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Thursday, March 13, 2025
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Social Action
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too social
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
One reflects thus: "Others may act in unhealthy ways; I shall refrain
from acting in unhealthy ways." (MN 8) One lives with companions in
concord, with mutual appreciation, without disputing, blending like milk
and water, viewing each other with kindly eyes. One practices thus: "I
maintain bodily acts of lovingkindness toward my companions both openly
and privately." (MN 31)
Reflection
So much of what
we think, say, and do affects the people around us. It is important to
bring awareness and care to our social interactions. When we “view each
other with kindly eyes,” it is natural and easy to be thoughtful. It is
often the little things we do that have a big effect on maintaining
harmony among friends, family, and co-workers.
Daily Practice
One simple way
to practice living with others in harmony is to do kindly acts for them
from time to time. Today, actively look for ways to do little things
with the intention of pleasing someone. And don’t necessarily feel the
need for such deeds to be acknowledged. Much value comes from performing
acts of kindness in private. Take it up as a challenge—finding creative
ways to do something nice for someone, even in secret.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Intoxication One week from today: Reflecting upon Bodily Action
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