A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Wednesday, May 20, 2015
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día- Flower of the day 20/05/2015
“Como você está em relação a sua mãe e ao seu pai? Muitos buscam
soluções mágicas enquanto a resposta está bem diante de seus olhos. Isso
é o resultado de um fenômeno chamado ‘normose’, uma profunda
indiferença alimentada por um falso sentimento de que tudo está bem,
tudo está normal. Quando tomado pela normose, você não consegue fazer
relação de causa e efeito para compreender o porquê de certos problemas
na sua vida. É como uma anestesia que
você usa para não sentir. Você pode achar que está tudo “normal”, mas se
existe repetição negativa, é sinal de que há mágoas, ressentimentos e
pactos de vingança guardados no seu sistema”.
Para ler o Satsang completo, acesse: bit.ly/1QYPXF2
“¿Cómo estás en relación a tu madre y a tu padre? Muchos buscan soluciones mágicas mientras la respuesta está justo delante de sus ojos. Este es el resultado de un fenómeno llamado 'normosis' una profunda indiferencia alimentada por un falso sentimiento de que todo está bien, todo está normal. Cuando eres tomado por la normosis (normalidad patológica), no puedes hacer relación de causa y efecto para comprender el porqué de ciertos problemas en tu vida. Es como una anestesia que utilizas para no sentir. Puede creer que todo está "normal", pero si existe repetición negativa, es señal de que hay heridas, resentimientos y pactos de venganza guardados en tu sistema”.
“How do you relate to your mother and father? Many people seek magical solutions when the answer is right in front of them. This is the result of a phenomenon called ‘normosis,’ a pathological state of normality, in which a profound indifference feeds off the false feeling that everything is well and normal. When overcome with normosis, we are unable to make the link between cause and effect in order to understand the reason behind certain problems in our lives. This normosis acts like an anesthetic that we use so as not to feel. We may think that everything is ‘normal,’ but if there is a negative repetition in our lives, it’s a sign that there are hurt feelings, resentments and pacts of revenge lodged in our systems.”
“¿Cómo estás en relación a tu madre y a tu padre? Muchos buscan soluciones mágicas mientras la respuesta está justo delante de sus ojos. Este es el resultado de un fenómeno llamado 'normosis' una profunda indiferencia alimentada por un falso sentimiento de que todo está bien, todo está normal. Cuando eres tomado por la normosis (normalidad patológica), no puedes hacer relación de causa y efecto para comprender el porqué de ciertos problemas en tu vida. Es como una anestesia que utilizas para no sentir. Puede creer que todo está "normal", pero si existe repetición negativa, es señal de que hay heridas, resentimientos y pactos de venganza guardados en tu sistema”.
“How do you relate to your mother and father? Many people seek magical solutions when the answer is right in front of them. This is the result of a phenomenon called ‘normosis,’ a pathological state of normality, in which a profound indifference feeds off the false feeling that everything is well and normal. When overcome with normosis, we are unable to make the link between cause and effect in order to understand the reason behind certain problems in our lives. This normosis acts like an anesthetic that we use so as not to feel. We may think that everything is ‘normal,’ but if there is a negative repetition in our lives, it’s a sign that there are hurt feelings, resentments and pacts of revenge lodged in our systems.”
Today's Daily Dharma: Don't Get Stuck in Neutral
Wednesday, May 20, 2015
Daily inspiration and practical advice
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- Tulku Thondup, "Don't Get Stuck in Neutral"
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
Via JMG: US Rep. Ted Lieu To Introduce Bill To Ban "Ex-Gay" Torture As Fraudulent Practice
Chris Geidner reports at Buzzfeed:
On Tuesday morning, Democratic Rep. Ted Lieu of California will introduce a federal bill to ban commercial efforts to change people’s sexual orientation or gender identity — often called conversion therapy. “The public views conversion therapy as quackery, as something that harms people,” Lieu told BuzzFeed News on Monday afternoon, just after landing back in D.C. from California. “Eventually, I believe Congress will catch up to that, but you do need to start somewhere, so that’s why we’re introducing this legislation.” He faces an uphill battle: The legislation, which would label conversion therapy an “unfair or deceptive act or practice” that would be illegal under the Federal Trade Commission Act, is being introduced with less than three dozen co-sponsors — all of whom are Democrats. Lieu does, however, have a powerful ally in his effort. Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi has signed on as an original co-sponsor of the bill.While a state Senator in California, Lieu was behind his state's successful ban on the "ex-gay" torture of those under age 18. His federal bill, however, would not limit the ban to minors. Lieu tells Buzzfeed, "Fraud is fraud, whether you practice it on a 16-year-old or a 45-year-old." The SPLC is currently suing an "ex-gay" group in New Jersey on the same grounds.
Labels: brainwashing, Democrats, ex-gay, feds, FTC, LGBT youth, religion, Ted Lieu, torture, U.S. House
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día- Flower of the day 19/05/2015
“Ninguém quer estar no inferno sozinho. A pessoa que está perdida
sempre quer levar com ela alguém que já se encontrou e que está bem. Se
você está em busca de um caminho, tudo bem, esse é o seu momento. O
problema é você convidar o outro pra ir com você. Assim você gera um
karma para si e para o outro. Então, antes de fazer o convite, veja se
você sabe mesmo para onde está indo. E se você é quem recebe o convite e
dá ouvidos a ele, talvez você ainda
esteja precisando sofrer mais um pouco. Sofrimento se alimenta de
sofrimento. Essa é uma estratégia da natureza inferior para continuar
existindo.”
Para ler o satsango completo, acesse: http://bit.ly/1QYPXF2
Para ler o satsango completo, acesse: http://bit.ly/1QYPXF2
“Nadie quiere estar en el infierno solo. La persona que está perdida
siempre quiere llevarse con ella a alguien que ya se encontró y que está
bien. Si estás en búsqueda de un camino, todo bien, este es tu momento.
