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The news of Leelah Alcorn’s suicide has, of course, hit my family hard. And while I wrote a post, erm, a year and a half ago, about being a person of deep faith – in which I only mentioned the name of my religious persuasion in the tags, this is not something I discuss publicly.

In large part, I do not discuss this publicly because I have had an internal struggle in which I was not sure my transgender child had a place in my faith. And if she did not have a place, that meant it no longer had a place for me. And that was an intensely painful struggle for me.

I am a Bahá’í. And while you may go ahead and google it, you will find little information of value on the internet concerning transgender folk. And frankly, this post is directed at those who are already aware of the Bahá’í Faith, because it is time for me to claim my right for my family to proudly be a part of the Bahá’í family. I could find quotes from our holy scriptures for people who need that, but frankly, that’s not my job. What I will tell you is what I know the Bahá’í Faith says about being transgender and being a Bahá’í, because while my job is to raise my children to be good little human beings, I also feel a heavy weight to educate as many people about who my transgender daughter (ninja, comic book writer, explorer, inventer, artist, all around awesome human) is and her right to be where everyone is allowed to be. Thus far, we have been incredibly blessed within our own Bahá’í community, but we are a world faith, and we are a united force, not individual units across the world. 

This means that a part of me feels that I have to make this space for my daughter throughout the entire Bahá’í world. You know, only 6 million people. Heh. 

*And yes, to be clear, my voice is not an official voice, it is a personal voice.* The Bahá’í Faith encourages transgender folks to transition with the support of skilled physicians and therapists (of the individual’s choice, if they are going to transition). Furthermore, the individual is supported in their affirmed gender, and all Bahá’í laws then applying to them as such.

And it is incredibly important to me that my daughter is not shamed or judged by Bahá’ís. It is incredibly important to me that my daughter does not know fear because of Bahá’ís. It is also incredibly important to me that other children, youth and adults do not find themselves in that position because of ignorance and transphobia that is left over from an old tired world. This is not what the Bahá’í Faith is meant for. I want all Bahá’ís to read this. I want all Bahá’ís to understand that my daughter belongs in the Bahá’í Faith like every other child. If you disagree, it’s time for you to go back and fall in love with the spirit of the Bahá’í Faith all over again. Because the Bahá’í Faith is a faith for all humanity. We, as individuals, are not in a position to judge. We are meant to love. If we disagree on that, it’s not my family who doesn’t belong here. We cannot allow the Bahá’í Faith to be a place of bullying.

And if you have a child, and you have questions, please feel free to contact me. I will educate, I will support, and I will encourage. What I am not interested in and will not engage in is debate.

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Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 07/01/2015

“O que caracteriza um ser humano é sua capacidade de se doar e de colocar o amor em movimento através dos seus dons e talentos. A partir disso evoluímos do estado humano para o estado divino. E quando transcendemos a consciência humana, nos tornamos canais da perfeição divina. Quando reconhecemos que por trás da personalidade - do nome, da história, do corpo e do ego - está nossa verdadeira essência; o princípio da vida única, encontramos a unidade dentro da multiplicidade.”

“Lo que caracteriza a un ser humano es su capacidad de donarse y de colocar el amor en movimiento a través de sus dones y talentos. A partir de esto evolucionamos del estado humano al estado divino. Y cuando trascendemos la conciencia humana, nos convertimos en canales de la perfección divina. Cuando reconocemos que por detrás de la personalidad - del nombre, de la historia, del cuerpo y del ego - está nuestra verdadera esencia; el principio de la vida única, encontramos la unidad dentro de la multiplicidad.”

“What makes a human being human is our capacity to give and to put love into motion by using our gifts and talents. This is the basis for the evolution from the human state to the divine state. When we transcend human consciousness, we become channels of divine perfection. When we recognize that behind our personality, our name, our past, our body and ego lies our true essence, the principle of the one and only life, we find unity within the multiplicity.”

