A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Sunday, May 5, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 5, 2013
Our Mutual Dependency
To
open yourself up to need, longing, dependency, and reliance on others
means opening yourself to the truth that none of us can do this on our
own. We really do need each other, just as we need parents and teachers.
We need all those people in our lives who make us feel so uncertain.
Our practice is not about finally getting to a place where we are going
to escape all that but about creating a container that allows us to be
more and more human, to feel more and more.
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- Barry Magid, “No Gain”
Saturday, May 4, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 4, 2013
Keeping our Understanding Alive
The
seeds of anger are always there. But when you notice, when you keep
alive your understanding, they have no chance to manifest. Understanding
is something that stays with you, and practicing the precepts,
practicing meditation, helps you deepen your understanding all the time.
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- Thich Nhat Hanh, “Interbeing with Thich Nhat Hanh”
Thursday, May 2, 2013
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Eliminating Thoughts of Unworthiness
Without
cultivating love for ourselves, regardless of how much discipline we
have, regardless of how serious we are about practice, we will still
stay stuck in the subtle mercilessness of the mind, listening to the
voice that tells us we are basically and fundamentally unworthy. We
should never underestimate the need for lovingkindness on the long and
sometimes daunting path of learning to awaken.
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- Ezra Bayda, “The Three Things We Fear Most”
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Via JMG: Jason Collins' #98 Jersey: Top Seller
Jason Collins' #98 Jersey: Top Seller
The Washington Wizards announced today that 100% of its online custom jersey sales in the last 48 hours have borne the name and number of Jason Collins.
Washington Wizards center Jason Collins’ jerseys got a boost in online sales after he became the first openly gay athlete on a major U.S. team sport. Team spokesman Scott Hall told ABC News that 100 percent of custom jerseys ordered from the team’s online store bore Collins’ name and number, 98, on the back, after Collins revealed his homosexuality in an article published on Sports Illustrated’s website on Monday. While Hall could not reveal how many custom Collins jerseys were sold, he said that the team’s general merchandise sales and online traffic spiked following Collins’ announcement. In a statement, the Wizards said they were proud of Collins and “his decision to live his life proudly and openly.”The parents of Matthew Shepard revealed yesterday that they were "brought to tears" by the news that Collins chose his jersey number as a secret memorial to the year that Shepard was murdered. Customize your Collins jersey here.
Labels: basketball, coming out, gay athletes, Jason Collins, Matthew Shepard, NBA, retail, sports
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Via JMG" Texas Attorney General: Domestic Partner Benefits Violate State Constitution
GOP Texas Attorney General Greg Abbott says that any city that offers domestic partner benefits is in violation of the state constitution.
Domestic partnerships, as recognized by the local governments, are close enough to the definition of marriage to violate a constitutional amendment banning same-sex unions that 76 percent of Texas voters approved in 2005, the opinion stated. “By creating domestic partnerships and offering health benefits based on them, the political subdivisions have created and recognized something not established by Texas law,” the opinion said. Lawyers for Austin and Travis County have begun researching the opinion to help political leaders determine if it should be followed. Attorney general opinions attempt to determine how Texas courts would rule on a legal matter, but only the courts have the definitive say on constitutional questions.Travis County, which has offered such benefits for 16 years, will hold a meeting next week to discuss Abbott's claim. The Austin City Council will meet with its lawyers but says it has no plan to change its benefits. (Tipped by JMG reader Jeff)
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Learning How to Live
Not
only is it of profound importance for each of us to understand in a
deep way the law of impermanence but it’s also quite practical. It’s not
merely metaphysical or something to be argued about in philosophy
seminars and coffee shops. Learning the law of impermanence can be done
there, too, but the Buddhist teaching is designed to help us learn how
to live.
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- Larry Rosenberg, “The Weather is Just the Weather”
Sunday, April 28, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma April 28, 2013
Taming the Monkey Mind
Your
thoughts run around like a wild horse and your feelings jump about like
a monkey in the forest. When the monkey and horse step back and reflect
upon themselves, freedom from all discrimination is realized naturally.
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- Dogen, "Instructions for the Tenzo"
Saturday, April 27, 2013
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On Not Playing the Victim
One
of the worst kinds of elevation of the self is playing the victim.
There are times when we actually are victims, when actual blame is
appropriate, but to take on the identity of a victim and be stuck
blaming is something else. Surprisingly, it is actually a subtle form of
elevation—I’m not responsible, you are. This is giving up all freedom.
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- Nancy Baker, "The Seventh Zen Precept"
Thursday, April 25, 2013
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You Are Not Your Pain
You
can’t go preventing pleasure and pain, you can’t keep the mind from
labeling things and forming thoughts, but you can put these things to a
new use. If the mind labels a pain, saying, 'I hurt,' you have to
examine the label carefully, contemplate it until you see that it’s
wrong: the pain isn’t really yours. It’s simply a sensation that arises
and passes away, that’s all.
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- Upasika Kee Nanayon, "Tough Teachings To Ease The Mind"
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
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Forgiving Past Harms
Most
of us find it very difficult to forgive individuals who have hurt us
deeply. Why should we forgive them? Although we sometimes make others
feel uncomfortable when we express our anger toward them, we are the
ones who wind up suffering the most when we do so. Maintaining anger is
similar to picking up a red-hot piece of coal to throw at
someone—whether we hit our target or not, we are the ones who get
burned.
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- Matthew Flickstein, "Forgiveness"
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
Via JMG: COLOMBIA: Bogota Mayor Unfurls Pro-Gay Banner As Senate Considers Marriage
Colombia's Senate is expected to vote down its marriage equality bill today after a debate which is scheduled to begin within the hour of this writing. Despite that prediction, today Bogota Mayor Gustavo Petro ordered the above banner to be unfurled over city hall as LGBT activists demonstrated outside. Watch the debate and vote live here. More photos from the pro and anti-gay sides can be found on the Twitter feed of US-based activist and Colombia native Andres Duque.
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Tricycle Daily Dharma April 23, 2013
Becoming Intimate with your Neurosis
The
teacher serves as a mirror but also encourages your ability to trust in
yourself. You begin to trust in your basic goodness instead of
identifying with your neurosis. There’s a shift of allegiance. Then the
obstacles begin to seem temporary, and what’s permanent is the wisdom.
To the degree that you become intimate with your neurosis—not acting-out
and not repressing—to that degree you discover your wisdom.
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- Pema Chödrön, “Unconditionally Steadfast”
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Monday, April 22, 2013
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Gateway to Happiness
We
are constantly encouraged to reject what is unpleasant, disappointing
or difficult. 'What's all this suffering? Let's be happy! Have fun!' But
our suffering is not our enemy. It is only through a relationship with
my pain, my sadness, that I can truly know and touch the opposite—my
pleasure, my joy, and my happiness.
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- Claude AnShin Thomas, “Conceptions of Happiness”
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