Via JMG: Out Magazine Unveils 2014 Out 100 List

 

Out Magazine has unveiled this year's Out 100 list. The 2014 ranking features Buzzfeed's Chris Geidner (seated above) and New York Times writer Josh Barro (third from left.) Others on the list are Dan Savage, Larry Kramer, Andy Bell, Armistead Maupin, Jason Collins, Richard Chamberlain, Carmen Carrera, and the cast of Looking.  See the full list.

Labels: Andy Bell, Armistead Maupin, Chris Geidner, Dan Savage, Jason Collins, Josh Barro, Larry Kramer, LGBT culture, LGBT rights, Looking, Out 100, Out Magazine

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Via JMG: Mormon Church Confesses: Yes, Joseph Smith Married As Many As 40 Women

The Mormon Church has finally formally acknowledged that its founder Joseph Smith married as many as 40 women, one of whom was only 14 years old at the time.

Elder Steven E. Snow, the church historian and a member of its senior leadership, said in an interview, “There is so much out there on the Internet that we felt we owed our members a safe place where they could go to get reliable, faith-promoting information that was true about some of these more difficult aspects of our history. “We need to be truthful, and we need to understand our history,” Elder Snow said. “I believe our history is full of stories of faith and devotion and sacrifice, but these people weren’t perfect.” The essay on “plural marriage” in the early days of the Mormon movement in Ohio and Illinois says polygamy was commanded by God, revealed to Smith and accepted by him and his followers only very reluctantly. Abraham and other Old Testament patriarchs had multiple wives, and Smith preached that his church was the “restoration” of the early, true Christian church. Most of Smith’s wives were between the ages of 20 and 40, the essay says, but he married Helen Mar Kimball, a daughter of two close friends, “several months before her 15th birthday.” A footnote says that according to “careful estimates,” Smith had 30 to 40 wives. The biggest bombshell for some in the essays is that Smith married women who were already married, some to men who were Smith’s friends and followers.

The revelation notes that Smith probably didn't have sex with all his wives as some of them were merely "sealed" into being his eternal wife in the next life. And on the next planet.

Labels: Joseph Smith, LDS, marriage equality, Mormon Church, Mormons, polygamy, religion, Utah

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Flower of the Day: 11/11/14

“The best way to help others is to do our own sadhana and focusing on our own lives, unless others come to us asking for help. When someone asks us for help, we must be careful not to get in the way of her path. In order for the other to navigate their path, they often need to fight great battles and to defeat many demons. Sometimes the other is hanging on by a thin thread of faith as their lower self insists on convincing them that they are in the wrong place. This fuels doubt, confusion and questioning as well as the skeptic within. Sometimes the lower self even acts through a ‘friend’ who comes to do away with whatever faith remained.”

Sri Prem Baba

Via Daily Dharma

Premature Equanimity | November 11, 2014 Western Buddhists are very suspicious of attachment. They feel they need to be detached . . . so don’t get upset about racism, or injustice, or the poison in the rivers, because that means you’re too attached. I think one of the problems with Westernized Buddhists is premature equanimity. When the Buddha said ‘don’t be attached,’ he meant don’t be attached to the ego. - Joanna Macy, "Don't Just Sit There, Do Something"

Disney's Ferdinand the Bull (1938)

On Baha'i and Homosexuality - a copy of the the original letter that Baha'is frequently quote as the final word - from 1950

Make the jump here to read the excellent discussion related to this letter on "Just a Baha'i"

Flower of the Day: 11/10/14

 “Everything that happens externally is part of a process that is also happening internally. Any separation is but an illusion. The external is a reflection of the internal – all is one. When a challenge needs to be conquered or turbulences overcome, we may choose to remain in our comfort zones, but that prevents us from receiving these experiences. If there were no fire to extinguish, we would never see the fire from up close. Everything is school material.”

Sri Prem Baba

Via Daily Dharma

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Compassion and Wisdom | November 10, 2014

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The one thing I always come back to is that compassion and wisdom are at the heart of the Buddha’s teaching. If you cannot find either wisdom or compassion in something, then I don’t feel that it can really be the Buddha’s teaching.

- Ayya Anandabodhi, "Making the Sangha Whole Again"

Flower of the Day: 11/09/14

“The spiritual master is like an oasis in the desert. In this oasis, there is water, food, and a tree providing refreshing shade for you to rest in after wandering for so long in the desert thinking that you would die of thirst and hunger. Only when you find this oasis can you recognize its value. The master teacher is also like a shooting star that passes by very quickly – once you notice it, it’s gone. Few people have the opportunity to see this star shine.”

Sri Prem Baba

Via JMG: President Obama Marks Fifth Anniversary Of Signing The Matthew Shepard Act

Via White House press release:

Five years ago, I was proud to sign the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crime Prevention Act into law – a law that strengthened the protections against crimes based on the color of our skin, the love in our hearts, the faith we practice, or the place of our birth.

