A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Thursday, December 11, 2014
Via Fox News Latino: Brazil had 3,701 gay marriages in 2013, the 1st year such unions were legal
Brazil celebrated 3,701 gay weddings in 2013, the first year a
judicial decision authorized same-sex marriage, officials announced
Tuesday.
Of all gay marriages last year, 52 percent were between women and 48 percent between men, according to figures of the civil registry published by the Brazilian Geography and Statistics Institute, or IBGE.
Same-sex marriages were pronounced legal in Brazil in a May 2013 decision of the National Judiciary Council (CNJ), though gay activists demand that their rights be confirmed in a law.
Previously, a same-sex couple could only register as a "stable union," which in terms of its rights were judged equivalent to marriage in a May 2011 decision of the Supreme Court, which acted in lieu of any existing legislation on the matter.
In those two years, up to the granting of the right to gay marriage, 1,277 stable unions of same-sex couples were registered, according to official figures.
The IBGE also said that the total number of same-sex marriages increased by 1.1 percent in the country in 2013 over the previous year to number 1.1 million, while 324,921 divorces were granted, a drop of 4.9 percent.
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Of all gay marriages last year, 52 percent were between women and 48 percent between men, according to figures of the civil registry published by the Brazilian Geography and Statistics Institute, or IBGE.
Same-sex marriages were pronounced legal in Brazil in a May 2013 decision of the National Judiciary Council (CNJ), though gay activists demand that their rights be confirmed in a law.
Previously, a same-sex couple could only register as a "stable union," which in terms of its rights were judged equivalent to marriage in a May 2011 decision of the Supreme Court, which acted in lieu of any existing legislation on the matter.
In those two years, up to the granting of the right to gay marriage, 1,277 stable unions of same-sex couples were registered, according to official figures.
The IBGE also said that the total number of same-sex marriages increased by 1.1 percent in the country in 2013 over the previous year to number 1.1 million, while 324,921 divorces were granted, a drop of 4.9 percent.
Make the jump here to read the full / original article
Flower of the Day: 12/11/14
"The word religion comes from the Latin word religare
(reuniting or union), which is synonymous with yoga: it is the union of
the individual soul with the Absolute. This is what I call ‘vertical
religion.’ Even though religions have lost their ‘vertical’ traits, they
still contain some of their pearls, which are expressions of the
eternal truth. One example is the prayer of St. Francis: ‘Lord, make
me an instrument of Thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love… O
divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to
console… To be loved as to love; for it is in giving that we receive…’ This is one of the pearls of Christianity."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Liberation. Period. | December 11, 2014
Freedom from desires and passions is not the same as the attainment
of 'liberation by mind' and 'liberation by insight' which alone can cut
the root of dependent origination: ignorance. Buddhism was not conceived
as a means to become liberated from desire, but as a means to become liberated.
- Stuart Smithers, "Freedom's Just Another Word" |
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
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Flower of the Day: 12/10/14
"There
are times when we make others feel guilty for what's really our own
inability to love – that's truly malicious. We rob the other’s energy
for us to feel more powerful; and this brings us a momentary
satisfaction. But the load of taking someone away from their path by
putting the blame on them is very heavy. We point the finger at them and
say, ‘You are guilty for my misery.’ The person then has to go to hell
and back to be accepted by you. The needier the person is, the greater
their need will be to please you."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Waiting for American Buddhism | December 10, 2014
Americans tend to be impatient. We think if Buddhism has been here
for a hundred and fifty years, of course it should be totally American.
But that ignores the fact that in Asia it took centuries for Buddhism to
become fully acculturated when it moved to a new cultural region. . . .
It will take time.
