Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Via Sojourn Blog: More Than Just Male and Female: The Six Genders in Classical Judaism

It's very easy to assume that Judaism is an exclusively gender-binary religion. Almost all of the common traditional laws are based on the assumed differences between males and females. We see it in assumed gender roles, in liturgy, in proscribed family responsibilities, and in both our secular and religious laws. 

If, however, we look just a bit deeper into our sacred texts, we see that a simple male/female binary is not only cumbersome, it's wholly inaccurate. This description from Trans Torah/Rabbi Elliot Kukla starts the conversation that we will continue throughout the summer:

  •  Zachar/זָכָר: This term is derived from the word for a pointy sword and refers to a phallus. It is usually translated as “male” in English.

  • Nekeivah/נְקֵבָה: This term is derived from the word for a crevice and probably refers to a vaginal opening. It is usually translated as “female” in English.

  • Androgynos/אַנְדְּרוֹגִינוֹס: A person who has both “male” and “female” sexual characteristics. 149 references in Mishna and Talmud (1st-8th Centuries CE); 350 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes (2nd -16th Centuries CE).

  • Tumtum/ טֻומְטוּם A person whose sexual characteristics are indeterminate or obscured. 181 references in Mishna and Talmud; 335 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.

  • Ay’lonit/איילונית: A person who is identified as “female” at birth but develops “male” characteristics at puberty and is infertile. 80 references in Mishna and Talmud; 40 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.

  • Saris/סריס: A person who is identified as “male” at birth but develops “female” characteristics as puberty and/or is lacking a penis. A saris can be “naturally” a saris (saris hamah), or become one through human intervention (saris adam). 156 references in mishna and Talmud; 379 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.  


There's a huge amount of information to unpack here, and we'll be continuing all summer long to do just that, including looking at the legal obligations of each of the genders and what the real-world application of this information is. For now, though, the main point to take from all of this: The male/female binary is not, in any way, the exclusive system of gender classification in traditional Judaism*.  

So how did we get to this point, where the assumption has become that only male and female exist? It's a classic example of commonality being equated to superiority. Because male and female are the two most common categories, they were assumed to be "better," rather than "typical." As we have come to understand the complexities of gender more and more in secular society, these Judaic classifications are beginning to appear more and more often and we can clearly see that our ancestors were quite progressive when it comes to gender.

Because, as Ben Bagbag says in Pirkei Avot 5:22:

בן בגבג אומר, הפוך בה והפך בה, והגי בה דכולא בה, ובה תחזי, סיב ובלי בה; ומינה לא תזוז, שאין לך מידה טובה יותר ממנה

Ben Bagbag said: Turn it [Torah] over and turn it over because everything is in it. Look within it and grow old within it; do not move from it, because there is no better attribute for you to have than it.

*Here is a fascinating article that goes more in-depth on the subject:  Gender Identity In Halakhic Discourse by Charlotte Elisheva Fonrobert.

Make the jump here to read the  original

Mr. Deity and the Quitter


Brendan Maclean - The Feeling Again (Official Video)


Via Shift of the Ages / FB:


Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 08/07/2015

“O que está por trás da acusação, do ciúme, da posse, das disputas e de todos os jogos da luxúria? É você acreditar que sua felicidade depende do outro. Essa é a ilusão básica que faz de você um escravo do outro.”

“¿Qué hay detrás de la acusación, de los celos, de la posesión, de las disputas y de todos los juegos de la lujuria? Es creer que tu felicidad depende del otro. Esa es la ilusión básica que te hace un esclavo del otro.”

“What is behind accusation, jealousy, possession, conflict, and all the other games of lust? It is the belief that our happiness depends on the other. This is the basic illusion that makes us a slave to the other.”

Today's Daily Dharma: Reach Out to Let Go

Reach Out to Let Go
Anger doesn't just happen to us. If we're able to catch an angry thought as it's budding, we can let it go. The same is true of despair or hopelessness. And when letting go is too difficult, a good medicine for dealing with these emotions is to reach out and help others, healing them and ourselves.
 
John Daido Loori Roshi, "Between Two Mountains"

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Today's Daily Dharma: Abandoning Preconceptions

Abandoning Preconceptions
It is good to remember that a new or an old way of considering and dealing with life is not false just because it surprises us or contradicts our theories. A sincere seeker should compare ideas for the purpose of gaining a closer fix on truth.
 
