"Among voters who saw the desire by gays and lesbians to be legally
wedded as a bid primarily for the rights and protections that
heterosexual couples have, same-sex marriage was a loser. Only 26
percent of them voted for its legalization, while 74 percent voted
against. But among voters who believed that gays and lesbians were
chiefly interested in being able to pledge the fullest and most public
commitment possible to their partners, same-sex marriage was a huge,
huge winner. Eighty-five percent of those voters supported it, while
only 15 percent opposed it.
"That’s a fascinating microcosm of, and window into, broader political
dynamics. When an initiative in this country is framed or understood
largely as an attempt by a given constituency to
get more, the
opposition to it is frequently bolstered, the resistance strengthened.
Even if the constituency is trying to right a wrong or rectify a
disadvantage, 'Give me' can be a risky approach.
'Let me' is
often a better one, and when voters hear gays and lesbians asking to
participate in a hallowed institution for the most personal and
heartfelt of reasons, voters may have a more positive reaction." -
Frank Bruni, writing about an analysis of Washington state's voters.
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