Monday, August 24, 2026

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August 24


Stephen Fry
1957 -

STEPHEN JOHN FRY  is an English comedian, actor, writer, presenter, and activist born on this date.  With Hugh Laurie, he is half of the comic double act Fry and Laurie, who starred in Jeeves and Wooster.

Fry's acting roles include a Golden Globe–nominated lead performance in the film Wilde, portraying Oscar Wilde, Melchett in the BBC series Blackadder, the title character in the television series Kingdom, a recurring guest role as Dr Gordon Wyatt on the crime series Bones, and as Gordon Deitrich in the dystopian thriller V for Vendetta. He has also written and presented several documentary series, including the Emmy Award–winning Stephen Fry: The Secret Life of the Manic Depressive, which saw him explore his bipolar disorder, and the travel series Stephen Fry in America. He was also the long-time host of the BBC television quiz show OI, with his tenure lasting from 2003 to 2016.

Besides working in television, Fry has contributed columns and articles for newspapers and magazines and written four novels and three volumes of autobiography, Moab is My Washpot, The Fry Chronicles and More Fool Me. He also appears frequently on BBC Radio4, starring in the comedy series Absolute Power, being a frequent guest on panel games such as Just A Minute, and acting as chairman during one series of I'm Sorry I haven't A Clue, where he was one of a trio of possible hosts who were tried out to succeed the late Humphrey Lyttelton, Jack Dee getting the post permanently.

Fry is also known for his voice-overs, reading all seven of the Harry Potter novels for the UK audiobook recordings, narrating the LittleBigPlanet and Birds of Steel series of video games, as well as an animated series of explanations of the laws of cricket, of which he is a particular fan, and a series of animations about Humanism for Humanists UK.

Fry married comedian Elliott Spencer in January 2015. Fry is on cordial terms with Prince Charles, through his work with the Prince's Trust. He attended the Prince's wedding to Camilla Parker-Bowles in 2005. Fry is a friend of comedian and actor (and Blackadder co-star) Rowan Atkinson and was best man at Atkinson's wedding to Sunetra Sastry at the Russian Tea Room in New York City.

Fry struggled to keep his homosexuality secret during his teenage years at public school, and by his own account did not engage in sexual activity for 16 years from 1979 until 1995. When asked when he first acknowledged his sexuality, Fry quipped: "I suppose it all began when I came out of the womb. I looked back up at my mother and thought to myself, 'That's the last time I'm going up one of those'." Fry was in a 15-year relationship with Daniel Cohen, which ended in 2010. Fry was listed #2 in 2016 and #12 in 2017 on the World Pride Power list.

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Don’t Waste This Life
The chance to practice the dharma may not come again. This is why the preciousness of human birth is the first and most important point. We mustn’t waste this life and die with regrets.

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In this talk, Prasadachitta helps us imagine what it must have been like to be in the presence of the Buddha, hearing him speak directly to us in language that is easily understood. 

This helps us answer:
"How do we take ancient, highly analytical Buddhist teachings and make them truly land in our everyday, modern lives?"

He invites us to step away from academic perfectionism and instead embrace the Buddha’s “come and see” invitation to experience a colloquial relationship with the Dharma. 

Prasadachitta explains that he isn’t concerned with strict historical or translation accuracy. Instead, he feels empowered as a practitioner to make these teachings real in his own life, letting the translated phrases of the Karaniya Metta Sutta shift and be rephrased depending on how they “hit” him, trusting that actual practice will naturally self-correct any misunderstandings. To remind us that the Dharma is built to be accessible, he shares the traditional qualities of teaching from the Dharma Vandana, proving that the truth is always meant to be practical:

  • Intelligible and Well-Communicated: The Buddha always met people where they were, using everyday language and lived experiences (like those of farmers or kings) so we can actually do something with what is being communicated.
  • Experienced Here and Now: It is a testable path that we can start practicing and verifying in our lives immediately.
  • Perennial: Its core truths are timeless, surviving any historical or cultural change.
  • Open to Investigation (Ehipassiko): It functions as a personal “come and see” invitation rather than a rigid system demanding blind belief.
  • Progressive: It leads us onward, continuously unpacking new layers of wisdom as we engage with it.
  • Individually Verifiable: It is ultimately validated through our own direct experience, turning us into the wise ones who know peace for themselves.

With this open-minded, personal approach, Prasadachitta guides us directly into the Karaniya Metta Sutta as a highly practical roadmap for our spiritual growth. Rather than treating its instructions as abstract rules, he encourages us to relate to them through our own physical, lived experiences.

