How
do we bring our practice into the difficult moments of relationships
with others? Can we learn from these and approach them with curiosity
and presence as an opportunity to grow?
René Rivera looks
at the ways our practice can help us become more aware of when our
words or behaviors generate conflict. He shares his approach to mend
these transgressions, including:
- Be
present with ourselves. Pause and focus on the sensations and emotions
we feel when we make a mistake, such as shame, anger, or frustration.
- Open
to the other person. Turn with curiosity to understanding the other
person, such as acknowledging what has been said and being open to
feedback.
- Seek to repair the damage; make amends sooner rather than later.
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Listen to the full talk on your favorite podcast player or our website:
https://gaybuddhist.org/podcast/navigating-missteps-in-our-relationships-rene-rivera/