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Breathe
in for all those who are suffering and allow yourself to be touched by
their current vulnerability. Breathe out, letting the heartbeat
transform their sorrow: “May all beings be free of suffering.”
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RIGHT MINDFULNESS Establishing Mindfulness of Feeling
A person goes to the forest
or to the root of a tree or to an empty place and sits down. Having
crossed the legs, one sets the body erect. One establishes the presence
of mindfulness. (MN 10) One is aware: "Ardent, fully aware, mindful, I
am content." (SN 47.10)
When feeling a painful feeling, one is aware: "Feeling a painful
feeling . .. . one is just aware, just mindful: 'There is feeling.'" And
one abides not clinging to anything in the world. (MN 10)
Reflection
The second
ground on which mindfulness is established is the realm of feeling
tones. This includes both physical and mental feeling tones, and this
week the unpleasant or painful feeling tones are singled out. Physical
pain is self-evident, but mental pain is often subtler, as is the
transition point between an unpleasant feeling tone and an unhealthy
emotion.
Daily Practice
See if you can
break the reflexive bond between feeling pain and immediately resenting
it or hating it or wishing it would go away. Try instead to examine with
interest and curiosity the texture of the pain: for instance,
is it sharp or dull, throbbing or constant? Pain is an inevitable aspect
of human experience, and all but the most intense pain is bearable.
There is more to learn from facing pain than from attempting to run from
it. So let’s look at it and see what we can learn.
RIGHT CONCENTRATION Approaching and Abiding in the Second Phase of Absorption (2nd Jhāna)
With the stilling of applied and
sustained thought, one enters upon and abides in the second phase of
absorption, which brings inner clarity and singleness of mind, without
applied thought and sustained thought, with joy and the pleasure born of
concentration. (MN 4)
Reflection
The mind is
capable, through training, of becoming more concentrated than is usual
in ordinary daily experience. The Buddha describes this as a natural
process, unfolding as the body and mind become gradually happier and
more tranquil while the mind is focusing on a single object. In the
second phase of this process, discursive thinking gradually fades away
as the feeling of pleasure and well-being grows stronger and deepens.
Daily Practice
As you sit
quietly and focus on your breathing, the thoughts and memories and plans
that so habitually inhabit the mind begin to settle, and the mind
becomes calmer. At a certain point thoughts may cease altogether.
Awareness of sensory experience remains strong, but it is no longer
mediated by words, images, or concepts. The need to re-engage the mind
with an object and hold it there is no longer needed, so these functions
drop away.
Tomorrow: Understanding the Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering One week from today: Establishing Mindfulness of Mind and Abiding in the Third Jhāna
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Let’s say I drive to see somebody who’s dying. I’ve been driving on the
highway. I’ve been thinking about a lot of things, listening to the
radio, maybe chanting the Hanuman Chalisa—I’m somewhere else.
I walk into the room and suddenly I’m a lifeline. I’m a presence for
that person. What I’ve learned to do is just sit down and get there into
the situation. I can say, “I’d like to get here for a few minutes. Why
don’t we just sit quietly together?” I sit there and just feel my way
into what the moment is—the moment is the ticking of the clock or the
moment is a hand I’m holding. Your models of how you are suppose to be
to be useful for another person could be what’s getting in your way.
Trust that you will be open in the way you need to be opened. Maybe not
the way you would think of yourself being opened. But how presumptuous
of you to know what that person needs.
Maybe that person needs you to be a silly toad.
So that when you leave he or she can say, “Well, I know more than she
did. She was no use to me whatsoever.” The models have to be let go of.
You walk into a situation naked, always."
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