- Charles Prebish, "Pursuing an American Buddhism" |
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Via Gay Politics Report: Pope Francis calls for church support of LGBT families
Pope Francis calls for church support of LGBT families
Pope Francis on Sunday called on the Catholic Church to provide support for parents with LGBT children. "We come across this reality all the time in the confessional: a father and a mother whose son or daughter is in that situation. ... We have to find a way to help that father or that mother to stand by their son or daughter," Francis said during a discussion of the church's Synod of Bishops in the fall. A day earlier, the pontiff urged his fellow officials to recognize the "signs of the times."
International Business Times/Independent (London) (tiered subscription model), The (12/8), Advocate.com/LaNacion.com.ar (Argentina) (Spanish-language content) (12/8)
Pope Francis on Sunday called on the Catholic Church to provide support for parents with LGBT children. "We come across this reality all the time in the confessional: a father and a mother whose son or daughter is in that situation. ... We have to find a way to help that father or that mother to stand by their son or daughter," Francis said during a discussion of the church's Synod of Bishops in the fall. A day earlier, the pontiff urged his fellow officials to recognize the "signs of the times."
International Business Times/Independent (London) (tiered subscription model), The (12/8), Advocate.com/LaNacion.com.ar (Argentina) (Spanish-language content) (12/8)
Flower of the Day: 12/09/14
"Competition
is at the service of adding value to the idea of ‘me’: we want to be
recognized since that makes us feel we have found our place in the
world. When we feel isolated and separate, and start competing with
others, it’s almost impossible for us to discover our place in the
world. I invite you to give up the ‘doer,’ since compulsive doing serves
this sense of competition. Each time we do something compulsively, we
get further imprisoned in the webs of karma."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
The World of Interaction | December 9, 2014
Awakening is not an individual achievement but arises because of and along with the awakening of others.
- Rev. Patti Nakai, "The Tie That Need Not Bind" |
Monday, December 8, 2014
Flower of the Day: 12/08/14
"Deconstructing
the masks, our false identities, implies reliving certain wounds. It
means getting in touch with the feelings of abandonment, humiliation,
rejection and exclusion that were experienced in the past. This is not
easy, but you can only move forward in your evolutionary journey if you
can free yourself of denied feelings. Some people believe that it is
enough to just focus their awareness on the present moment without
paying attention to the past, but this approach can be dangerous
precisely because it is suppressing the past. The past cannot be denied:
it needs to be transcended. Transcendence is only possible when you
understand the past and can be in harmony with it."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Flower of the Day: 12/06/14
"When
we arrive in this realm through the physical body, our vision gets
veiled, meaning that our perception diminishes. Thus, we take the real
for the unreal, and we believe the unreal to be real. This is the main
source of human suffering. We then continue to deal with suffering until
we reach a saturation point and get tired of it. At that point, we
start seeing that there may be something wrong with our perception, and
so begin the work of self-awareness by increasing our perception. That's
how we remove the veil of ignorance that covers our higher self."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Fear of Silence | December 6, 2014
I have the impression that many of us are afraid of silence. We’re
always taking in something—text, music, radio, television, or
thoughts—to occupy the space. If quiet and space are so important for
our happiness, why don’t we make more room for them in our lives?
- Thich Nhat Hahn, "Fear of Silence"
- Thich Nhat Hahn, "Fear of Silence"
Friday, December 5, 2014
Flower of the Day: 12/05/14
"The
first layer of the veil of illusion is forgetting life’s purpose. Being
aware of our purpose connects us to the source and enables us to
remember the truth. Being enveloped by the veil of illusion, we feel
separate and isolated, and a by-product of this isolation is anguish.
This anguish is a great poison, which often finds its way in through a
sadness that seemingly comes out of nowhere. This opens the door to bad
habits, which in turn opens the door to evil."
Sri Prem Baba
Innate Dignity | December 5, 2014
My own practice of loving kindness has opened me to the power of
compassion and to the fact that all beings want to be happy. Everybody
wants to have their innate dignity recognized and to recognize the
innate dignity of others.
- Sharon Salzberg, "Why I Support Fast Food Workers"
- Sharon Salzberg, "Why I Support Fast Food Workers"
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