Bhikkhu Nyanasobhano, "Selective Wisdom"

Via The Easier Softer Way Meditation / FB: Daily Mindfulness 7/6/15 - Actions

The Easier Softer Way Meditation's photo. 

"Whatsoever you do with awareness is meditation. Action is not the question, but the quality that you bring to your action. Walking can be a meditation if you walk alertly. Sitting can be a meditation if you sit alertly. Listening to the birds can be a meditation if you listen with awareness. Just listening to the inner noise of your mind can be a meditation if you remain alert and watchful."
-Osho


Mindfulness Practice for the Day: Today, bring awareness to your actions throughout the day. Take one action (such as walking, listening, or speaking), and make the effort to bring mindfulness to the action.

Via Portal Brasil (March 20):



Ministra do Supremo Tribunal Federal (STF), Cármem Lúcia, manteve decisão que autorizou a adoção de crianças por um casal homoafetivo do Paraná. Para a ministra o conceito de família não pode ser restrito por se tratar de casais homoafetivos. 


Leia aqui: http://goo.gl/896ZEb

Marriage Equality: Bring Your Family With You


Via HuffPost Live / FB: Jesus would approve of same-sex marriage, former President Jimmy Carter said Tuesday.





"I believe Jesus would approve gay marriage, but that's just my own personal belief," the Democrat said in an interview on HuffPost Live. 

"I think Jesus would encourage any love affair if it was honest and sincere and was not damaging to anyone else, and I don't see that gay marriage damages anyone else," he added.

Supporters have hailed the Supreme Court's June 26 decision to strike down state bans on same-sex marriage and legalize it across the country, while opponents have blasted the 5-4 decision as judicial overreach.

Carter, 90, has stepped out for several interviews to promote his new book, which was published Tuesday.

Make the jump here to see the  full article

Via Tricycle:



Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 07/07/2015

“Quando começa a compreender e a se afinar com a prática do silêncio, você percebe um grande barulho interno, muita agitação e ansiedade, um turbilhão de sentimentos. No início, essa prática exige esforço, mas aos poucos você vai aprendendo a lidar com o tumulto até que consegue atravessá-lo e começa a entrar em estado de comunhão com o Ser. Quando isso acontece, o silêncio pode tomar a forma de muitas coisas belas, como uma música ou uma poesia.”

“Cuando comienzas a comprender y afinarte con la práctica del silencio, percibes un gran ruido interno, mucha agitación y ansiedad, un torbellino de sentimientos. Al principio esta práctica exige esfuerzo, pero, poco a poco, vas aprendiendo a lidiar con el tumulto hasta que consigues atravesarlo y comienzas a entrar en estado de comunión con el Ser. Cuando esto sucede, el silencio puede tomar la forma de muchas cosas bellas, como una música o una poesía.”

"When we begin to understand and align ourselves with the practice of silence, we perceive a vast internal noisiness, a lot of agitation and anxiety. A whirlwind of feelings emerges. At first, this practice takes effort, but gradually we will learn how to deal with the turmoil until we are able to navigate through it. Then we begin to enter into a state of communion with our Being. When this happens, silence can take the form of many beautiful things, such as music or poetry."

Via Blue Nation Review: Thank you, President Obama. We appreciate your support!


On June 26th, 2003, the Supreme Court struck down sodomy laws in Lawrence v. Texas.

On June 26th, 2013, the Supreme Court gutted the Defense of Marriage Act in United States v. Windsor.

On June 26th, 2015, the Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage across the nation in Obergefell v. Hodges.

And now, President Barack Obama says he plans to make June 26th “Equality Day.”

According to OUT.com, President Obama told Marc Maron on his podcast, WTF With Marc Maron, that he feels June 26th should be a holiday:
“These folks are heroes and deserve to be recognized for their courage and sacrifice. I can’t think of anything more deserving of a national holiday than the fight for equality. Our nation was founded on a bedrock principle that we are all created equal.”

He promised action:
“I will be urging congress to honor the LGBT community with a federal holiday, until then I will issue by executive order declaring June 26th, 2016 National Equality Day.”

Thank you, President Obama. We appreciate your support.

