Monday, May 10, 2021

Via FB // Rest in power, Alireza

 

In a future Baha’i government homosexuality will be banned and for those who engage in homosexual “behaviors” will face a punishment that has yet to be determined by the Universal House of Justice, the international governing body of the Baha’i Faith, most Baha’is are clueless about this future punishment yet to be prescribed and for that I say “shame”, shame on them for their ignorance when they claim modernity, progressiveness, and uniting the hearts of mankind, for those who know about this disturbing future punishment, you are all cowards in your silence. If the Baha’i Faith is to pick up where Shia Islam left off we are doomed, but there’s a ray of hope and that is to re-examine the “translation by committee” of the Kitab-i-Aqdas (The Most Holy Book, the Book of Laws) and the Guardian’s very human fallibility, Baha’u’llah spoke against pederasty (child molestation) not adult same sex relationships. Let’s not go down the path of the Shia fanatics in Iran the home of the Baha’i Faith, we have the tools laid out by Baha’u’llah to build a future civilization based on Oneness , Love, Logic, and one that embraces Science, let’s strive for that and do better by our LGBTQ Baha’i Brothers and Sisters.

20-year-old Alireza Fazeli-Monfared, a young gay man living in Iran, has been brutally beheaded in a suspected honour killing. Three close male relatives, reported to be his brother and two cousins, have been arrested.

Videos of Alireza shared on social media paint a picture of a vibrant, charismatic youth who loved fashion and lip-syncing to his favorite songs on TikTok. Reports say he had been planning to flee to Turkey with his boyfriend at the time of his killing.

Alireza's violent and untimely death cannot be in vain: his voice may have been silenced, but those of his community must continue to rise up and demand a world where such horror is no longer possible.

Rest in power, Alireza. 

 

https://www.out.com/crime/2021/5/10/20-year-old-man-reportedly-beheaded-family-being-gay

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Paralympian Angela Madsen
1960 -

ANGELA MADSEN, was an American Paralympian sportswoman in both rowing and track and field born on this date. In a long career, Madsen moved from race rowing to ocean challenges before switching in 2011 to athletics, winning a bronze medal in the shot put at the 2012 Summer Paralympics in London. Madsen and teammate Helen Taylor were the first women to row across the Indian Ocean. She died in June 2020 while attempting a solo row from Los Angeles to Honolulu. Her heroic story rivals Greek tragedy.

At 6 feet 1 inch tall, Angela excelled at basketball and played for the Marine Corps women’s team. During practice one day, she fell forward and someone stepped on her back. She had two ruptured disks and a damaged sciatic nerve and for a time could not walk.

With therapy, she slowly recovered. She found work as a mechanic in the Sears automotive department and later at U-Haul. But she could not keep up such physically demanding work and took a desk job as a mechanical engineer.

Then in 1992 she broke a leg and some ribs in a car accident. Already suffering from spinal degeneration from the basketball injury, she had corrective surgery the next year, which left her with both legs paralyzed.

After the surgery, the woman who had been her romantic partner for four years left, saying she “did not sign on to be with someone in a wheelchair,” according to Ms. Madsen’s memoir, “Rowing Against the Wind” (2014).

The partner took her car, her disability checks and her savings, Ms. Madsen wrote. With no money for rent, she was evicted. She stored a few possessions in a locker at Disneyland and lived on the streets with her dog for a couple of months, until she was helped by the Paralyzed Veterans of America. Then came an accident in the San Francisco subway in which she plunged headfirst from her wheelchair onto the train tracks. It left her with a mild brain injury but led her to realize that she had more to be grateful for than sorry about, and she resolved to shape her own destiny.

Always athletic, she turned to competitive sports. She got involved with the Veterans Wheelchair Games, and in 1995 won three gold medals: in swimming, the wheelchair slalom course and billiards.

By 1998 she had discovered adaptive rowing for athletes with physical disabilities, and by 1999 she had joined her first ocean rowing regatta.

Even cancer and a double mastectomy did not slow her down.

She trained, raced, coached and surfed, as a 2015 documentary on her achievements makes clear. She founded the California Adaptive Rowing Program. She won four gold medals with the U.S. rowing team at the world championships and competed in three Paralympic Games, winning a bronze medal for the shot put in London in 2012.

Ms. Madsen aimed to be the first rower with paraplegia, the first openly gay athlete and, at 60, the oldest woman to do so.

She was two months in and halfway to Hawaii when she discovered a problem with the hardware for her parachute anchor, which deploys in heavy seas to stabilize the craft.

She met Debra Moeller, a social worker, in 2007 when Debra brought a disabled and abused child to Angela’s adaptive rowing program. They married in 2013.

She had been in constant contact with her wife in Long Beach, Calif., by text and satellite phone, and Angela was posting pictures and observations on social media for those following her voyage. Debra said in an interview that when she warned that a cyclone was coming, Angela knew she had to fix the hardware, which would require tethering herself to the boat and getting in the water.

