"When
you fall in love with someone, you project all of your dreams onto them
and you start to daydream. The other person does the same thing, and
you both go on trying to keep this dream alive while avoiding the truth.
You avoid revealing yourself to the other, just as you avoid seeing the
other’s revelation because it could be a threat to your dream. Thus,
the truth becomes a threat, because you prefer to keep on living in your
dreamworld."
Sri Prem Baba