A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
If we can recognize and accept our pain without pushing it away or clinging to it, we’ll be better able to see that joys and sorrows are truly the same.
Whatever a person frequently
thinks about and ponders, that will become the inclination of their
mind. If one frequently thinks about and ponders healthy states, one has
abandoned unhealthy states to cultivate healthy states, and then one’s
mind inclines to healthy states. (MN 19)
Here a person rouses the will, makes an effort, stirs up energy, exerts
the mind, and strives to develop the arising of unarisen healthy mental
states. One develops the unarisen investigation of states awakening
factor. (MN 141)
Reflection
Here right
effort is defined as actively encouraging the better aspects of our
character to emerge from unconscious potential to conscious embodiment.
We are all capable of kindness, for example. Why not try more often to
be kind? We are capable of wisdom; let’s actively try to encourage it.
This suggests that happiness—the regular manifestation of healthy mental
and emotional states—is something we can make happen through effort.
Daily Practice
The positive
mental state singled out in this passage is the second factor of
awakening, called the investigation of states. When mindfulness is
present, it is natural that the mind takes great interest in experience
and investigates its mental and emotional states carefully. See what it
feels like to be curious about the detailed textures of your experience
and see what you can do to evoke and support this sense of regularly
looking closely at your mental states.
Tomorrow: Establishing Mindfulness of Mind and Abiding in the Third Jhāna One week from today: Maintaining Arisen Healthy States
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Studying,
working, driving, cooking, or any other activity, so long as it only
aims to get somewhere else, to achieve something else, cannot be the
goal of life. When we have achieved a goal, reached a destination, or
resolved a problem and have some free time, what do we do? We play. Play
is its own end.
RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures
Sensual misconduct is
unhealthy. Refraining from sensual misconduct is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning sensual misconduct, one abstains from misbehaving among
sensual pleasures. (MN 41) One practices thus: "Others may engage in
sensual misconduct, but I will abstain from sensual misconduct." (MN 8)
A person reflects thus: "If someone were to commit adultery with my
partner, that would not be pleasing and agreeable to me. Now if I were
to commit adultery with the partner of another, that would not be
pleasing and agreeable to the other. How can I inflict on another what
is displeasing and disagreeable to me?" Having reflected thus, one
abstains from sexual misconduct, exhorts others to abstain from it, and
speaks in praise of abstinence from it. (SN 55.7)
Reflection
The practical
definition of the precept against sexual misbehavior is defined in the
context of householder or layperson life as fidelity or honesty in
relationships. When an intimate partnership (of any gender combination)
involves a mutual promise of exclusivity, this is to be respected.
Cheating involves causing hurt and not being truthful, both of which are
inherently unhealthy and harmful.
Daily Practice
Relationships
are a rich area for daily practice. This text invites us to explore the
application of the Golden Rule in relationships, in both large and small
ways. It emphasizes that a pledge of fidelity works both ways and that
there are also countless minor instances of abuse of trust and integrity
that can come under the gaze of awareness. Look to see if there is
anything you do, however small, that you would not want your partner to
do.
Tomorrow: Developing Unarisen Healthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Intoxication
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We
can never be sure of the fact that we are born in the Pure Land and
have attained our enlightenment. To acquire this consciousness, we must
exhaust our efforts.
Dr. Daisetz Teitaro Suzuki, “Self-Power and Other-Power”