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However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too bodily
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you wish to do an action with the body, reflect upon that same
bodily action thus: "Would this action I wish to do with the body lead
to the affliction of another?" If, upon reflection, you know that it
would, then do not do it; if you know that it would not, then proceed.
(MN 61)
Reflection
How much of our
bodily action is intentional, done with full awareness, and how much of
what we do is done out of habit? Seeing what you do as you do it, as
when you observe yourself in a mirror, is one of the metaphors used for
mindfulness.
Daily Practice
Practice acting
with full awareness. Even simple tasks like breathing and walking and
eating can be fields for training the capacity for mindfulness. Then the
ability will be available when more ethically challenging situations
arise. It is a matter of becoming more sensitive to the implications of
acting, and being more aware of everything we do. In this way we can
plant healthy fruit, rather than just dealing with whatever arises.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Harming Living Beings One week from today: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
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It
is precisely our recognition of life’s inevitable hardships, along with
our uprooting of the attachment that exacerbates them, that allows us
to appreciate the mere fact of being.
There is a lovely story of a boy who
goes to a Zen Master and asks, “Master, I know you have many students,
but if I study harder than all the rest of them, how long will it take
me to get enlightened?” The master said, “Ten years.”
The boy said, “Well, if I work day and night and double my efforts, how long will it take?” The master said, “Twenty years.”
Now the boy talked of further achievement, and the master said, “Thirty years.” The boy replied, “Why do you keep adding years?”
The master answered, “Since you will have one eye on the goal, there
will only be one eye left to have on the work. And it will slow you down
immeasurably.”
False speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from false speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning false speech,
one dwells refraining from false speech, a truth-speaker, one to be
relied on, trustworthy, dependable, not a deceiver of the world. One
does not in full awareness speak falsehood for one’s own ends, or for
another’s ends, or for some trifling worldly end. (DN 1) One practices
thus: "Others may speak falsely, but I shall abstain from false speech."
(MN 8)
Such speech as you know to be true and correct but unbeneficial, and
which is welcome and agreeable to others—do not utter such speech. (MN
58)
Reflection
Speaking
truthfully is a habit that can be learned, even if we have previously
learned the habit of speaking untruthfully. It is a matter of bringing
full awareness to your speech and its consequences. Often there may
appear to be a short-term benefit from speaking falsely, but the Buddha
is pointing out the long-term harm that false speech does to your
character. In the long run the lack of integrity is unhealthy.
Daily Practice
This passage is
urging us to speak only when what we say is likely to have a beneficial
effect on another person or on the situation at hand. It is not enough
to say things that are agreeable to others, even if they are true.
Flattery, for example, might have an unbeneficial effect on someone by
inflating their sense of themselves. Practice speaking only those words
that are going to be helpful.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Bodily Action One week from today: Refraining from Malicious Speech
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