When I start to get angry, I see my predicament and how I’m getting
caught in expectations and righteousness. Learning to give up anger has
been a continuous process. When Maharaji told me to love everyone and
tell the truth, he also said, “Give up anger, and I’ll help you with
it.”
Maharaji offered me a bargain: “You must polish the mirror free of anger
to see God. If you give up a little anger each day, I will help you.”
This seemed to be a deal that was more than fair. I readily accepted.
And he’s been true to his end of the bargain. I found that his love
helped to free me from my righteousness. Ultimately I would rather be
free and in love than be right.
- Ram Dass -