A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Saturday, August 11, 2018
Friday, August 10, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Quenching the Fire of Anger
Like
a forest fire, anger tends to burn up its own support. If we jump down
into the middle of such a fire, we will have little chance of putting it
out, but if we create a clearing around the edges, the fire can burn
itself out. This is the role of meditation: creating a clearing around
the margins of anger.
—Mark Epstein, “I’ve Been Meditating for Ten Years, and I’m Still Angry. What’s the Matter with Me?”
—Mark Epstein, “I’ve Been Meditating for Ten Years, and I’m Still Angry. What’s the Matter with Me?”
Thursday, August 9, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Compassion’s Rule of Thumb
As self-compassion grows, compassion for others naturally follows.
—David Rome, “Focusing”
—David Rome, “Focusing”
Wednesday, August 8, 2018
Via Ram Dass / Words of Wisdom - August 8, 2018
I am still a person with an ego and in form, in which there is a little
bit of stuff in which I’m somebody. So I’m in training to become nobody.
And this is my training field, right here. I have to sit day after day
with hundreds and thousands of people looking up at me, like this,
saying ‘Yes, oh yes, oh Ram Dass yes, oh yes, ah thank you, ah Ram
Dass.’
That is my fire. It’s all those mind nets saying, ‘This is who you are, this is who you are, this is who you are, this is who you are.’ And if I get stuck in being the actor, in being somebody who’s doing good, watch it! Then my mind creates a reality in which everybody that comes into my mind field is somebody for whom good needs to be done…
We can play the roles, but let’s not get stuck in them. …it’s so seductive to get caught in roles.
That is my fire. It’s all those mind nets saying, ‘This is who you are, this is who you are, this is who you are, this is who you are.’ And if I get stuck in being the actor, in being somebody who’s doing good, watch it! Then my mind creates a reality in which everybody that comes into my mind field is somebody for whom good needs to be done…
We can play the roles, but let’s not get stuck in them. …it’s so seductive to get caught in roles.
- Ram Dass -
Via Daily Dharma: Synergy in Presence
In the Buddhist path we are bringing together our actions, our view, and our practice. It is a balance of awareness, insight, and action, working harmoniously together.
—Judy Lief, “Is Meditation Enough?”
—Judy Lief, “Is Meditation Enough?”
Tuesday, August 7, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Step into Self-Forgiveness
It
will come as no surprise that one of the most difficult people to
forgive can be yourself. Yet with patience and gentle determination, it
can be done.
—Allan Lokos, “Lighten Your Load”
—Allan Lokos, “Lighten Your Load”
Monday, August 6, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: The Pure Happiness within Us
When it is warm with tenderness and affection toward others, our own heart can give us the most pure and profound happiness that exists and enable us to radiate that happiness to others.
—Dzigar Kongtrul Rinpoche, “Opening the Injured Heart”
—Dzigar Kongtrul Rinpoche, “Opening the Injured Heart”
Via Ram Dass / Words of Wisdom - August 5, 2018
If you’re involved with relationship with parents or children, instead of saying, "I can’t do spiritual practices because I have children," you say, "My children are my spiritual practice." If you’re traveling a lot, your traveling becomes your yoga.
You start to use your life as your curriculum for coming to God. You use the things that are on your plate, that are presented to you. So that relationships, economics, psychodynamics—all of these become grist for the mill of awakening. They all are part of your curriculum.
- Ram Dass -
Sunday, August 5, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Where Compassion Comes Naturally
When
you have a deep, deep friendship with someone, you don’t only care, “Is
this good for me?” You care for them naturally . . . [This] is vital to
developing the deep heart of lovingkindness in the context of
dedication to dharma.
—Interview with Ayya Tathaaloka and Thubten Chodron, “The Whole of the Spiritual Life”
—Interview with Ayya Tathaaloka and Thubten Chodron, “The Whole of the Spiritual Life”
Via Daily Dharma: Practice Is Simple
You only have one shot at this moment—don’t miss it.
—Andrew Olendzki, “This Moment Is Unique”
—Andrew Olendzki, “This Moment Is Unique”
Friday, August 3, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Consider the Consequences
The efficacy of our actions will be determined by the quality of the contemplation that precedes them.
—Lama Surya Das, “Why Sit?”
—Lama Surya Das, “Why Sit?”
Thursday, August 2, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: A Love That Sees Clearly
Real
love comes with a powerful recognition that we are fully alive and
whole despite our wounds or our fears or our loneliness. It is a state
where we allow ourselves to be seen clearly by ourselves and by others,
and in turn, we offer clear seeing to the world around us. It is a love
that heals.
—Sharon Salzberg, “Real Love”
—Sharon Salzberg, “Real Love”
Wednesday, August 1, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Take a Fresh Look
When we trust with our open heart, whatever occurs, at that very moment that it occurs, can be perceived as fresh and unstained by the clouds of hope and fear.
—Dr. Jeremy Hayward, “First Thought”
—Dr. Jeremy Hayward, “First Thought”
Via Ram Dass / Words of Wisdom - August 1, 2018
The interesting question is, how do you put yourself in a position so that you can allow ‘what is’ to be? The enemy turns out to be the creation of mind. Because when you are just in the moment, doing what you are doing, there is no fear. The fear is when you stand back to think about it. The fear is not in the actions. The fear is in the thought about the actions.
- Ram Dass -
Monday, July 30, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: Don’t Be Afraid to Reach Out
When
we smile and welcome the newbie or allow ourselves to be welcomed, we
act out of our recognition that belonging is a common human need, one
that is not an obstacle to, but in service of, waking up.
—Kate Johnson, “Making the First Move”
—Kate Johnson, “Making the First Move”
Sunday, July 29, 2018
Via Ram Dass / Words of Wisdom - July 29, 2018
The truth is everywhere. Wherever you are, it’s right where you are, when you can see it. And you can see it through whatever vehicle you are working with, you can free yourself from certain attachments that keep you from seeing it.
The scientist doesn’t stop being a scientist, nor does anybody stop being anything. You find how to do the things to yourself which allow you to find truth where you are at the moment. I’d say we never find out anything new; we just remember it.
The scientist doesn’t stop being a scientist, nor does anybody stop being anything. You find how to do the things to yourself which allow you to find truth where you are at the moment. I’d say we never find out anything new; we just remember it.
- Ram Dass -
Via Daily Dharma: Explore Your Resistance
Rather
than resist our resistance, we can allow ourselves to explore it in
intimate detail, like a bug traveling across a flower, petal by petal.
Examined at close range and without judgment, each form of resistance
reveals its own rich texture.
—Noelle Oxenhandler, “Twirling a Flower”
—Noelle Oxenhandler, “Twirling a Flower”
Saturday, July 28, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: How to Approach Pain
When
pain arises, instead of immediately thinking, “How can I get rid of
this?” we can say “Hello” to it, and ask, “What can I learn from this?”
It’s not always easy to do this, but when possible, it turns the whole
experience upside down.
—Ezra Bayda, “More than This Body”
—Ezra Bayda, “More than This Body”
Friday, July 27, 2018
Via Daily Dharma: The Key to Awakening
Although
there are many different descriptions of the enlightened mind, there is
one reference point of understanding that illuminates them all: the
final uprooting of greed, hatred, and ignorance.
—Joseph Goldstein, “The End of Suffering”
—Joseph Goldstein, “The End of Suffering”
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