“Tomorrow is a swim day,” Angela posted on Twitter on Saturday, June 20. On Sunday, there were no messages from her. As the day wore on, Debra grew more worried. She could tell from tracking data that the boat was not being rowed. At around 10:30 p.m. she texted Angela that their friend Soraya Simi, who is making a documentary about Angela, was calling the Coast Guard.

At around 8 p.m. Monday, the Coast Guard spotted her in the water, lifeless and tethered to her boat.

The plane couldn’t land. But the Coast Guard had already diverted a German-flagged cargo ship en route, to Tahiti from Oakland, to retrieve her. The ship was able to recover Ms. Madsen’s body on Monday night, but not her boat. The ship reached Tahiti on Tuesday.

Debra Madsen said she may never know what happened, unless Angela, who was keeping a video diary, had turned on one of her cameras.

She said Angela might have been caught in her tether, or developed hypothermia without knowing it. She might also have had a heart attack or other illness.

The answer may lie in the boat, still adrift in the Pacific. Debra is trying to arrange for its retrieval, which will be costly, and for Angela’s body to be transported to Hawaii for cremation and burial at sea with military honors.

“I want her to complete her journey,” she said.

Via Daily Dharma: Loosening the Grip of Fear

Generosity is an antidote to fear. When you practice being generous with your time, your joy, and your spirit, fear loosens its grip.

—Marc Lesser, “Do Less, Accomplish More”

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Sunday, May 9, 2021

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At one point Maharaji said, “See everything as the Mother and you will know God.” What was he talking about? Seeing your mother in everything?

By telling us to see everything as the Mother, I think Maharaji meant us to use every detail of life as grist for the mill of our spiritual development. Every experience is a mirror reflecting where we are in our consciousness and our work of the moment. In the compassionate embrace of the Mother the layers of old habits, preconceptions, and residues of past experiences can dissolve in the ocean of maternal affection.⁣

- Ram Dass -

Via Daily Dharma: Facing Motherhood’s Challenge

 My most important job as a mother, it turns out, is to struggle with my own pain and anger, to live up to the vow I have made to myself: to love my child well.

—Kate Brandt, “When the World Is Perfect”

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Saturday, May 8, 2021

Matthew 23: 13 English Standard Version

Matthew 23: 13   English Standard Version

“But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! 
For you shut the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. 
For you neither enter yourselves nor allow those who would enter to go in."

Via Daily Dharma: Embracing Stress

 If you are stressed out, then it is part of your meditation to become fully aware of being stressed out. Don’t make a big effort to push it aside, don’t try to be some other way... The minute you embrace that fact, you will actually become less stressed and more awake. 

—Lewis Richmond, “To Be Real”

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A Grand Evening Out (virtually!)

 


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Friday, May 7, 2021

Via Daily Dharma: Committing to Practice

We practice to be liberated. We practice because it seems impossible; we practice to reclaim that sense of possibility.

—Christina Feldman, “Long Journey to a Bow”

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Via NBC // Queer Love in Color

 


‘Queer Love in Color’: Photo book celebrates diverse LGBTQ relationships

The journalist Jamal Jordan documents the joys and romances queer couples of color around the world share — but don’t often see represented.
 
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Thursday, May 6, 2021

Via FB // Chasten Buttigieg

 "I gained twenty pounds during COVID and felt awful about it. Then a good friend told me ‘maybe just dress the body you have and stop worrying about it. So I finally went and bought new pants. I’m very grateful for having such good friends… and also for these bigger pants. This past year has put us all through a heck of a lot. If you, like a lot of us, gained some weight while trying to survive a deadly global pandemic, consider me officially on your ‘wgaf?’ team.”

—Activist Chasten Buttigieg, husband of Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg, confessing to his own weight gain during the COVID-19 lockdowns. The “wgaf” reference is an abbreviation for “Who gives a f*ck.”

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Via NY Times // Repairing Generations of Trauma, One Lotus Flower at a Time

 

Repairing Generations of Trauma, One Lotus Flower at a Time

The lotus flower, blooming out of muddy waters, has long been a symbol of rising above suffering. In the wake of Anti-Asian attacks, spiritual leaders hope it can help heal the trauma of racial violence in the U.S.

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Via Tricycle // The Land of Many Dharmas

 


The Land of Many Dharmas
By Rev. Dr. Kenneth Tanaka
For the first time in Buddhism’s history, all major Buddhist denominations in the world today coexist in one country: The United States. Rev. Dr. Kenneth Tanaka surveys the landscape of the new Buddhist melting pot.
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Via Daily Dharma: Cultivating Gratitude

The Buddha encouraged us to think of the good things done for us by our parents, by our teachers, friends, whomever; and to do this intentionally, to cultivate it, rather than just letting it happen accidentally.

—Ajahn Sumedho, “The Gift of Gratitude”

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