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RIGHT ACTION Reflecting Upon Verbal Action However the seed is planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61) When you have done an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal action thus: “Has this action I have done with speech led to both my own affliction and the affliction of another?” If, upon reflection, you know that it has, then tell someone you trust about it and undertake a commitment not to do it again. If you know it has not, then be content and feel happy about it. (MN 61)

Reflection We can use our powers of memory and observation to learn and grow along the path toward greater clarity and self-understanding. We want to do good deeds so that good things will come from that, and one way to do this is to reflect on the impact of our speech on others. If we notice ourselves saying things that cause affliction in ourselves or others, it is beneficial to admit this and learn from it what not to say in the future. Daily Practice As with your physical actions, pay attention to the effects of your verbal actions on other people. Just after you have spoken, notice if what you have said might have hurt someone’s feelings or if it has been insensitive or disrespectful in some unintended way. These days more than ever, we cannot always trust our deeply conditioned habit patterns of speech and need to actively reflect on the effects of our verbal actions. Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action Share your thoughts and join the conversation on social media #DhammaWheel Questions? Visit the Dhamma Wheel orientation page.

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