A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Thursday, May 13, 2021
Via White Crane Institute // ARMISTEAD MAUPIN
Today is the birthday of writer, serialist and national treasure ARMISTEAD MAUPIN (1944). Maupin is most famous for his six book "Tales of the City" series of books. The first were originally published in serial forms in Bay Area newspapers. His later novels include "The Night Listener" and "Maybe The Moon" and 2009's "Michael Tolliver Lives." His name, coincidentally, is an anagram of "is a man I dreamt up."
It’s a busy life for The Wonderful Mr. Maupin with a brand spanking new musical based on Tales of the City. And PBS just featured a delightful documentary, The Untold Tales of Armistead Maupin, He is married to Christopher Turner. His most recent book revisits his beloved characters from Tales, The Days of Anna Madrigal. New York: Harper. 2014. ISBN 978-0062196248.
For more on Armistead Maupin, and maybe to send him a birthday greeting, visit his website at http://www.armisteadmaupin.
Happy Birthday Armistead. Long may you wave!
Via Daily Dharma: Conjuring Love
When we are able to arouse love in our hearts without any cause, just because love is the heart’s quality, we feel secure.
—Ayya Khema, “What Love Is”
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Wednesday, May 12, 2021
Via Lion's Roar // DIY Dharma: You Have Everything You Need
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DIY Dharma: You Have Everything You Need | ||
Interested
in beginning a meditation practice but don’t know where to begin? You
have a mind, body, thoughts, and a natural bent toward awakening. |
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Via Lion's Roar // What Is Sangha?
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What Is Sangha? | ||
Thich Nhat Hanh explains that sangha is more than a community, it’s a deep spiritual practice. |
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Via Tricycle // Dream Yoga
With Andrew Holecek
Now available for self-study
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Via Daily Dharma: Free from Like and Dislike
In
a moment of real struggle not to give in to the body’s desire, a new
awareness can appear—an awareness that is neither attracted nor
repulsed, that is separate and free from the forces of like and dislike.
—Stuart Smithers, “Losing Our Bodies, Losing Our Minds”
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Via White Crane Institute
On this date the acting genius of stage and screen KATHERINE HEPBURN was born. She's also a Gay diva for those into great acting chops and killer dialogue. A screen legend, Hepburn holds the record for the most Best Actress Oscar wins with four, from twelve nominations. Hepburn won an Emmy Award in 1976 for her lead role in Love Among the Ruins, and was nominated for four other Emmys and two Tony Awards during the course of her more than 70-year acting career.
In 1999, the American Film Institute ranked Hepburn as the greatest female star in the history of American cinema. Do yourself a favor and watch, or re-watch, "Woman of the Year," "Adam's Rib," "African Queen," "Pat & Mike," "Philadelphia Story," and/or "The Lion in Winter." Celebrate a brilliant actor and the remarkably independent woman behind the roles.
There are reliable reports of her – at the very least -- bisexuality, which is not hard to believe. Gore Vidal himself has vouched for his buddy Scotty Bowers, who claims that he set Katharine Hepburn up “with over 150 different women” in his book Full Service: My Adventures in Hollywood and the Secret Sex Lives of Stars. Vidal flew to L.A. expressly for the book’s launch party. He wanted to assure attendees that Bowers is totally telling the truth. In a speech, he told party-goers he’s never caught Bowers in a lie in the 60-plus years he’s known him, joking that L.A. is a town “where you can meet 1,000 liars a day.” We’d say that never catching someone in a lie is a little different than saying someone has never told a lie, but hey—good enough for us.
So that settles it: Katharine Hepburn was a very sexually active Lesbian. Case closed! OK...bisexual, maybe.
Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation // Words of Wisdom - May 12, 2021 💌
Together we are all on a journey called life. We are a little broken and
a little shattered inside. Each one of us is aspiring to make it to the
end. None is deprived of pain here and we have all suffered in our own
ways. I think our journey is all about healing ourselves and healing
each other in our own special ways. Let’s just help each other put all
those pieces back together and make it to the end more beautifully. Let
us help each other survive.
- Ram Dass -
Tuesday, May 11, 2021
Daily Dharma: Respecting Your Emotions
If
we can allow some space within our awareness and rest there, we can
respect our troubling thoughts and emotions, allow them to come, and let
them go.
—Tsoknyi Rinpoche, “Allow for Space”
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Monday, May 10, 2021
Via FB // Rest in power, Alireza
In
a future Baha’i government homosexuality will be banned and for those
who engage in homosexual “behaviors” will face a punishment that has yet
to be determined by the Universal House of Justice, the international
governing body of the Baha’i Faith, most Baha’is are clueless about this
future punishment yet to be prescribed and for that I say “shame”,
shame on them for their ignorance when they claim modernity,
progressiveness, and uniting the hearts of mankind, for those who know
about this disturbing future punishment, you are all cowards in your
silence. If the Baha’i Faith is to pick up where Shia Islam left off we
are doomed, but there’s a ray of hope and that is to re-examine the
“translation by committee” of the Kitab-i-Aqdas (The Most Holy Book,
the Book of Laws) and the Guardian’s very human fallibility, Baha’u’llah
spoke against pederasty (child molestation) not adult same sex
relationships. Let’s not go down the path of the Shia fanatics in Iran
the home of the Baha’i Faith, we have the tools laid out by Baha’u’llah
to build a future civilization based on Oneness , Love, Logic, and one
that embraces Science, let’s strive for that and do better by our LGBTQ
Baha’i Brothers and Sisters.
20-year-old Alireza Fazeli-Monfared,
a young gay man living in Iran, has been brutally beheaded in a
suspected honour killing. Three close male relatives, reported to be his
brother and two cousins, have been arrested.
Videos of Alireza
shared on social media paint a picture of a vibrant, charismatic youth
who loved fashion and lip-syncing to his favorite songs on TikTok.
Reports say he had been planning to flee to Turkey with his boyfriend at
the time of his killing.
Alireza's violent and untimely death
cannot be in vain: his voice may have been silenced, but those of his
community must continue to rise up and demand a world where such horror
is no longer possible.
Rest in power, Alireza.
https://www.out.com/crime/2021/5/10/20-year-old-man-reportedly-beheaded-family-being-gay