A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Sunday, October 18, 2015
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 18/10/2015
“Você já ouviu alguém dizer que Deus mora dentro e muito provavelmente
acredita nisso. Porém, no nível mais profundo, você não tem certeza
disso e acredita que Deus é um controlador punitivo, um tirano cruel que
não hesita em te castigar e te lançar ao sofrimento. A grande maioria
das pessoas carrega essa imagem reforçada pelas grandes tradições
religiosas que nos ensinam a temer Deus e a andar na linha para não
sermos punidos. E mesmo que você não
pertença a nenhuma religião, essa crença lhe é transmitida através da
figura de autoridade dos pais. E isso inevitavelmente é projetado na sua
imagem de Deus.”
“Ya
escuchaste a alguien decir que Dios vive dentro y muy probablemente
crees en eso. Sin embargo, en un nivel más profundo, no tienes certeza
de ello y crees que Dios es un controlador punitivo, un cruel tirano que
no duda en castigarte y lanzarte al sufrimiento. La gran mayoría de las
personas carga con esta imagen reforzada por las grandes tradiciones
religiosas que nos enseñan a temer a Dios y a caminar en línea recta
para no ser castigados. E incluso si no perteneces a ninguna religión,
esta creencia te es transmitida a través de la figura de autoridad de
los padres. Y esto inevitablemente es proyectado en tu imagen de Dios.”
“You have already heard that God lives within, and it’s likely that you believe this to be true. But on a deeper level, you’re not so sure about this and you believe that God is a controlling punisher. You see God as a cruel tyrant that doesn’t hesitate to punish you and cast you into suffering. The vast majority of people carry this image within them, and it is reinforced by the great religious traditions that teach us to fear God and to stay in line so as to avoid punishment. Even if you don’t belong to any religion, this belief is transmitted to you through your parents’ authoritative figure. Eventually, this gets projected onto your own image of God.”
“You have already heard that God lives within, and it’s likely that you believe this to be true. But on a deeper level, you’re not so sure about this and you believe that God is a controlling punisher. You see God as a cruel tyrant that doesn’t hesitate to punish you and cast you into suffering. The vast majority of people carry this image within them, and it is reinforced by the great religious traditions that teach us to fear God and to stay in line so as to avoid punishment. Even if you don’t belong to any religion, this belief is transmitted to you through your parents’ authoritative figure. Eventually, this gets projected onto your own image of God.”
Today's Daily Dharma: What the Buddha Taught
What the Buddha Taught
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Saturday, October 17, 2015
Today's Daily Dharma: Meditation and Creative Imagination
Meditation and Creative Imagination
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Friday, October 16, 2015
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 16/10/2015
“Alguns compreendem satsang como uma palestra, mas é um equívoco.
Satsang é uma experiência - a experiência de estarmos juntos. Nessa
experiência, um instante de silêncio pode ser mais eloquente do que
todas as palavras. As palavras surgem na forma de conhecimento,
instrução e guiança, mas elas não são o mais importante.”
“Algunos entienden satsang como una conferencia, pero es un error. Satsang es una experiencia -la experiencia de estar juntos- . En esta experiencia, un instante de silencio puede ser más elocuente que todas las palabras. Las palabras surgen en forma de conocimiento, instrucción y guía, pero no son lo más importante.”
“Algunos entienden satsang como una conferencia, pero es un error. Satsang es una experiencia -la experiencia de estar juntos- . En esta experiencia, un instante de silencio puede ser más elocuente que todas las palabras. Las palabras surgen en forma de conocimiento, instrucción y guía, pero no son lo más importante.”
“Some people understand the word ‘satsang’ to be a talk, but this is
not entirely correct. Satsang is the experience of togetherness. In this
meeting, an instance of silence can be more eloquent than any spoken
word. Words may appear in the form of knowledge, instruction and
guidance, but they are not the most important element in this kind of
encounter.”
Today's Daily Dharma: Intention Is Everything
Intention Is Everything
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Thursday, October 15, 2015
Via The Huffington Post: Federal Report Calls For End To 'Conversion Therapy' For LGBT Youth The practice is "inappropriate and reinforces harmful gender stereotypes."
Evan Vucci/ASSOCIATED PRESS
Advocates of conversion therapy argue that gay people can change their sexual orientation with help, which often includes religious efforts. The therapy stems from the once accepted -- but now discredited -- belief that homosexuality is a mental disorder that can be cured.
SAMHSA's report concludes that "none of the existing research" supports that premise.
"Directing the child or adolescent to conform to any particular gender expression or identity, or directing parents and guardians to place pressure on the child or adolescent to conform to specific gender expressions and/or identities, is inappropriate and reinforces harmful gender stereotypes," SAMHSA's report says.
The report follows the White House's criticism of the practice in April, in response to an online petition following the death of 17-year-old transgender youth Leelah Alcorn, who died after her parents forced her to attend conversion therapy. Senior adviser Valerie Jarrett said at the time that the administration "supports efforts to ban the use of conversion therapy for minors."
On Thursday, she told reporters that the administration was pleased to present SAMHSA's report, which is the first in-depth federal look at conversion therapy.
