September 19, 2024
Breaking Open Instead of Breaking Down
Suffering
is an inevitable, defining feature of existence. The Buddha gained this
insight when he attained enlightenment, and later declared this as the
first of the four noble truths.
Escape from suffering is the goal of Buddhism, but the way out is not to
turn away. The way out is through. So as we work toward the goal of
escaping suffering, we must learn to endure pain, hardship,
disappointment, and all the various ways suffering shows up around us
and in our own lives.
How do we confront and sit with suffering without letting it destroy us?
How does intimacy with suffering advance insight and stir compassion
instead of fear, hostility, or callousness?
One way to help relieve the pain is simply to embrace suffering with
care and attention, whether it is arising in ourselves or we’re watching
atrocity unfold around the world. Another option is to cultivate
compassion. As meditation teacher Scott Tusa says, “Compassion allows us
to bear witness in a way that softens us and opens us, rather than
breaks us down.” It brings us together and fortifies us where we
otherwise might feel isolated and helpless.
This week’s Three Teachings explores how developing compassion through practice and in everyday life can help sustain us through adversity near and far.
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