
The Department of Defense issued similar flyers in 2012 and 2013 and all three include the word "transgender" despite the continuing ban on transgender service.


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Via Bilerico: Dallas 'Family Values' Host May Be Daughter of Evangelist Huckster

Remember Amy Kushnir, the male stripper-loving Dallas morning show host who stormed off the set last week after a pearl-clutching tirade about how Michael Sam's gay kiss was being "pushed in [the] faces" of children?

Well, as it turns out, that hypocritical high horse appears to be one that Ms. Kushnir's been riding on for a long time: new information suggests that she's the daughter of infamous snake-oil salesman televangelist huckster "Rev." Robert Tilton.

The "Christian Nightmares" Tumblr page was the first to point out the connection, linking to a 2011 blog post that refers to her as "Amy Tilton Kushnir."

Gay blogger Joe Jervis noted the conspicuous absence of Kushnir's parents in both of her official biographies, so he decided to dig deeper. Jervis writes:
Rev. Robert Tilton's first wife, to whom he was married during the ABC-spawned scandal, is named Martha and goes by the unusually spelled nickname Marte. Two weeks ago Kushnir posted a Facebook photo of her mother's birthday party and in the comments a friend of Kushnir's writes, "Happy birthday, Marte!"...
Fourteen years ago Charisma Magazine interviewed Marte Tilton and noted that she had four children with Robert Tilton, including a daughter named Amy, then aged 30. According to the Explore Talent site, Dallas television host Amy Kushnir is 44 today. In a 2001 interview with the Dallas Morning News, Marte asked that paper not say where her children live, adding that they have "suffered a lot because of their last name." Marte and Rev. Tilton divorced in 1993, when the television host Amy Kushnir would have been 23.
Read more at:  http://www.bilerico.com/2014/05/dallas_family_values_host_may_be_related_to_evange.php#uI4S9dUdVHhIlOCb.99

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Via Examiner: Gay marriage isn't uncommon, and it hasn't destroyed society.

Among the anti-gay bigots' mistakes is believing they invented marriage in the first place. They didn't. It's much older and much more diverse than Christianity tells us. All over the world, for as long as we can look back, same sex couples have been pairing off in various ways, and the one thing they all have in common is that they've never destroyed society.
One of the lies peddled by the Christian bigots is that if gay marriage is allowed, it will destroy society. People will be marrying lambs and sloths, and carp
EXAMINER.COM

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A Mirror Reflects Everything May 18, 2014

This moment is very important—whether the world is empty or not, whether it exists or not, doesn’t matter. Take away your opinion, then what? What is left? That is the point. Take away your opinion—your condition, situation—then your mind is clear like space. Clear like space means clear like a mirror. A mirror reflects everything: the sky is blue, tree is green, sugar is sweet.



—Zen Master Seung Sahn, “Boom!”

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THE KISS SEEN ROUND THE WORLDWhy Everyone Should Examine Their Reactions To Men Kissing Men

Much has been said about the moment when Michael Sam kissed his boyfriend on national television, as they joyfully and spontaneously celebrated the news of Sam’s drafting by the Rams. They embraced and kissed just like many other happy heterosexual couples do when one of them receives life-changing, great news.
Sadly, many commentators acted with revulsion. Newscasters in Dallas walked off the set in disgust. Conservatives blasted the networks for even airing that moment. And let’s face it, many people cringed in their living rooms. Even some gay people, unused to seeing such affection displayed, worried, perhaps rightfully so, about the backlash.
This much is clear: The world simply is going to have to get used to seeing two men kissing. (The sight of two women kissing unsurprisingly seems to raise fewer hackles among heterosexual men.) The sanitized version of happy gay life shown on popular shows like Modern Family rarely venture into the passionate gay kiss. But it’s naive to believe happy gay couples don’t kiss each other regularly, just like happy straight couples do. To say you stand for equal rights but that you don’t want to ever see or hear about moments of our intimacy is to deny us again a fundamental aspect of our humanity–the expression of that very love. And guess what? Same-sex marriage ceremonies end in a kiss, so if you’re for marriage equality in principle, you’d best be prepared for some homosexual ritual smooching in practice.  
If you’re someone who finds yourself repulsed by the idea or the image of two men kissing, ask yourself why that is. Ask how someone else’s love, and how they publicly express it, actually affects your life and the enjoyment of your freedoms and liberty. The visceral negative reaction many experience comes down to what I call the “ick” factor–seeing or thinking about something to which we are unaccustomed, and reacting with an “ick.”  There are in fact lots of things in life that make people go “ick.” Broccoli, for example, is simply abhorrent to some. But “ick” is never a sound basis for public policy or law. Your own discomfort is just your own issue, and you can’t and shouldn’t make it other people’s problems. 
It wasn’t long ago that the kiss would have been highly controversial if Sam’s boyfriend instead were a white woman. Indeed, the first black/white kiss on network television was on Star Trek between Kirk and Uhura, and it caused quite an uproar. The ick factor then was much higher. Back when I was young, it was illegal for me to marry a white woman, and now I’m married to a white dude. Times change, and so do attitudes. Perhaps the most interesting thing about the Sam / boyfriend kiss is that no one complained about it being an interracial one. 
I’m fairly sure next time an NFL player kisses his boyfriend on camera, it’s not going to get so many people’s panties in a bunch. Then we can finally start talking about how well they play football, and not whether they happen to be gay. But so long as people think a simple kiss is going to end the world as we know it, we sadly do have to keep talking about it, until we finally kick the “ick” out of our public discourse.
– George Takei