"It's not our job to tell parents how to raise their children. But it is our responsibility to provide parents with the scientific evidence necessary in order for them to make the best possible decisions when raising their children," Jarrett said. "We do strongly believe that young people should be valued for who they are, no matter what they look like, where they're from, the gender with which they identify or who they love."
In May, Rep. Ted Lieu (D-Calif.) introduced the Therapeutic Fraud Prevention Act, which would classify conversion therapy as a fraudulent practice that would be illegal under the Federal Trade Commission Act. If passed, Lieu's bill would also ban all advertising that claims the therapy can successfully change a person's sexual orientation or gender identity.
In a statement Thursday, Lieu said the new report "makes it clear that so-called ‘conversion therapy’ is psychological child abuse -- plain and simple."
SAMHSA recommends a number of steps to end conversion therapy for minors, including reducing discrimination toward LGBT individuals and providing better information and training for behavioral health providers, as well as taking legislative or legal action.
Four states and the District of Columbia have already passed laws banning the practice for minors, and 21 other states have introduced similar legislation, according to the report.
"We recognize that the significant health disparities faced by LGBT youth -- in particular, issues related to suicide, depression, substance abuse and homelessness, among many others -- often relate to experiences of family rejection due to their sexual orientation, their gender identity or their gender expression," said Elliot Kennedy, special expert on LGBT affairs at SAMHSA, on Thursday.
Major health organizations have rejected conversion therapy as well, with many concluding that it can cause significant physical and psychological harm.
Read about The Huffington Post's Gabriel Arana's experience undergoing this "ex-gay therapy" as a teenager, from his article in The American Prospect in April 2012.
Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.
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Via Mavaddat Javid: Bahai Faith Discriminates on Homosexuals
Today's Daily Dharma: The Act of Apology
The Act of Apology
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Wednesday, October 14, 2015
Via WGB: America, the Hateful (Part Two)
America, the Hateful
By Lawrence Pfeil, Jr.
Part II
The fact that gay and lesbian Americans have won the battle for marriage equality may not bode well for hate crime trends in the future. According to June’s vocative.com article:
“In the past, marriage equality legislation has been speculatively linked to violence against the LGBT community. When France legalized same-sex marriage in 2013, it was accompanied by a reported 30 percent increase in such attacks. In 2009, a surge in anti-gay hate crimes in California was blamed on controversy surrounding Prop 8, a state ban on same-sex marriage. At the time, a Santa Clara County prosecutor in charge of tracking hate crimes said, ‘My belief from having done this work for many years is that surges in types of hate incidents are linked to the headlines and controversies of the day.’”
With 2015 also being a high water mark for transgender people, there is certainly reason for those in the Community to be apprehensive as well. On October 7th, Human Rights Campaign reported the murder of 22-year old Keisha Jenkins of Philadelphia, the 20th transgender person killed in America during this record setting year, with three months to go. As transgender activist Bamby Salcedo put it, “We’re also living a double-edged sword. When there’s increasing visibility, there’s also increasing hate towards our community.”
To believe anti-LGBT violence in America will simply “blow over” or fade with growing acceptance is to live in a fool’s paradise. One only needs to look at the explosion of new hate groups after the election of President Barack Obama; the systemic violence towards the Black community; or the massacre in Charleston at an AME Bible study to know it isn’t true. People are addicted to their hate.
Social conservatives, evangelical Christians, as well as others who don’t want to know better are clearly outraged by the seismic shift in LGBT civil rights. Fueled by media outlets, religious leaders, and political candidates bent on turning back the clock of equality, they’re not going to go away or change anytime soon.
People like the Tennessee hardware store owner posting and selling “No Gays Allowed” merchandise and government officials imposing their personal beliefs on others by refusing to uphold the Constitution which they have sworn an oath to do, are prime examples of such. Yes, they are guaranteed their freedom of speech and freedom of religion. But if the merchandise said “No Blacks Allowed” and marriage licenses were being denied to interracial couples, the hate and discrimination would not be tolerated.
How is it different from anti-gay graffiti, transgender slurs, or gender nonconformity bullying? It’s not, including those against the most vulnerable, children. Lambda Legal website states, “There is no constitutional right to be a bully…and the kind of behavior that school authorities are expected to control or prevent.” And yet, many administrators fail to do so adding to the epidemic of “self-inflicted hate crimes,” LGBT adolescent suicide.
These various kinds of actions not only foster fertile ground, but plant the seeds of greater, more widespread, and ultimately violent acts of hate. As Shannon Minter of the National Center for Lesbian Rights said, “We all have a responsibility to stop this violence. We all have an obligation to speak up, to do something.”
For decades LGBTs have been urged to step out of the closet and into the Community. Now it’s time for the Community and its allies to step up and step in when they witness hate and stop it before it can take root and grow into violence. For America to become beautiful, it must have vigilant gardeners tending to it so life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness can hope to thrive.