Monday, July 6, 2015

Via JMG: USA Wins Women's World Cup, Champion Abby Wambach Rushes To Kiss Her Wife



 
Via SB Nation: "For the first time in her career, Abby Wambach is a World Cup winner. And after the final whistle blew in the United States' 5-2 win over Japan, she sprinted over to the stands to find her wife, Sarah Huffman, who was sitting in the front row with the rest of the American supporters."
 
 



Reposted from Joe Jervis

Marriage News is Wrapping Up: July 6 MNW


Via Sukhasiddhi Dag Shang Kagyu / FB:



"Si queremos una Paz dotada de Vida, deberíamos de concebirla y nutrirla primero en nuestro interior, en la matriz de nuestro Corazón."

"Surah of Blood" (Surat ad-Dam or Súrih-i-Damm)

Provisional trans. by Juan R.I. Cole, History, University of Michigan,
Ann Arbor, MI  48105-1045; revised Jan. 27-28, 1996.  Supplied for
personal, private study only.  Not Reviewed.
 
We have caused this Surah of Blood to surge forth from the
Ocean of the Unseen, that it might be a sign of My Manifestation
among all created things.

 He is eternally seated upon the Throne!  In My Name, the
Glorious, the All-Glorious:
 Hearken, O Muhammad, to the voice of thy Lord from this
station, which is exalted above the reach of all contingent beings.  It
can never be attained by the hearts of His creatures nor by the inmost
realities of those who have, for a single instant, been heedless of this
sanctified, mighty and concealed Cause.
 Say: O people, hasten unto the sanctuary of God and His
essence, unto the House of God and His Selfhood, unto the
Manifestation of God and His sovereignty.  Be not of them that make
mention of God with their lips and yet show forth opposition to His
signs.  Say: O people, this is a station around which circles the
Concourse on High, then the denizens of the canopy of eternity and
those who dwell beyond the depths of grandeur, if ye be of them that
comprehend.  Say: This is the Shrine, the Presence, the Countenance
and the Greatness of God Himself.
 Arise and issue forth from your homes, O people of the
concourse of Divinity, and ye of the grades of divine Dominion, then
the people of might in the stations both of this earthly world and the
Kingdom of Heaven.  Thus may ye attain unto this station, which none
have reached save those who detached themselves from all in heaven
and on earth, and from all that is characterized by name, description,
direction or allusion, did ye but understand.  Say: O people, this is the
station of God, this is His Court, Garden and Paradise, and this is His
Tabernacle and Pavilion.  Beware, O people, lest ye turn your faces
toward anyone but Him.  Hasten then unto Him, that mayhap ye will
be given to eat of the fruits of the Spirit.  This is a station wherein the
righteous, and they that circle round the Throne on High, have halted,
as ye also bear witness.
 As for thee, O Muhammad, perform what the tongue of thy
Lord doth counsel thee at this time, and accomplish all that which thou
art bidden by God, the Protector, the Almighty, the Beloved.  First of
all, tear the veils of vain imagination from about thy heart by My
mighty, powerful and unquestioned Sovereignty.  Then enter the
fortress of the All-Merciful in My Name, the Mighty, the Glorified,
and pay no heed to all that hath been and shall be.  If thou shouldst
behold Satan seated at its gate, forbidding thee to enter therein, close
thine eyes to him and take refuge in My Beauty, the Blessed, the Help
in Peril, the Adored.  Beware lest ye sit with those in whom thou
perceivest the evidences of malice, as heat is evident in summer or cold
in poison.  Flee from them and their ilk, and look not upon them nor
that which they possess.  Turn thy gaze rather to My Cause, and that
which surpasseth in excellence all else, did ye but perceive it.
 If thou dost wish to travel in various lands, then do thou spread
the dawning lights of thy Lord throughout those realms.  Think thou
upon the handiwork of thy Lord which thou seest, that thou mayest be
of those who consider.  Adorn thyself with My character, in such wise
that should anyone treat thee unjustly thou wouldst take no heed of
him, nor oppose him.  Leave him to the judgment of thy Lord, the
Powerful, Omnipotent and Self-Subsisting.  Be at all times a wronged
one, for this is one of My attributes, though none but the sincere are
aware of it.  Verily, the sighs of patience uttered by one wronged are
more precious to God than any other deed, did ye but know.
Therefore, be patient in the face of whatever befalleth thee, and set thy
trust in thy Lord God in all thine affairs.  He, verily, doth suffice thee
