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Wednesday, December 25, 2024
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from False Speech
False speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from false speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning false speech,
one dwells refraining from false speech, a truth-speaker, one to be
relied on, trustworthy, dependable, not a deceiver of the world. One
does not in full awareness speak falsehood for one’s own ends or for
another’s ends or for some trifling worldly end. (DN 1) One practices
thus: "Others may speak falsely, but I shall abstain from false speech."
(MN 8)
Such speech as you know to be untrue, incorrect, and unbeneficial but
which is welcome and agreeable to others—do not utter such speech. (MN
58)
Reflection
This teaching
is pointing out the unhealthy effects of flattery and other kinds of
hollow speech. Why speak something you know is untrue? Presumably in
this case to make someone else feel good or to like you more. This is a
short-term strategy that will only cause more harm than good in the
longer term. Right speech is about understanding the more subtle aspects
of cause and effect in the realm of human communication.
Daily Practice
The most direct
way to practice right speech is to undertake a serious commitment to
always speak the truth. From the Buddhist perspective, this has more to
do with deeper health than with what you eat or how much exercise you
get. Notice that this practice is not about judging other people for
their wrong speech but is focused on your own dedication to abstaining
from false speech and consistently telling the truth.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Bodily Action One week from today: Refraining from Malicious Speech
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