El problema es que invites al otro a ir contigo. Así generas un karma
para ti y para el otro. Entonces, antes de hacer la invitación, fíjate
si realmente sabes a dónde estás yendo. Y si eres tú quien recibe la
invitación y le das oídos a ella, tal vez todavía estés necesitando
sufrir un poco más. El Sufrimiento se alimenta del sufrimiento. Esta es
una estrategia de la naturaleza inferior para continuar existiendo.”
“No-one wants to be in hell alone. A person who is lost always wants to take someone down with them who has already found him or herself and is doing well. If one is searching for a path, that’s fine. This is one’s time to do so. The problem arises when we invite someone else to come along with us, because then we generate karma for ourselves and for the other. So, before we issue an invitation, we must think about whether we actually know where we are going. If we are the ones receiving an invitation and we give it our attention, perhaps we still need to suffer a little more. Suffering feeds off of suffering. This is one strategy the lower self uses to continue existing.”
“No-one wants to be in hell alone. A person who is lost always wants to take someone down with them who has already found him or herself and is doing well. If one is searching for a path, that’s fine. This is one’s time to do so. The problem arises when we invite someone else to come along with us, because then we generate karma for ourselves and for the other. So, before we issue an invitation, we must think about whether we actually know where we are going. If we are the ones receiving an invitation and we give it our attention, perhaps we still need to suffer a little more. Suffering feeds off of suffering. This is one strategy the lower self uses to continue existing.”
Today's Daily Dharma: "Get-What-You-Want" Buddhism
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Tuesday, May 19, 2015
Daily inspiration and practical advice
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"Get-What-You-Want" Buddhism
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- Jan Nattier, "Visible & Invisible"
Monday, May 18, 2015
Via JMG: RBG Emphasizes The Word "Constitution" As She Officiates Third Gay Wedding
Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg coyly poked the haters this
weekend as she officiated her third same-sex wedding. Via the New York Times:
Reposted from Joe Jervis
Wearing her black robe with her signature white lace collar, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg presided over the marriage on Sunday afternoon of Michael Kahn, the longtime artistic director of the Shakespeare Theater Company in Washington, and Charles Mitchem, who works at an architecture firm in New York.I guess it's too late for the wingnuts to demand that she double-extra recuse. (Tipped by JMG reader Ed)
The gilded setting was elegant: Anderson House in the Embassy Row neighborhood, the headquarters in Washington of the Society of the Cincinnati, a club for the descendants of the French and American soldiers who fought in the Revolutionary War. During the ceremony, the couple slipped black and gold Harry Winston rings onto each other’s fingers.
But the most glittering moment for the crowd came during the ceremony. With a sly look and special emphasis on the word “Constitution,” Justice Ginsburg said that she was pronouncing the two men married by the powers vested in her by the Constitution of the United States. No one was sure if she was emphasizing her own beliefs or giving a hint to the outcome of the case the Supreme Court is considering whether to decide if same-sex marriage is constitutional. But the guests began applauding loudly, delighted either way.
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día- Flower of the day 18/05/2015
“O vitimismo é extremamente pernicioso. A pessoa que atua nessa máscara
acredita ser muito pura. Ela não entende porque Deus é tão maldoso com
ela. A vítima tenta dominar o outro através da ideia de que ela não dá
conta da vida, de que é impotente e frágil. Mas, o que ela quer é
manipular o outro: “Ou você faz do meu jeito ou eu me mato, tomo veneno,
pulo a janela”. E às vezes ela até faz isso mesmo. Mas, entenda que essa
é uma estratégia, uma forma de manipulação. A vítima se arrasta no
chão, arranca os cabelos, mas esse teatro é com a intenção de dominar o
outro.”
Para ler o Satsang completo, acesse: bit.ly/1Ec4xQh
Para ler o Satsang completo, acesse: bit.ly/1Ec4xQh
“El victimismo es extremadamente pernicioso. La persona que actúa en
esta máscara cree que es muy pura. No entiende por qué Dios es tan malo
con ella. La víctima intenta dominar al otro a través de la idea de que
ella no da abasto con la vida, de que es impotente y frágil. Pero lo que
ella quiere es manipular al otro: "O lo haces a mi manera o me mato,
tomo veneno, salto por la ventana." Y a veces incluso hasta lo hace.
Pero entienda que ésta es una estrategia, una forma de manipulación. La
víctima se arrastra en el piso, se arranca los pelos, pero este teatro
es con la intención de dominar al otro”.
“Victimhood is extremely harmful. A person who wears this mask believes that they are pure, and they do not understand why ‘God’ is treating them so badly. The victim attempts to dominate others with the idea that they cannot cope with life, that they are powerless and weak. What they really want is to manipulate the other person. Basically they’re saying, ‘Do things my way, or I’ll kill myself! I’ll drink poison or jump out the window, and then you’ll see.’ Some people actually do it! Others just thrash about on the floor and tear out their hair, putting on the most manipulative dramas so as to finally have power over the other person.”
“Victimhood is extremely harmful. A person who wears this mask believes that they are pure, and they do not understand why ‘God’ is treating them so badly. The victim attempts to dominate others with the idea that they cannot cope with life, that they are powerless and weak. What they really want is to manipulate the other person. Basically they’re saying, ‘Do things my way, or I’ll kill myself! I’ll drink poison or jump out the window, and then you’ll see.’ Some people actually do it! Others just thrash about on the floor and tear out their hair, putting on the most manipulative dramas so as to finally have power over the other person.”
Via Daily Dharma
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Sunday, May 17, 2015
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