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Tuesday, October 15, 2024
VIA Dhamma Wheel | Right Intention: Cultivating Appreciative Joy
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on appreciative joy, for when you develop meditation on
appreciative joy, any discontent will be abandoned. (MN 62)
Appreciative joy is like a mother with a son who is young, for she just
wants him to long enjoy the benefits of youth. (Vm 9.108)
Reflection
Appreciative
joy is what lovingkindness transforms into when we witness something
good and beneficial happening to another person, just as it turns to
compassion when we see harm being done. Appreciating the good fortune of
others is a readily available source of joy, as there are many
blessings that can be counted. You can choose to focus on the harm or
the good in the world around you and thereby feel either joy or sorrow.
Daily Practice
Practice
focusing on the good things around you, the many ways other people can
experience good fortune and well-being. Notice how your mind is uplifted
when you appreciate the positive aspects of others' experience. This is
a skill that can be developed with practice. It is not about shutting
out the misfortunes that abound in the world but about balancing them
with recognizing the many blessings that also exist.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Harsh Speech One week from today: Cultivating Equanimity
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