Friday, May 16, 2014

JMG Quote Of The Day - President Obama


"Tomorrow, as we commemorate the 10th annual International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia, we recommit ourselves to the fundamental belief that all people should be treated equally, that they should have the opportunity to reach their fullest potential, and that no one should face violence or discrimination -- no matter who they are or whom they love.

"This year, the United States celebrates the 60th anniversary of Brown v. Board of Education, the 50th anniversary of the Civil Rights Act, and the 45th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. In doing so, we reflect on lessons learned from our own civil rights struggles and reaffirm our commitment to ensuring that the human rights of all people are universally protected.

"At a time when, tragically, we are seeing increased efforts to criminalize or oppress LGBT persons, we call on partners everywhere to join us in defending the equal rights of our LGBT brothers and sisters, and in ensuring they are treated with the dignity and respect they deserve." - President Barack Obama, via press release.


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Via JMG: INDIA: Anti-Gay Hindu Nationalist Party Takes Power In Landslide Election


The right wing Hindu nationalist party that supported India's recent recriminalization of homosexuality has swept to power in a landslide election.

Via the Independent:
India's ruling Congress party admitted defeat this morning as the Narendra Modi wave washed over the country in a scale few had predicted. Initial counting in the country’s general election pointed to a massive victory for his opposition Bharatiya Janata Party and the worst ever performance for the Congress. As noisy victory celebrations involving drums and horns broke out outside the BJP’s headquarters in the centre of Delhi where 100,000 traditional Indian sweets had been ordered in preparation, a few streets away at the Congress’s offices, the mood was grey. “We accept defeat. We are ready to sit in the opposition,” Congress party spokesman Rajeev Shukla told reporters. “Modi promised the moon and stars to the people. People bought that dream.”
From the Associated Press:
Modi's singular message on the economy has helped him ignore or beat back criticism of his personal life -- including his strong links to a right-wing Hindu nationalist group, as well as his four-decade marriage to a retired school teacher he had never mentioned publicly until last month. Born in 1950, Modi will be India's first prime minister born after the country's violent 1947 partition and independence from imperial Britain. His rise marks a paradigm shift for the secular democracy after decades of welfare policies that have emphasized lifting the country's impoverished. Modi has extolled the merits of trickle-down economics through industrialization. He also has maintained strong links with the conservative, paramilitary Hindu nationalist group Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh, or RSS, which some describe as neo-fascist.
From the Voice Of America:
The right-wing Hindu nationalist party will return to its leadership role after 10 years, as the ruling Congress Party conceded defeat Friday. Modi’s critics remain uneasy about how the Hindu nationalist leader will govern a diverse nation with many religious minorities. As governor of Gujarat state, he was criticized for his handling of Hindu-Muslim rioting that killed more than 1,000 people in 2002. India’s Supreme Court cleared Modi of charges that he incited the violence.
(Tipped by JMG reader Jamie)


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Via JMG: COSTA RICA: Newly Elected President Flies Rainbow Flag Over Casa Presidencial


Via the Tico Times:
Just over a week since taking office, President Luis Guillermo Solís made history Friday morning when he became the first Costa Rican leader to raise the rainbow flag of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender movement on even mast with the Costa Rican red-white-and-blue tricolor on the lawn of the Casa Presidencial. Vice President Ana Helena Chacón hoisted the flag in honor of the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia, May 17. “This is the house of all Costa Ricans. When we say all Costa Ricans we mean all, without exclusion, without violence, without harassment in absolute respect for the rights of each one,” Solís told a crowd of LGBT leaders and advocates during his brief comments on the lawn.
LGBT Costa Ricans enjoy protections in employment, public accommodations, and other areas, but same-sex marriage, gay adoption, and military service remain banned. Perhaps that will change soon.
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Via Daily Dharma


The Right Mind | May 16, 2014

If the mind congeals in one place and remains with one thing, it is like frozen water and is unable to be used freely: ice that can wash neither hands nor feet. When the mind is melted and is used like water, extending throughout the body, it can be sent wherever one wants to send it. This is the Right Mind.
 
—Takuan Soho, “The Right Mind and the Confused Mind”