“Toda la reacción, es decir, toda la acción compulsiva está al servicio
de suplir una carencia. Crees que recibiendo atención del otro esa
carencia será suplida, pero eso es una gran ilusión, ¡eso no existe!
Comprende que tu felicidad no puede depender del otro. Crees no tener
amor y por ello piensas que necesitas recibirlo de afuera. Esta creencia
es lo que te mantiene preso al otro, actuando como un mendigo. Es
necesario cambiar la dirección de tu atención - necesitas volverte hacia
adentro.”
"All reactions or compulsive actions are at the service of feeding a neediness. We believe that by getting the other's attention this neediness will finally be satisfied, but that's all a great illusion – it can't be done. We must realize that our happiness cannot depend on the other. We believe that we don’t have love so we need to receive it from the outside. This belief is what keeps us imprisoned to each other, acting like beggars. We need to change the direction of our attention – we must go back within ourselves.”
"All reactions or compulsive actions are at the service of feeding a neediness. We believe that by getting the other's attention this neediness will finally be satisfied, but that's all a great illusion – it can't be done. We must realize that our happiness cannot depend on the other. We believe that we don’t have love so we need to receive it from the outside. This belief is what keeps us imprisoned to each other, acting like beggars. We need to change the direction of our attention – we must go back within ourselves.”