- Sri Prem Baba

Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 06/01/2015

“As fantasias sexuais funcionam como sinalizadores de aspectos da sua personalidade que ainda não foram integrados e que, às vezes, não têm nada a ver com a sexualidade. Porém, atuar na fantasia pode te colocar em situações complexas e delicadas, e te enredar ainda mais nas teias do karma. O que você pode fazer é procurar compreender o que a fantasia quer te dizer, qual é a mensagem que ela tem pra te dar. É fácil se enganar e achar que você está num lugar onde não está, e as fantasias sexuais te mostram onde você está de verdade, e te ajudam a tomar consciência do que precisa ser transformado dentro de você.”

“Las fantasías sexuales funcionan como indicadores de aspectos de tu personalidad que aún no están integrados y que, a veces, no tienen nada que ver con la sexualidad. Sin embargo, actuar en la fantasía te puede colocar en situaciones complejas y delicadas, y enredarte aún más en las redes del karma. Lo que puedes hacer es intentar comprender lo que la fantasía te quiere decir, cuál es el mensaje que ella tiene para darte. Es fácil engañarse y creer que estás en un lugar donde no estás, y las fantasías sexuales te muestran dónde estás de verdad, y te ayudan a tomar conciencia de lo que necesita ser transformado dentro de ti.”

“Sexual fantasies work like signals that point out aspects of your personality that have not yet been integrated and that sometimes have nothing to do with sexuality at all. However, acting on fantasies may put you in complex or delicate situations and entangle you further in the webs of karma. What you can do is to try to understand what the fantasy is trying to tell you and what message it has for you. It is easy to fool yourself and think you are in a place that you are not. Sexual fantasies show you where you really are and help you become more aware of what inside of you needs to be transformed.”

- Sri Prem Baba

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Smiles in Context | January 6, 2015 Positive psychology has been criticized for overemphasizing the potential of individuals to transcend their circumstances. But not every life context affords the same opportunities for flourishing. The promise 'smile, think positive thoughts, and you will be happy and healthy' underestimates the importance of social context for psychological well-being and health. - James Coyne, "Self-Help for the Affluent"

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Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 05/01/2015

“A Indiferença é um mecanismo de defesa, uma forma passiva de raiva. Ela é como uma capa que te impermeabiliza - uma anestesia que te entorpece para você não sentir. Esse entorpecimento se não é a própria maldade, é a origem dela. Porque se você não se permite sentir, não é possível fazer empatia com o outro. E o princípio da compaixão é justamente você experimentar calçar o sapato do outro, e sentir o que ele está vivendo. Mas, essa capacidade de sentir te torna vulnerável e frágil porque você entra em contato com as suas próprias dores. Então você tenta fugir através da indiferença.”

“La indiferencia es un mecanismo de defensa, una forma pasiva de rabia. Ella es como una capa que te impermeabiliza - una anestesia que te entorpece para que no sientas. Este entorpecimiento si no es la propia maldad, es su origen. Porque si no te permites sentir, no es posible hacer empatía con el otro. Y el principio de la compasión es justamente que experimentes calzar los zapatos del otro, y sentir lo que él está viviendo. Pero esta capacidad de sentir te vuelve vulnerable y frágil porque entras en contacto con tus propios dolores. Entonces intentas huir a través de la indiferencia.”

“Indifference is a defense mechanism, a passive form of anger. It’s like a layer that makes you waterproof, or an anesthetic that numbs you so you don’t feel anything. If this numbing is not evil itself, it is the origin of it. If you don’t allow yourself to feel anything, then it’s impossible for you to empathize with others. The principle of compassion specifically requires that you put yourself in the other’s shoes and feel what he or she is going through. But this capacity to feel makes you vulnerable and fragile because you come into contact with your own pain, so you respond trying to use indifference as an escape.”

- Sri Prem Baba

Via Just a Baha'i: Homosexuality and the Baha’i Community: a conversation

Recently I was told that writing for a Baha’i gay audience was an oxymoron, and when I pointed out that I found this comment offensive the response was that the problem was with me and the writer went so far as to state that I needed to take this up with the House of Justice, as if his statement automatically reflected their views. My point here is that so often when in discussion with Baha’is on the topic of homosexuality, at some point a Baha’i tells me I am disagreeing with the House of Justice or the Baha’i Teachings as a way of trying to silence me. To start this discussion I’d like to focus first on homosexuality as a form of identity.

