RIGHT ACTION
Reflecting Upon Verbal Action
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However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you wish to do an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal
action thus: “Would this action I wish to do with speech lead to both
my own affliction and the affliction of another?” If, upon reflection,
you know that it would, then do not do it; if you know that it would
not, then proceed. (MN 61)
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Habits of
speech follow the same principles as habits of body and mind. Whatever
you practice doing, you learn to do, and however you practice speaking,
you learn to speak that way. If you speak well of others, are kind in
your intentions, and always take care to say only what is true, your
character will be molded in that direction. The opposite is also true,
and it is not hard to pick up unhealthy and hurtful habits of speech.
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Practice
mindfulness of speech. This means speaking with conscious awareness
rather than reacting automatically to what others say or venting the
first emotion to surge into your mind. Reflect on the effect your words
are likely to have on others before you let fly, and take care not to do
harm to yourself or others. In fact, any time you are harming others
with your words, you are also harming yourself. Speak carefully.
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Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given
One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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