Tuesday, April 30, 2024

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 This Day in Gay History

April 30

Born
L to R: Gertrude Stein, their poodle Basket, and Alice B. Toklas
1877 -

ALICE B. TOKLAS, American companion of Gertrude Stein (d. 1967); There are any number of stories that can be told about this homely woman, ranging from nasty cracks about her spidery mustache to vicious bon mots about the disfiguring hump on her forehead. But there is really only one Alice B., that one very beautiful indeed, who need concern us here.

Throughout most of her life, this selfless woman’s major occupation was the care and maintenance of Gertrude Stein. She was cook, secretary, manager, nurse and lover, and in return received s love as faithful and intense as any recorded in history of friendship. She was also a highly intelligent woman, whose correspondence reveals her to be a writer and commentator no less brilliant than her more famous partner. She called Gertude “Lovey.” Lovely called her “Pussy.” And they lie together, head to head, in Père Lachaise.


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Cultivating Appreciative Joy
Whatever you intend, whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will become the basis upon which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop meditation on appreciative joy, for when you develop meditation on appreciative joy, any discontent will be abandoned. (MN 62) 

Appreciative joy succeeds when it makes discontent subside. (Vm 9.95)
Reflection
The third brahma-vihara, appreciative joy, is not mere joy. It is the gladness that arises when you witness or contemplate the good fortune and happiness of another being. It is a celebration of all that is good in the world, an appreciation of healthy enjoyment itself. If you allow yourself to experience this often, your mind will naturally incline toward this state. It is impossible to feel any discontent when you genuinely feel good about others.

Daily Practice
This is a practice the world needs greatly, and it is deeply healing to the wounded heart. Living beings abide together in such profound interdependence that when relationships are fused with appreciative joy rather than discontent, the entire system becomes healthier. Practice celebrating the good things you see around you every day and use appreciative joy as a powerful antidote whenever you feel discontent.

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