A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Whatever a person frequently
thinks about and ponders, that will become the inclination of their
mind. If one frequently thinks about and ponders healthy states, one has
abandoned unhealthy states to cultivate healthy states, and then one’s
mind inclines to healthy states. (MN 19)
Here a person rouses the will, makes an effort, stirs up energy, exerts
the mind, and strives to maintain arisen healthy mental states. One
maintains the arisen awakening factor of equanimity. (MN 141)
Reflection
The mind is
constantly changing, and every moment is different from every other.
Still, there are some mental and emotional states that are good for us
and we want to sustain, and others we are better off abandoning. We
cannot always rely on the healthy states to naturally persist once they
occur, and it is a skillful use of effort to work to maintain them.
Doing so will incline the mind steadily in the direction of greater
health.
Daily Practice
When you find
yourself feeling generous, look for ways to maintain that attitude of
generosity by additional thoughts and acts of generosity. When you
notice kindness or compassion arising in your experience, recognize it
as healthy and see how you can nurture the emotion so it lingers in your
mind a bit longer. At every opportunity, find ways to encourage your
best qualities to continue once they have arisen.
Tomorrow: Establishing Mindfulness of Mental Objects and the Fourth Jhāna One week from today: Restraining Unarisen Unhealthy States
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Carlos
Castaneda was once asked how we could make our lives more spiritual,
and he said: ‘Just remember that everyone you encounter today, everyone
you see, will someday have to die.’ He’s right. That knowledge changes
our whole relationship to people.
Larry Rosenberg, “Only the Practice of Dharma Can Help Us at the Time of Death”
RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Intoxication
Intoxication is unhealthy.
Refraining from intoxication is healthy. (MN 9) What are the
imperfections that defile the mind? Negligence is an imperfection that
defiles the mind. Knowing that negligence is an imperfection that
defiles the mind, a person abandons it. (MN 7) One practices thus:
“Others may become negligent by intoxication, but I will abstain from
the negligence of intoxication.” (MN 8)
When I look on with equanimity, some particular sources of suffering fade away in me; thus that suffering is exhausted. (MN 101)
Reflection
We saw last
month how some sources of suffering diminish with effort. Now we hear
that other sources of suffering are resolved when we simply look upon
them with equanimity. In other words, some things are better handled by
not striving to change them overtly but simply by changing your
relationship to what is happening. Desire can be a form of intoxication,
and equanimity can transform negligence into clarity.
Daily Practice
Knowing when to
step forward to try to change things with effort and when to step back
and allow them to change by natural processes is a skill to be learned
and a practice to be developed. Never underestimate the transformative
power of equanimity. Sometimes it is our own desires, our wanting and
not wanting, that cause problems; in such cases learning to look on with
equanimity can make all the difference.
Tomorrow: Maintaining Arisen Healthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Harming Living Beings
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We
can improve the texture of the mind by influencing the kind of thoughts
we tend to think. When you observe thoughts that diminish the qualities
you appreciate, abandon those thoughts and give a thought or two to
something virtuous, respectable, joyful—perhaps a thought of kindness.
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