  • When the sutta asks us to be upright but “flexible,” he illustrates this with a wonderful story about a flight attendant who playfully deputized snack-stealing kids to help her hand out peanuts, transforming a potential moment of conflict into an act of community.
  • To make the sutta’s famous instruction to love “as a mother cherishes her only child” real for himself, he connects it to his own mother’s “rough” but deep, physical hugs that he can still feel in his body today.
  • By bringing our own imagination and personal memories into the practice, we learn to cultivate a fierce, boundless goodwill that moves us from everyday “eminence” to spiritual “transcendence”.

Ultimately, Prasadachitta promises that as we rest in this unlimited kindness, we naturally let go of our rigid views, become spontaneously ethical, and experience a quiet, complete sense of freedom.

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Sunday, August 23, 2026

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 A Voice for Peace in Stockholm

Ven. Pannakara Thero addressing the World Peace Award International Conference in Stockholm, Sweden.
A gathering of hearts, cultures, and nations united by one timeless hope — peace.
May this gathering become another bridge of friendship, understanding, compassion, and peace between all people. 🤍🕊️
🙏 May you and all beings be well, happy, and at peace.

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Earlier today, Venerable Bhikku Pannakara graciously accepted the World Peace Award in Stockholm Sweden.
Most Venerable Ratanuguna, Phra Supalak, Phra Ponchai Khamyaem, and Venerable Pongsawat were in the audience. And I believe Venerable Samma Maggo, too!
Below is my transcript. I may have gotten a word or two wrong; any and all mistakes are solely mine.
"Respected Maha Sangha, faith leaders, professors, scholars, government officials, and everyone here.
Today I stand before you with deep gratitude, receiving the World Peace Award here in Stockholm, is a great honor. I accept it with humility, not as something belonging to me alone, but as recognition of every person who still believes that peace is possible and is willing to work for it.
On October 29, 2025, at the gate of the Huang Dao Vipassana Center in Fort Worth, Texas, USA, before me was a road that would take us across to the United States. Beside me were Theravada monks from the United States, Thailand, Laos, and Myanmar. We carried our robes, our bowls, and a simple message: Peace must begin within each of us.
For 112 days, we walked approximately 2,300 miles or 3,700 km. We passed through 10 states before arriving in Washington, DC. We walked through small towns, crowded cities, rain, cold winds, and many difficult days. The true meaning of the Walk for Peace was not found in the number of miles we traveled. It was found in the people waiting beside the road.
We met here, holding handmade signs. We met veterans, police officers, firefighters, nurses, teachers, emigrants, public officials, and families who had driven for hours just to stand with us for a few moments. Some offered flowers, some offered food and water, and many offered their tears. They did not cry because they were weak. They cried because something within them had been waiting to hear that peace was still possible.
I did not have a gift, and of course, when people come to us with questions like, "Can you help me find peace?" I wish I had something like that to give, but of course, I did not have a gift that I could place into their hands. Peace cannot be handed from one person to another. It cannot be purchased with money, received through an award, or imposed by force. We may pray for it and speak about it, but unless we learn to care for the anger, fear, and sorrow within ourselves, peace will remain only a beautiful word.
If a person is hungry, watching someone else eat will not remove their hunger. In the same way, listening to others speak about peace will not bring peace into our hearts unless we practice it ourselves.
This is why our walk was not a protest against anyone. We did not walk to defeat a political party, condemn a nation, or persuade anyone to follow our religion. We walk to remind the human family of something we already know but often forget.
Every person wants to live without fear. Every parent wants a safe future for their children. Every child deserves to grow up without being taught to hate someone they have never met.
Across America, I met with so many people from different bases, languages, religions, and political beliefs. I saw the same human heart. That heart can be wounded, but it can also be healed. It can hold anger, but it can learn forgiveness. It can become divided by fear, but it can return to compassion.
Our world moves very fast. Information reaches us within a second, but understanding often arrives too late. We react before we listen. We judge before we know the whole story. We speak while anger is still burning, and our words travel further than we ever intended.
A war begins long before the first weapon is fired. It begins when fear is allowed to grow without understanding. It begins when we stop seeing the humanity of those who are different from us. It begins when another person becomes only a laborer, an enemy, or an obstacle.
The same pattern can begin in our homes and communities. Every harsh word adds something to the world. Every act of patience adds something to peace. Peace is not only the work of presidents, diplomats, religious leaders, or international organizations. It is also decided at the dinner table, in the classroom, at the workplace, and in the moment when we choose to enter anger with more anger.
Peace does not require everyone to think alike. It asks us to remember that disagreement does not remove another person's human worth. It is easy to speak about peace among people who already agree with us. The true work begins when we meet someone whose beliefs are very different from our own. Can we listen without preparing an attack? Can we disagree without humiliation? Can we protect our convictions without treating another person as an enemy?
