Friday, November 18, 2022

Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Living: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures

 

RIGHT LIVING
Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures 
Sensual misconduct is unhealthy. Refraining from sensual misconduct is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning sensual misconduct, one abstains from misbehaving among sensual pleasures. (MN 41) One practices thus: “Others may engage in sensual misconduct, but I will abstain from sensual misconduct.” (MN 8)
Reflection
There are so many ways it is possible to misbehave among sensual pleasures. Anything that feels good has the power to seduce us, and it does not take much for us to want more and more of almost anything. It is not that such pleasures are bad or evil, just that the pursuit of them can expand out of proportion and distort our behavior. It is empowering to understand this and temper our relationship to pleasure accordingly.

Daily Practice
Notice when something feels pleasurable and examine the texture of that sensation closely. Then let it go, as all transitory episodes of experience will inevitably cease. It is okay to welcome pleasure into your house as a guest, so to speak, as long as you also escort it to the door and wave goodbye when the time comes. It is when we chase after pleasure or try to hold on to it that we are in danger of misbehaving. 

Tomorrow: Developing Unarisen Healthy States
One week from today: Abstaining from Intoxication

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Via Daily Dharma: How Sitting Posture Helps Us

 The sitting posture itself can be a kind of crucible for burning off the tensions and restrictions to body and breath that all too often keep us lost in thought and unaware of feeling presence.

Will Johnson, “Full Body, Empty Mind”


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Thursday, November 17, 2022

Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Mental Action

 

RIGHT ACTION
Reflecting Upon Mental Action
However the seed is planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too mental action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
Reflection
To be alive is to take action every moment. Even when we are not moving our bodies or speaking out loud, our minds are always doing something. (You may have noticed this in the meditation hall.) Moreover, what the mind does in one moment sets the stage for what it will do the next moment. This is why it is so important to be consciously aware of what is happening in your mind—that allows you to direct the process somewhat.

Daily Practice
Develop the habit of noticing what your mind is doing as it does it. And when appropriate, do not be shy about consciously directing what actions your mind undertakes. If you are in the grips of an unhealthy state, do what you can to abandon it. If a healthy mental or emotional state is arising, work on maintaining it. Plant your seeds carefully, and you will harvest healthy fruit. Good things come from right action.

Tomorrow: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures
One week from today: Reflecting upon Social Action

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Via Tricycle // Poems of Protest and Political Conscience

 


 
Poems of Protest and Political Conscience
By Clark Strand
A winning poem from the Tricycle Haiku Challenge surveys the current American political landscape. 
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Via Daily Dharma: Trusting Our Capacity to Love

 During metta meditation, people are amazed to find out that they have a capacity for lovingkindness, both for themselves and for others. Due to our past conditioning, many of us do not trust our capacity to love. 

Sharon Salzberg, “What is Metta Meditation?”


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Wednesday, November 16, 2022

Via Daily Dharma: Let Go of Magic Solutions

Our belief in magic solutions that may happen someday in the future keeps us from doing what we really need to do right here and right now. 

Brad Warner, “A Minty Fresh Mind”


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Via Daily Dharma: The Path Between

 Between indulgence and renunciation, something magical begins to happen, a new attitude and new attention toward the body appears—a searching awareness, without agenda, to see what is.

Stuart Smithers, “Losing Our Bodies, Losing Our Minds”


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“When we follow the breath in meditation, we are focusing on the mechanics of mind, not the content of mind.”

- Ram Dass

From Here & Now Podcast - Ep. 187 – The Mechanics of the Mind

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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from Harsh Speech

 

RIGHT SPEECH
Refraining from Harsh Speech
Harsh speech is unhealthy. Refraining from harsh speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning harsh speech, one refrains from harsh speech. One speaks words that are gentle, pleasing to the ear, and affectionate, words that go to the heart, are courteous, and are agreeable to many. (DN 1) One practices thus: “Others may speak harshly, but I shall abstain from harsh speech.” (MN 8)
Reflection
The human capacity for speech is so nuanced and our languages are so varied that we always have a choice about how we express ourselves. Whatever you are about to say harshly, you can say gently instead. Whatever comes to mind as a stinging riposte can be toned down to be less hurtful. Even a cruel remark can be turned around entirely, and you can say something agreeable instead. It’s worth trying to do this as a practice. 

