A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you are doing an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal
action thus: “Is this action I am doing with speech an unhealthy bodily
action with painful consequences and painful results?” If, upon
reflection, you know that it is, then stop doing it; if you know that it
is not, then continue. (MN 61)
Reflection
Speech is a
form of action, and all actions have their consequences. Using
mindfulness as a kind of mirror, pay attention to the effect your verbal
actions have on those you speak to, as well as the effect they have on
your own mental and emotional states. If you detect that people are
being harmed by what you say, or if you notice your own mood turning
toward the unhelpful spectrum, then stop saying what you are saying.
Daily Practice
A careful
speaker is consciously aware of what they are saying while they are
speaking and also takes notice of how their words are affecting others.
Practice speaking carefully. It takes some extra effort to both compose
your words and reflect upon them, as with a mirror, but it is worthwhile
effort. Words are like seeds, and as the discourse reminds us, “However
the seed is planted, in that way the fruit is gathered.”
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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September’s
film is available now! “Rebel for Life,” directed by Wouter Verhoeven
is a powerful story about climate activism, the spirit of community, and
the future of life on Earth. At the center of this engaging story is
Vishal, a young hospital doctor turned climate activist, trained in
mindfulness and peaceful activism in Plum Village, France.
Malicious speech is
unhealthy. Refraining from malicious speech is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning malicious speech, one refrains from malicious speech. One
does not repeat there what one has heard here to the detriment of these,
or repeat here what he has heard there to the detriment of those. One
unites those who are divided, is a promoter of friendships, and speaks
words that promote concord. (DN 1) One practices thus: “Others may speak
maliciously, but I shall abstain from malicious speech.” (MN 8)
If anyone should speak in disparagement of something, you should not be
angry, resentful, or upset on that account. If you were to be angry or
displeased that would only be an impediment to you, and then you could
not recognize whether what they say is rightly said or not rightly said.
If others should speak in disparagement of something, then you are to
explain what is incorrect as being incorrect. (DN 1)
Reflection
Speech is a
two-way street, and the practice of right speech includes the ability to
listen well in addition to speaking well. When you are the recipient of
malicious speech—words that are intended to attack and wound and induce
anger in you—it is a practice in itself to resist the temptation to
take offense and lash out with your own malicious speech. Equanimity is
the tool to use here, allowing you to not take things personally.
Daily Practice
Practice
listening to the words of others, especially those that are critical of
you or that disagree with opinions you hold dear, without taking them
personally. Notice when the reflex of self-defense rears up; notice how
it inclines you to resist what is being said and even to want to attack
the person saying it—and then use the power of equanimity to regard the
content objectively, without being automatically triggered into
aversion.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Verbal Action One week from today: Refraining from Harsh Speech
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There’s
something about silence—it’s like being in the eye of a hurricane. When
we can be still, when we’re not trying to figure it out, there’s a
knowing and an intuition that we can connect with.
September’s
film is available now! “Rebel for Life,” directed by Wouter Verhoeven
is a powerful story about climate activism, the spirit of community, and
the future of life on Earth. At the center of this engaging story is
Vishal, a young hospital doctor turned climate activist, trained in
mindfulness and peaceful activism in Plum Village, France.