against all the harm which any created thing can wreak toward thee,
and preserveth thee in the shelter of His Cause and the mighty fortress
of His guardianship.  There is no God but Him.  His are the worlds of
creation and command, and all seek His aid.
 Should anyone slander thee, thou must not retaliate against him
in kind lest thou become as he is.  Turn aside from him, and set thy
face toward the holy tabernacle in this exalted and sacred canopy.  Be
among men as a sweet-scented knoll, that the fragrance of sanctity
may be wafted among them.  In such wise, thou mightest succeed in
attracting them to the court of the holy and Beloved One.  Shouldst
thou find a helper among the friends of God, seek his company at
eventide and dawn, throughout the months and years.  In all matters,
emulate God, thy Succorer.  Walk among men with His dignity and
peace, and teach them the Cause of their Lord to the extent that they
are able to hear it.
 O hoopoe of Sheba, go thou with My book to the cities of
God.  Should the other birds ask thee concerning the dove of holiness,
say:  "When I left her, she was sore-pressed in the talons of denial and
the beaks of wickedness.  She had no helper save God, Who created
her, formed her and made her the lamp of His beauty between the
heavens of the earth, if ye be possessed of certainty."
 Shouldst thou find one of My lovers, if he asks about Me say:
"By God, I went up out of the Prison City (Adrianople) at a time when
Husayn was lying upon the ground, while Disgrace knelt upon His
breast and desired to behead Him.  The spears were standing before
His head, and He expected it to be raised aloft upon them.  Such was
the situation in inmost secrecy, if ye be of them that perceive.  I then
saw Him move His lips, and gaze toward the heavens with a look such
as would rend every heart, and beyond them the heart of God, the
Protector, the Mighty, the Self-Subsisting.  I moved My head close to
His lips, and heard that He was beneath the sword, saying `O people!
By God, I have not spoken to you out of selfish desire!  Nay, rather I
have given voice to that which the Speaker on Sinai uttered in My
most pure and sanctified breast.  The verses of God leave no doubt as
to what hath been foreordained in the realm of the divine Decree, or as
to that which is in this world and the next.  O ye who have joined
partners with God, inhale the scent of these verses that have descended
from the realm of the divine Essence, from the King of names and
attributes.  Should ye perceive therein the fragrance of the coat of the
beloved Joseph, then show mercy toward Him and put Him not to
death with the blades of malice, if ye see with the eyes of  justice and
are equitable in yourselves.
 "`O people!  I bolted up the gates of paradise for twenty years,
lest anything issue from My lips which might cause the fire of hatred to
blaze forth in your breasts.  To this beareth witness the Tongue of
Grandeur, then the Pen of Command upon the holy and guarded
Tablets.  O people, I verily am `Ali (the Bab), and this is but another
Return after the first.  I have demonstrated to ye at this time the
greatest of the things I manifested aforetime.  I have come from the
fountainhead of grandeur and glory, and the treasure hold of exaltation
and majesty, with verses of which not a single letter hath heretofore
been revealed in this world.  This Tablet is My proof among ye, to ye
and against ye, if ye be of them that comprehend.
 "'O people, God is My witness that I remained silent in My
house, and gave voice to no melody.  However, the Spirit set my limbs
quaking, and caused Me to speak forth with the Truth.  Its features
then appeared in My face, if ye descry My beauty.  I barred the doors
of utterance for lo, these many years, but the tongue of God hath
loosened My tongue, did ye but know.  Will ye slay Him by whose
Command the heavens were raised aloft, the seas surged forth, the
trees gave fruit, the mysteries were revealed and the beauty of the
Chosen One shone forth from behind the veil?  Fear God, O people of
the Bayan, and be not of those who repudiate the verses of God.  I
shall never deny these verses, even should ye slay Me and all the
swords and spears rain down upon Me at every moment.  I shall speak
forth in the kingdom of the heavens and the earth, and shall never fear
anyone.  This is My religion, if ye be of them that perceive.  This is the
religion of all the Messengers, and is that which was revealed to `Ali
(the Bab) in every Tablet.  I know not, however, to which religion ye
adhere!'
