A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Notice
that everything you usually take yourself to be is an object that can
be observed. You can describe your body, your feelings, your thoughts,
and your memories. If they can be known, they cannot be your true self,
because their very existence implies a subject that knows them.
Exploring
Zen’s Three Tenets, Roshi Wendy Egyoku Nakao explains how
not-knowing—in addition to bearing witness and taking action—can help us
stay centered.
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Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on equanimity, for when you develop meditation on equanimity,
all aversion is abandoned. (MN 62)
The function of equanimity is to see equality in beings. (Vm 9.93)
Having heard a sound with the ear, one is neither glad-minded nor
sad-minded but abides with equanimity, mindful and fully aware. (AN 6.1)
Reflection
Equanimity is the active ingredient in mindfulness practice. Here we see it as the fourth of the brahma-viharas.
Equanimity means an evenly balanced mind, like a plate on a stick that
inclines neither toward nor away from an object of experience. It is the
midpoint between greed (attraction) and hatred (aversion), and is
therefore a state in which the mind can be free from the influence of
both.
Daily Practice
As we cycle
through the senses, we are encouraged here to work with the sense
modality of sound. So often we reach for the sounds that we like and
make us feel good, and avoid or recoil from the sounds that we don’t
like and make us feel bad. At this basic level of sensory input, can you
practice being mindful and fully aware of a sound without either
favoring or opposing it? Try to let the sound be what it is, without
relating it to yourself and your preferences.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Frivolous Speech One week from today: Cultivating Lovingkindness
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