A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too mental
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you have done an action with the mind, reflect upon that same
mental action thus: “Has this action I have done with the mind led to
the affliction of another?” If, upon reflection, you know that it has,
then tell someone you trust about it and undertake a commitment not to
do it again. If you know it has not, then be content and feel happy
about it. (MN 61)
Reflection
We are used to
hearing that Buddhist teachings encourage us to stay in the present
moment, and this is true of meditation generally. But it is also
appropriate to learn from the past, and reflecting on your past actions
is one way to do this. Notice that actions include mental actions, so
even what you have thought in the past is to be investigated to see if
any of it has caused harm to another person.
Daily Practice
Think back on
the quality of your thoughts directed toward other people in the recent
past. Have you felt jealousy, ill will, or repressed anger, for example?
Have you plotted in some small way to undermine the success of someone,
even if you did not put the plan into action? This is intrinsically
unhealthy and potentially harmful behavior, and bringing such thoughts
to light by confessing them to a friend can be helpful.
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Harsh speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from harsh speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning harsh speech,
one refrains from harsh speech. One speaks words that are gentle,
pleasing to the ear, and affectionate, words that go to the heart, are
courteous, and are agreeable to many. (DN 1) One practices thus: “Others
may speak harshly, but I shall abstain from harsh speech.” (MN 8)
When one speaks hurriedly, one’s body grows tired and one’s mind becomes
excited, one’s voice is strained and one’s throat becomes hoarse, and
the speech of one who speaks hurriedly is indistinct and hard to
understand. (MN 139)
Reflection
This is a
simple and straightforward suggestion for how to speak more effectively.
Hurried speech is a form of harsh speech and is to be abandoned
whenever possible. When you look, you can see how strained people can
get when they rush their words, and you know what this feels like when
you do it. Speedy action of body, speech, or mind supports restlessness,
while taking your time is conducive to calming body and mind.
Daily Practice
Put this
guideline for right speech into action today and see what effect it has
on your mind and body and on the people with whom you speak. Slow down
your speech. Take your time to say what you mean with care. See if you
can craft words that “go to the heart” rather than speaking harshly.
Notice also when the speech of others is indistinct or hard to
understand, and learn from this the effect of your own speech.
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A
curious, connected mind is poised for insight. This is also the mind
that is in awe of this fathomless universe, that can read patterns, make
choices, play with language, and use concepts while knowing that the
map is not the territory.
"When I look back on the suffering in my life, this may sound really
strange, but I see it now as a gift. I would have never asked for it for
a second. I hated it while it was happening and I protested as loudly
as I could, but suffering happened anyway. Now, in retrospect I see the
way in which it deepened my being immeasurably."
Seven islands to the high side of the bay, 'cross the bay To the sunset through the blue light of a fiery autumn haze We went walking on the high side of the bay on a chilly morn And we saw how leaves had fallen on the beds where trees were born Any man in his right mind could not fail to be made aware Any woman with a gift of wisdom would not seek her answers there
Seven islands to the high side of the bay if you're looking west To the sunset you can see it, all in fiery autumn dress Anytime would be the right time to come up to your bed of boughs Anybody with a wish to wander could not fail but to be aroused
Living high in the city, guess you think it's a pretty good way You get to learn but when you get burned you got nothing to say You seem to think because you got chicken to go you're in luck Fortune will not find you in your mansion or your truck Brothers will desert you when you're down and shit out of luck
Look around at the morning, guess you're doing the best you can Surely you know that when you go nobody gives you a hand Think of the air you're breathing in, think of the time you waste Think of the right and wrong and consider the frown on your face
It's time you tried living on the high side of the bay, you need a rest Any woman or a man with a wish to fade away could be so blessed Fortune will not find you in your mansion turned to gold Brothers will desert you when your nights turn long and cold
If you feel it you better believe it, you're gonna see it, so you really know It is rising like a feather, dipping and dancing from below There's a new wave that is breaking in the wake of a passing ship Every nation's gonna be shaken, put it together, don't let it slip
It's time you tried living on the high side of the bay, you need a rest Any man or a woman with a wish to fade away could be so blessed
Seven islands to the high side of the bay, 'cross the bay To the sunset through the blue light of a fiery autumn haze To the sunset through the blue light of a fiery autumn haze
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis upon which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on appreciative joy, for when you develop meditation on
appreciative joy, any discontent will be abandoned. (MN 62)
Appreciative joy succeeds when it makes discontent subside. (Vm 9.95)
Reflection
The third brahma-vihara,
appreciative joy, is not mere joy. It is the gladness that arises when
you witness or contemplate the good fortune and happiness of another
being. It is a celebration of all that is good in the world, an
appreciation of healthy enjoyment itself. If you allow yourself to
experience this often, your mind will naturally incline toward this
state. It is impossible to feel any discontent when you genuinely feel
good about others.
Daily Practice
This is a
practice the world needs greatly, and it is deeply healing to the
wounded heart. Living beings abide together in such profound
interdependence that when relationships are fused with appreciative joy
rather than discontent, the entire system becomes healthier. Practice
celebrating the good things you see around you every day and use
appreciative joy as a powerful antidote whenever you feel discontent.
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Through
repeated practice, we see that all phenomena have a beginning, a
middle, and an end, and then letting go occurs as a natural response of a
mind that understands the way things really are.
RIGHT VIEW Understanding the Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering
What is the cessation of
suffering? It is the remainderless fading away and ceasing, the giving
up, relinquishing, letting go, and rejecting of craving. (MN 9)
When one knows and sees thoughts as they actually are, then one is not
attached to thoughts. When one abides unattached, one is not infatuated,
and one’s craving is abandoned. One’s bodily and mental troubles are
abandoned, and one experiences bodily and mental well-being. (MN 149)
Reflection
Since suffering
is caused by craving, the cessation of craving brings about the end of
suffering. We have seen how this works for each of the sense modalities,
and now we turn to the mind as the sixth pathway of experience. We are
attached to certain thoughts—usually the ones that feel good—and we
struggle against others, which results in a lot of mental troubles. We
gain well-being by letting go of both forms of craving.
Daily Practice
Right view can
be a practice in itself, a practice of gaining insight into the nature
of our experience. Seeing thoughts as they actually are, as arising and
passing conditioned events, helps us get free of attachment to them.
Thoughts are not wrong, but we suffer in direct proportion to our
infatuation with them. Craving can be relinquished, if only for a
moment. Abandon bodily and mental troubles and get free—if only for a
moment.
Tomorrow: Cultivating Appreciative Joy One week from today: Understanding the Noble Truth of the Way to the Cessation of Suffering
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