It seems to me that some Baha’is pretend that gay Baha’is don’t exist or don’t have a voice, viewpoint or audience. I’m an artist and a Baha’i, and while I might not have any sort of Baha’i audience, I certainly have a Baha’i artistic voice, which is informed by my experiences and beliefs. This is what I mean by a gay Baha’i voice. What do you think?

Of course there’s a huge difference between no one in my Baha’i community being interested in what sort of art I’m making and a gay Baha’i having to keep their sexuality a secret in order to be treated with dignity and equality.

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Awareness Unmoved | January 5, 2015 Beautiful thoughts and ugly thoughts, all arise and cease in awareness, and yet awareness remains unmoved. - Kittisaro, "Tangled in Thought"

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Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 04/01/2015

“Espiritualidade é sinônimo de união. Se existe separação; se existe barreira ou julgamento, não podemos chamar de espiritualidade. A espiritualidade considera tudo como sagrado, porque tudo tem seu papel dentro do jogo. Tudo aquilo que faz parte da vida humana é natural, caso contrário não faria parte. Determinadas frequências de energia estão distorcidas, mas isso também faz parte do jogo. E se negamos essas distorções acabamos dando mais força para elas. A chave é manter o coração puro, pois só um coração puro pode transitar no inferno sem se contaminar.”

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“Espiritualidad es sinónimo de unión. Si existe separación, si existe barrera o juicio, no podemos llamarlo espiritualidad. La espiritualidad considera todo como sagrado, porque todo tiene su papel dentro del juego. Todo aquello que es parte de la vida humana es natural, de lo contrario no sería parte. Ciertas frecuencias de energía están distorsionadas, pero esto también es parte del juego. Y si negamos estas distorsiones terminamos dándoles más fuerza a ellas. La llave es mantener el corazón puro, porque sólo un corazón puro puede transitar el infierno sin contaminarse.”

“Spirituality is synonymous with union. If separation, barriers or judgments exist, there is no spirituality. In spirituality everything is considered sacred, because everything has its own role in the game of life. Everything that’s part of human life is natural; otherwise, it wouldn’t be part of it. Certain energy frequencies are distorted, but this is also part of the game. If we negate these distortions, we end up giving more power to them. The key is to keep your heart pure, as only a pure heart can go through hell without getting contaminated.”

- Sri Prem Baba

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Why Wisdom? | January 4, 2015 Perfection of Wisdom continuously generates, offers, dedicates, and contributes the immeasurable meritorious energy of selfless thought and action. Why? To bring about the awakening of all lives into the bliss of Buddhahood. - The Buddha, "Mother of the Buddhas"

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DeGeneres doesn't actually have any children, but hey, people are being mean to Sarah Palin.

UPDATE: They've quietly changed the headline and text of the story, but have posted no notice of correction.

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Via JMG: On Highsexuality

Dr. Marcie Bianco writes at Mic.com:

Does getting high make you a little gay? If so, you may just be a "highsexual." The term, ensconced in Urban Dictionary since 2009, made its way onto two Reddit forums in recent weeks as a way to describe the alleged phenomenon of participating in sex with someone of the same gender or having same-sex fantasies when getting incredibly high. But while perhaps not common parlance, these two threads — "Can LSD make you temporarily gay?" and "Weed makes me temporarily gay. Anyone else?" — are example of a phenomenon that's been around for awhile. It seems straight guys have wondered about "highsexuality" for a few years, given the plethora of online evidence. Are drugs the key to sexual fluidity in men? Responses in both Reddit threads exhibited an awareness of "highsexuality," as well as the fact that getting high makes you horny and just might lead to a more unconventional sexual encounter. But they also were encouraging in their acceptance of sexual fluidity.

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