Daily Practice
Take care how you speak. Choose your words wisely and be wary of what you might blurt out without awareness. Right speech is mindful speech. Notice whether or not your words are gentle, spoken with an attitude of affection, and “go to the heart.” Even when others speak harshly to you, commit to being a person who refrains from harsh speech at every opportunity.

Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Mental Action
One week from today: Refraining from Frivolous Speech

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A very dear Bahá’í colleague of mine wrote: 


Baha'u'llah wrote:
The purpose of religion as revealed from the heaven of God's holy Will is to establish unity and concord amongst the peoples of the world; make it not the cause of dissension and strife. The religion of God and His divine law are the most potent instruments and the surest of all means for the dawning of the light of unity amongst men. The progress of the world, the development of nations, the tranquillity of peoples, and the peace of all who dwell on earth are among the principles and ordinances of God. Religion bestoweth upon man the most precious of all gifts, offereth the cup of prosperity, imparteth eternal life, and showereth imperishable benefits upon mankind. It behoveth the chiefs and rulers of the world, and in particular the Trustees of God's House of Justice, to endeavour to the utmost of their power to safeguard its position, promote its interests and exalt its station in the eyes of the world. In like manner it is incumbent upon them to enquire into the conditions of their subjects and to acquaint themselves with the affairs and activities of the divers communities in their dominions. We call upon the manifestations of the power of God -- the sovereigns and rulers on earth -- to bestir themselves and do all in their power that haply they may banish discord from this world and illumine it with the light of concord.
(Tablets of Baha'u'llah, p. 129)

As I read it, he is telling the religious leaders, and the houses of justice in particular, "if something is good for society, it is also the law of God." The false dichotomy between religious teachings and progressive social measures is abolished, by "baptizing" whatever is good for society.

This teaching of Baha'u'llah makes an end-run around the defences some Bahais have constructed against allowing same-sex marriage to be recognized in the Bahai community, based on what a secretary told someone at a time when same-sex marriage did not exist and homosexuality was illegal in many countries, or based on what Shoghi Effendi might have meant by a marginal note he never published, or based on translations that render "partners" as man and wife, or based on conflating same-sex marriage with pederasty or anal penetration, etc etc. There are so many of these tenuous defences that no consensus is reached, because it involves paying attention to precise details of context and meaning, and only those with some commitment have the attention span to follow the argument, and in any case as one defence is refuted another is raised. It's whack-a-mole, and it's basically wrapping prejudice and fear of change in the "flag" of "scripture says so."

Baha'u'llah prefaces this passage with the premise that religion must NOT be "the cause of dissension and strife." The approach of "The progress of the world... is the law of God" is his solution to that strife - it creates unity within religion as well as leading to progress for the world. If we accept his approach, the argument must be about what really leads to progress, and this is a good argument we - Bahais and society -- should be having anyway. Each proposed measure must be examined on the facts, and compared to the alternative. Is a same-sex couple excluded from the Bahai community better than a same-sex couple included in the community? Is state recognition of (eg) same-sex civil unions better or worse than the denial of that recognition? What are the effects of each alternative, what has experience proven? This argument from outcomes is part of Abdu'l-Baha's approach in The Secret of Divine Civilization, as regards the religious acceptability of "non-Muslim" innovations such as democracy and the rule of law.
The attached poll is interesting. Let’s have the same debate in national Bahai communities. The policies must be national, given that state laws and social attitudes are among the factors to consider.

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Intention: Cultivating Appreciative Joy

 

RIGHT INTENTION
Cultivating Appreciative Joy
Whatever you intend, whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop meditation on appreciative joy, for when you develop meditation on appreciative joy, any discontent will be abandoned. (MN 62) 
Reflection
It is not uncommon to experience discontent. There are so many things we can feel we are lacking in our lives, so many things in the world not going the way we would wish, and so much with which we can find fault. Or we can move in the other direction, cataloging and celebrating what is good and right in our experience, especially when we seek out and notice when good fortune comes to other people.  

Daily Practice
Get in the habit of taking note of the positive experiences of people around you and match it with an attitude of appreciation and wishing them well for their good fortune. Appreciative joy is not about rejoicing in your own situation but recognizing and appreciating the blessings experienced by others. If you do this, there will be endless opportunities for feeling good about things and no room for discontent.

Tomorrow: Refraining from Harsh Speech
One week from today: Cultivating Equanimity

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Via Daily Dharma: Effortless Mindfulness

 Effortless mindfulness empowers us with the natural capability to be with our thoughts and emotions, without obsessive monitoring.

Loch Kelly, “How to Practice Effortless Mindfulness”


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