A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Tuesday, February 13, 2024
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Intention: Cultivating Equanimity
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Via Daily Dharma: Appreciating Complexity
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Via Writing as a Spiritual Practice
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Monday, February 12, 2024
Via GBF: "Navigating Missteps in Our Relationships" with René Rivera
How do we bring our practice into the difficult moments of relationships with others? Can we learn from these and approach them with curiosity and presence as an opportunity to grow?
René Rivera looks at the ways our practice can help us become more aware of when our words or behaviors generate conflict. He shares his approach to mend these transgressions, including:
- Be present with ourselves. Pause and focus on the sensations and emotions we feel when we make a mistake, such as shame, anger, or frustration.
- Open to the other person. Turn with curiosity to understanding the other person, such as acknowledging what has been said and being open to feedback.
- Seek to repair the damage; make amends sooner rather than later.
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Listen to the full talk on your favorite podcast player or our website:
https://gaybuddhist.org/
Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation \\ Words of Wisdom - February 11, 2024 💌
Either you do it like it’s a big weight on you, or you do it as part of the dance. When you understand the thought is the thought of the thoughtless, your singing and dancing is no other than the voice of the dharma. Singing and dancing - insurance, savings accounts, jobs, responsibilities - Shiva’s dance of life. Do you do from ‘ugh’ or do it like ‘ah?’ Do you surf through it all, or do you carry it around like it's a load?
- Ram Dass -
From Ram Dass Here & Now Podcast - Episode 23 - Shiva's Dance of Life
Via Daily Dharma: Transforming Through Discomfort
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