A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
To
be in a real relationship, a loving relationship, is simply to be
willing to respond and be there for the other person without always
calculating what we are going to get out of it.