 "When the melodies of that Holy One reached this point, He
suddenly fell silent by reason of the weakness which had overtaken
Him.  He remained in this state for some time, and when He regained
consciousness He opened His eyes and turned in the sacred direction
with a gaze of deep affection, saying, 
 `Praise be to Thee, O Lord My God, for the wondrous
revelations of Thy inscrutable decree and the manifold woes and trials
Thou hast destined for Myself.  At one time Thou didst deliver Me
into the hands of Nimrod; at another Thou hast allowed Pharaoh's rod
to persecute Me.  Thou, alone, canst estimate, through Thine all-
encompassing knowledge and the operation of Thy Will, the
incalculable afflictions I have suffered at their hands.  Again Thou
didst cast Me into the prison-cell of the ungodly, for no reason except
that I was moved to whisper into the ears of the well-favored denizens
of Thy Kingdom an intimation of the vision with which Thou hadst,
through Thy knowledge, inspired Me, and revealed to Me its meaning
through the potency of Thy might.  And again Thou didst decree that I
be beheaded by the sword of the infidel.  Again I was crucified for
having unveiled to men's eyes the hidden gems of Thy glorious unity,
for having revealed to them the wondrous signs of Thy sovereign and
everlasting power.  How bitter the humiliations heaped upon Me, in a
subsequent age, on the plain of Karbila!  How lonely did I feel amidst
Thy people!  To what a state of helplessness was I reduced in that
land!  Unsatisfied with such indignities, My persecutors decapitated
Me, and, carrying aloft My head from land to land paraded it before
the gaze of the unbelieving multitude, and deposited it on the seats of
the perverse and faithless.  In a later age, I was suspended, and My
breast was made a target to the darts of the malicious cruelty of My
foes.  My limbs were riddled with bullets, and My body was torn
asunder.  Finally, behold how, in this Day, My treacherous enemies
have leagued themselves against Me, and are continually plotting to
instill the venom of hate and malice into the souls of Thy servants.
with all their might they are scheming to accomplish their purpose.
 "`It is Thou, My God and My adored One, Who hast delivered
Me into the hands of the infidels.  Behold Me, then, in the dust,
beneath the swords of thine enemies.
Yet, grievous as is My plight, O God, My well-Beloved, I render
thanks unto Thee, and My Spirit is grateful for whatsoever hath
befallen Me in the path of Thy good-pleasure.  I am well pleased with
that which Thou didst ordain for Me, and welcome, however
calamitous, the pains and sorrows I am made to suffer.
 "`I plead with Thee, O My God, by Thy hidden names and Thy
Beauty, Who, both manifest and concealed, lieth in the dust of
degradation, to inculcate Thy love in the hearts of Thy servants, and to
seat them upon the carpet of Thy mercy.  Give them shade, O My
God, beneath the tree of Thy sanctity, and deny them not the breezes
of Thy holiness, which waft from the paradise of Thy beauty and from
the direction of Thy favors.  Thou art, verily, able to accomplish Thy
will, and Thou art the Help in Peril, the Self-Subsisting.'"
 O Muhammad, estimate well the number of gem-like mysteries
We have bestowed upon thee, and think upon the wondrous
knowledge We have taught thee, knowledge which lay concealed
behind veils of light.  Thus mayest thou become aware of that which
hath befallen Us, and be of those well-acquainted with the mysteries of
this Cause.  Then say with the tongue of thy spirit in thine inmost soul,
"Is there any helper who will come to the aid of the Primal Beauty (the
Bab) in His new guise, or any supporter who will arise to serve the
Ultimate Point (Quddus) in His Radiance, the Glorious, the Most
Glorious?"  Mayhap thereby God will be persuaded to dispatch
someone to succor this Youth in these days, wherein the denizens of
heaven and earth are drunk with heedlessness, save those who have
gazed from nigh upon this Beauty.
 But O Muhammad, thou wilt encounter the opposition and
haughtiness of the perverse, and wilt find them engaged in acts of
hatred against this Youth on all sides, except those for whom it hath
been decreed otherwise by thy Lord God, the Mighty, the Self-
Subsisting.  Give ear to that which thou art commanded by the Pen of
the Most High in the kingdom of decree, in these heavens that have
been sanctified by God from the incarnations of rancor, from the touch
of the infidels and from the recognition of the malicious.  Rend
asunder the veils, then rise up from the dawning-point of this Cause
