Every time you’re identified with an attraction or an aversion, you’re identified with your ego.
So the job of extricating oneself into one’s soul is slowly cultivating
those qualities that allow you to see the whole process and to calm
yourself into realizing that your incarnation is about extricating
yourself from attractions and aversions so that you are not lost in
incarnation any more. But it doesn’t mean pushing against it,
because if you push against it, it’s still got ya. The game is to go
beyond that to the point where you are fully in the world and fully not
in the world.
- Ram Dass -