A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on lovingkindness, for when you develop meditation on
lovingkindness, all ill will will be abandoned. (MN 62)
The characteristic of lovingkindness is promoting welfare. (Vm 9.93)
Reflection
One of the
great insights of Buddhist practice is that who you are at any given
moment is not set in stone, is not a matter of chance, and is not shaped
by others. In every mind moment you are shaping who you will become in
the next moment. Understanding this is profoundly empowering, for it
gives you an opportunity to decide for yourself that you will be a
better person in the future by being a better person now.
Daily Practice
Kindness can
become an ongoing practice, a habit of mind and heart that tries at
every opportunity to wish the best for others. It is not a matter of
liking people as much as wishing them well and caring for their
well-being. Practice targeting random people you encounter throughout
the day and wishing them well. Notice the subtle effect this has on your
own mind, squeezing out any annoyance or resentment you might otherwise
feel.
Tomorrow: Refraining from False Speech One week from today: Cultivating Compassion
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As tenzo
[head cook] you should not be away from the sink when the rice for the
noon meal is being washed. Watch closely with clear eyes; do not waste
even one grain. Wash it in the proper way, put it in pots, make a fire,
and boil it. An ancient master said, 'When you boil rice, know that the
water is your own life.'