with manifest sovereignty.  Call out to the people, telling them of this
resplendent, mighty and illumined Beauty.   Go to the Name of  Ha',
and deliver to him that which hath been bestowed upon thee by the
Spirit of God, the Powerful, the Mighty, the Generous.  Perhaps he
will feel admonished within himself, will detach himself from all save
his Lord and enter the ranks of them that are rightly guided.
 Say:  "O My servant, We have revealed for thee Tablets and
Writings which are known only to God, and therein is that which
would enable thee to dispense with all creation, and all that is in the
heavens and on the earth.  However, we did not send them to thee,
because we failed to perceive from thee the fragrance of the exalted
ones in this Arab Youth.  By God, all that thou dost possess will pass
away, and nothing will remain save what is with thy Lord, behind the
pavilions of the Powerful, the Inaccessible.  Leave the world and its
people, and detach thyself from all that was created therein.  Then turn
thy face toward the Countenance of God, the Generous, the
Uncreated."
 Say:  "This is `Ali (the Bab) in very truth, Who hath appeared
once more in this most pure, manifest and glorious Beauty.  He doth
speak forth with the truth in the realm of eternity, and the exalted
kingdom, if ye have ears to hear.  O people of the Bayan, the spirit of
true understanding will never speak in your hearts until after My love
hath entered them.  This is a fundamental principle of religion, if ye be
of those with certitude."
 O people of the Qur'an, the Eternal Truth is come unto ye, and
that whereby the religions shall be differentiated and truth
distinguished from falsehood.  Fear God, and be not of those who
oppose Him.
 O people of the Churches, cease from ringing the bells, for the
Most Great Bell hath appeared.  It is, verily, this Trump that hath been
sent down in the form of these holy verses between the heavens and
the earth.  He crieth out in truth in this resplendent, manifest and
brilliant Name.  Say: He it is by Whose command the verses were
revealed, and by Whose permission all the scriptures were brought into
being.  To this attesteth the fragrance that issueth from the Camphor
Fountain through this most Ancient and pre-existent Pen.  He speaketh
forth at all times, uttering verses beyond the comprehension of the
minds of the wise, the knowledge of the mystic knowers, and the
hearts of them that have attained.  This is what ye were promised in
the Books of God, did ye but know, and this is that whereby the truth
was realized from all eternity and shall be realized to all eternity.
 O Muhammad, avert thy gaze from all who are in heaven and
on earth, so that thou canst enter into the mighty fortress of thy Lord,
the Bestower, the Almighty.  Set the trees of existence ablaze with this
Fire, that all may speak forth as It did, in the form of light, upon the
Sinai of Theophany.  Thus doth the Ancient Beauty shower His bounty
upon thee, and command thee in this Cause, that thou mayest detach
thyself from all things and hold fast to the cord of the Omnipotent, the
Unattainable.
 Spirit, praises and glory be upon thee, and upon whosoever
heareth thy tidings of this Great Announcement.

Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 05/07/2015

“O processo de cura se completa quando você tem a humildade de reconhecer seus erros e de pedir perdão. Se houver a possibilidade de pedir perdão àquele que você machucou, melhor; mais rapidamente o sofrimento se dissolve. Mas se não for possível, não se prenda a isso. Trabalhe para se libertar da culpa e lembre-se de que o perdão está dentro de você. Dê a chance para o Eu superior se expressar e continue sua jornada.”

“El proceso de cura está completo cuando tienes la humildad de reconocer tus errores y de pedir perdón. Si hubiera la posibilidad de pedir perdón a aquel que lastimaste, mejor; más rápidamente el sufrimiento se disuelve. Pero si no fuera posible, no te agarres de eso. Trabaja para liberarte de la culpa y recuerda que el perdón está dentro de ti. Dale la oportunidad al Yo superior para expresarse y continúa tu camino.”

"The healing process is complete when we have the humility to recognize our mistakes and ask for forgiveness. If there is the possibility to ask for forgiveness to the person we have hurt, that’s even better, as the suffering dissolves faster. But if we cannot ask them for forgiveness directly, then we mustn’t get hung up on it. We are working to be free of guilt and to remember that forgiveness is within us. We give the higher self a chance to express itself and continue on our journeys."