"After a while, you come to appreciate that what you can offer another human being is to work on yourself to be a statement of what it is you have found in the way you live your life. One of the things you have found or will find is the ability to appreciate what is, as it is, in equanimity and compassion and love that isn't conditional; that is, you don't love a person more because they are happier the way you think they should be.
What you cultivate in yourself is the garden in which they can grow, and you offer your consciousness and the spaciousness to hear it."
What you cultivate in yourself is the garden in which they can grow, and you offer your consciousness and the spaciousness to hear it."
- Ram Dass -