Get Involved
State by state laws and advocacy
National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 14/10/2015
“Até hoje nós, enquanto sociedade humana, estivemos interessados em
explorar e conquistar a matéria. Isso ocorre porque estamos em um
estágio ainda primitivo de evolução. Mas a inteligência criadora já está
podendo nos dar provas de que precisamos nos mover em outra direção,
caso contrário seremos extintos. Nós precisamos nos mover em direção à
consciência amorosa, e para isso precisamos deixar de explorar a matéria
e nos tornar exploradores da consciência.”
“Hasta hoy nosotros, como sociedad humana, estuvimos interesados en
explorar y conquistar la materia. Esto ocurre porque estamos en un
estadio aún primitivo de evolución. Pero la inteligencia creadora ya
está pudiendo darnos pruebas de que necesitamos movernos en otra
dirección, si no seremos extinguidos. Precisamos movernos en dirección a
la consciencia amorosa, y para eso necesitamos dejar de explorar la
materia y volvernos exploradores de la consciencia.”
“Up until now, humanity as a whole has been interested in exploring and conquering the material world. This has been so because we are still in a relatively primitive stage of our evolution. However, the Creative Intelligence has already been showing us that it’s time for us to move in another direction; otherwise, we will become extinct. We need to move towards loving consciousness, which means leaving behind our exploration of the world of matter and instead becoming explorers of consciousness.”
“Up until now, humanity as a whole has been interested in exploring and conquering the material world. This has been so because we are still in a relatively primitive stage of our evolution. However, the Creative Intelligence has already been showing us that it’s time for us to move in another direction; otherwise, we will become extinct. We need to move towards loving consciousness, which means leaving behind our exploration of the world of matter and instead becoming explorers of consciousness.”
day's Daily Dharma: Awareness Arises Naturally
Awareness Arises Naturally
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Tuesday, October 13, 2015
Via LionsRoar: Meditation: Be Kind to Yourself
A three-step contemplation to give yourself the compassion you need (and deserve).
- Put both hands on your heart, pause, and feel their warmth. You can also put your hand anyplace on your body that feels soothing and comforting, like your belly or face.
- Breathe deeply in and out.
- Speak these words to yourself, out loud or silently, in a warm and caring tone:
This is a moment of suffering. Suffering is a part of life.
May I be kind to myself in this moment.
May I give myself the compassion I need.
The first phrase, This is a moment of suffering, is designed to bring mindfulness to the fact that you’re in pain. Other possible wordings are I’m having a really tough time right now, This hurts, or anything that describes the suffering you are experiencing.
The second phrase, Suffering is a part of life, reminds you that imperfection is part of the shared human experience. Other possible wordings are Everyone feels this way sometimes, This is part of being human, etc.
The third phrase, May I be kind to myself in this moment, helps bring a sense of caring concern to your present-moment experience. Other possible wordings are May I love and support myself right now, May I accept myself as I am, etc.
The final phrase, May I give myself the compassion I need, firmly sets your intention to be self-compassionate. You might use other words such as May I remember that I am worthy of compassion, May I give myself the same compassion I would give to a good friend, etc.
Find the wordings for these four phrases that are the most comfortable for you and memorize them. Then, the next time you judge yourself or have a difficult experience, you can use these phrases as a way of reminding yourself to be self-compassionate. This practice is a handy tool to soothe and calm troubled states of mind.
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Via Sri Prem BabaFlor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the Day 13/10/2015
“De todos os estágios da desidentificação com a natureza inferior o
mais difícil é a identificação do prazer negativo. Mas, estando
verdadeiramente comprometido, você consegue. E quando você vê os
desdobramentos e o impacto que essa condição causa na sua vida e na vida
das pessoas a sua volta, você começa a querer largar esse padrão. Nesse
momento você pode enxergar o que está te prendendo e encontrar o núcleo
do apego. E esse é o início do desapego.”
“De todos los estadios de la desidentificación con la naturaleza
inferior el más difícil es la identificación del placer negativo. Pero
estando verdaderamente comprometido, lo consigues. Y cuando ves los
desdoblamientos y el impacto que esa condición causa en tu vida y en la
vida de las personas cercanas, comienzas a querer soltar ese patrón. En
ese momento puedes ver lo que te está tomando y encontrar el núcleo del
apego. Y ese es el inicio del desapego.”
“Of all the stages within the process of de-identifying from the lower self, the most difficult is to identify our negatively orientated pleasure. If we are truly committed to this endeavor, then we will succeed. When we see all of its unfoldings and the impacts it has had on our lives and the lives of those around us, we begin to truly want to let go of this pattern. In this moment, we are able to see what has been keeping us stuck and we encounter the root of this attachment. This marks the beginning of the detachment process.”
“Of all the stages within the process of de-identifying from the lower self, the most difficult is to identify our negatively orientated pleasure. If we are truly committed to this endeavor, then we will succeed. When we see all of its unfoldings and the impacts it has had on our lives and the lives of those around us, we begin to truly want to let go of this pattern. In this moment, we are able to see what has been keeping us stuck and we encounter the root of this attachment. This marks the beginning of the detachment process.”
Today's Daily Dharma: Understanding Understanding
Understanding Understanding
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