When
lovingkindness encounters the good fortune and happiness of another, it
transforms into appreciative joy. This is the emotion of feeling good
for another person, of being glad that good things are happening for
them. Appreciative joy arises easily for the people we care about, but
so often its opposite—some form of jealousy, envy, or resentment—comes
up for us. The antidote for these forms of discontent is learning how to
feel good for others, which generally takes a lot of practice.
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