Those of us who speak about peace also must examine ourselves. We cannot call for harmony in public while creating division in private. We cannot ask nations to forgive while refusing to forgive within our own families and communities.
We cannot expect society to become kinder if our own words continue to carry anger and contempt. Peace begins within us, but it cannot remain there. Inner peace must become compassionate action. It must feed the hungry, comfort the grieving, protect children, care for animals, welcome the stranger, and stand beside those who feel forgotten. A peaceful heart does not withdraw from the suffering of the world. It enters that suffering without adding more hatred to it.
Today, a [distant- not certain this is the correct word] message has brought us to Sweden. Stockholm is known around the world as a place where great achievements are honored and serious conversations about how humanity's future are held. Yet peace cannot live only in ceremonies, conference rooms, or official declarations. It must enter our daily lives. It must guide how we speak, how we lead, how we treat other people when no one is watching.
I receive this award on behalf of the monks who walk beside me, the volunteers who serve quietly, the officers who protect us, and the people of many faiths who pray in their own ways along the road. I also receive it for every person who came to us carrying a private shawl and hoping that peace was still within reach. This award does not mark the end of our work. It gives us a greater responsibility. Recognition gives us a voice, a further reach, but what matters is how that voice is used.
I will continue to use mine for non-violence, compassion, understanding, and dignity for every human life. Today, I ask each person here to make one quiet commitment: do not wait for someone else to begin. Choose one place in your life where peace has been missing, and take one honest step towards it. A single step may not carry us across the nation, but without that first step, no one crossed the road. One voice may not end the war, but it can prevent hatred from entering another part. One act of compassion may seem small, but to the person who receives it, that act may change everything.
May those living in war find safety. May those separated from their families be reunited. May those carrying hatred find the courage to put it down. May those who have lost hope find a reason to begin again. May every child inherit a world in which differences do not become a reason for violence.
From Stockholm, let us send a message beyond this hall, beyond Sweden, and beyond every border: Peace is not someone else's responsibility. Peace is not a dream for another time. Peace begins here. Peace begins now. Peace begins within each of us.
I hope that if you already listened to my talk, if we don't give our mind a wholesome thing to do in the morning when we wake up, then our mind will automatically pick up all the trash to chew it over and over. Trash means all those unhappy things: hatred, anger, delusion, greed, so on. Once our minds are filled with all those defilements, we will mess up our day.
Before we mess up our day in the morning when we wake up, always remember to make our own bed and then get a piece of paper and a pen out. Write down the statement called "Who Knows That Statement?" Raise your hand. That statement says: "Today is going to be my peaceful day!" You begin your day just like that. Just write that statement now: "Today is going to be my peaceful day." Instead of letting your mind be filled with anger, greed, and delusion, now we wire our mind to have a wholesome message, which is "Today is going to be my peaceful day." Write that down, read it over and over with our eyes, and then read it out loud to tell the universe that today is going to be my peaceful day.
It's mine, no one else's, and I am the only person in this world who can mess it up, no one else, because I have a choice: I have a choice to mess it up or not. To determine that today is going to be my peaceful day, tell the universe that positive statement, because we've been spreading hate, delusion, greed, and all those unwholesome things to the universe already, so much from generation after generation. That is why the universe returns with disasters, and then we suffer.
So now, we need to change by spreading only loving kindness, compassion, and mindfulness to the universe. By doing that message, that statement, "Today is going to be my peaceful day," and then throughout our day, just live peacefully, mindfully, one task at a time, because we've been multitasking also, not every day, not just every day, but right now.
Earlier, when I talked, most of you will were also sidetrack. Do you know what you sidetrack with? With the slide of the video earlier, so when your eyes catch that, your ear cannot listen to me, cannot hear what I said. Is that true? Because all I can only pick up one thing at a time. When we pay attention to this, (gestures at screen)we are not paying attention to this (points to ear). When we pay attention to this, we cannot pay attention to that, so one thing at a time.
We are multitasking ourselves every day and for many years already. That is why we suffer. That is why we are not mindful enough to live a peaceful day. Now is our chance to work on it, to build peace within ourselves. May you all be well, be happy, and be peaceful. Thank you so much."

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Alan Watts – Being in the Way – Ep. 41 – The Web of Life

August 20, 2026

Alan Watts – Being in the Way – Ep. 41 – The Web of Life

Alan Watts reveals the harmony of embracing our human role while also recognizing that we are the entire cosmos. Today’s episode is brought to...

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"My basic method is Guru Kripa, or grace of the guru. I play games with my guru. He and I sort of play hide and seek all the time, he keeps coming to me as people. I think I am meeting you, but I don’t realize that you are Maharaji in drag – coming to test me about my practice. My practice is a weave of life."
 
- Ram Dass

Source: Ram Dass – Here and Now – Ep. 151 – Entering into the One