This law gave the Justice Department new tools for prosecuting criminals. It directed new resources to law enforcement agencies, so they could better serve their communities. And it did what we want all our laws to do: it reflected and strengthened our core national values. By recognizing violent bigotry as an especially dangerous crime – one that not only harms individuals, but threatens the social fabric that binds our country together – the Shepard Byrd Hate Crimes Act has made it possible for more Americans to live freely, openly and safely, and has reinforced our nation’s sacred commitment to equality for all.

Since this law was passed, the FBI and Department of Justice have vigorously investigated and prosecuted dozens of hate crime cases nationwide, including attacks on minorities, gays and lesbians, and people with disabilities. The number of individuals charged with hate crimes has increased significantly over the past five years. And state and local law enforcement officers and other community members have received training in how to recognize and address hate crimes. The law is working.

Our job isn’t done. We must continue to stand together against intolerance and hate wherever they occur, and respond decisively when they lead to violence. Ours is a country built on the notion that all people are created equal. It’s up to us to make that ideal real, in our words and deeds as well as in our laws – to ensure that, in America, everyone is treated with the respect and dignity they deserve, no matter who they are or who they love.

Labels: Barack Obama, Democrats, gay bashing, hate crimes, hate crimes act, LGBT History, Matthew Shepard, Matthew Shepard Act, murder, religion

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Via JMG: Advocate Names Putin Person Of The Year

 

From their cover story:

As the Olympic Winter Games headed to Sochi in 2014, so did a spotlight on the violations against the Russian LGBT community. Those violations are coming directly from the top of the Russian government, with President Vladimir Putin leading the charge. His crusade against LGBT Russians and the outrage and protests his actions sparked have earned him the title of The Advocate’s 2014 “Person of the Year.”

Since winning his third term in 2012, Putin has become ever more autocratic, and his antigay ideology ever more extreme. In June 2013, he signed the infamous antigay propaganda bill that criminalizes the “distribution of information…aimed at the formation among minor of nontraditional sexual attitudes,” with nontraditional meaning anything other than heterosexual. Individual violators are fined anywhere between $120 and $150, while NGOs and corporations can incur fines as high as $30,000.

International outrage flared in the months before the Sochi Olympics, in response to which Putin reassured the gay and lesbian community they had nothing to fear as long as they left Russia’s children in peace. Such incendiary rhetoric is a staple of Putin’s political playbook. And in Russia, where the majority of media are state-owned, there’s little public pushback.

Putin continually preaches Russian nationalism and purity, telling reporters in January that anything that gets in the way of Russia’s population growth should be “cleaned up.” The message is clear: Putin’s Russia, in grand Soviet tradition, is a country of the masses, not the individual. Yet it’s the masses that must safeguard individual liberties.

Last year the magazine chose Pope Francis.

Labels: Advocate, LGBT rights, Russia, Vladimir Putin

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Via JMG: Missouri Changes Its Stripes

 

Map legend.

Labels: marriage equality, Missouri, Wikipedia

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Via Janis Ian / FB:

Flower of the Day: 11/07/14

“Let us continue spreading the perfume of peace, love and prosperity to all corners of the world, inspiring all to sing the names of the Supreme. It doesn’t matter in what language or what form of the Divine is revered because we know that God is one. The Eternal manifests in different ways according to the needs of each group of people. When we pay homage to the different forms of the Supreme, we invoke the Supreme that lives in each and every one of us.”

Sri Prem Baba

Via Barack Obama

Barack Obama

Daniel, the hardest thing in politics is changing the status quo. The easiest thing is to get cynical.

The Republicans had a good night on Tuesday, Daniel -- but believe me when I tell you that our results were better because you stepped up, talked to your family and friends, and cast your ballot.

I want you to remember that we're making progress. There are workers who have jobs today who didn't have them before. There are millions of families who have health insurance today who didn't have it before. There are kids going to college today who didn't have the opportunity to go to college before.

So don't get cynical, Daniel. Cynicism didn't put a man on the moon. Cynicism has never won a war, or cured a disease, or built a business, or fed a young mind. Cynicism is a choice. And hope will always be a better choice.

I have hope for the next few years, and I have hope for what we're going to accomplish together.

Thank you so much, Daniel.

Barack Obama

Flower of the Day: 11/08/14

“In short, it is necessary to surrender to love. If love is the juice of life, then love is leading us and giving us our commands. Love is breaking our attachments and our control so that we can return back to love itself. Love is awakening the love that pulsates inside of us. But we must have a certain type of courage in order to love and to surrender. Pray for this courage, call for it. Implore the universal principle of love to give you the strength and firmness to follow its commands.”

Sri Prem Baba

Via Daily Dharma

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A True Path | November 8, 2014

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I try to understand the teachings of the Buddha, of enlightenment, and to put my understanding into practice. It’s a slow path, rarely an easy path, but it is a true path.

- Pamela White, "A Slow, True Path"

Via Daily Dharma

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What is the Moon? | November 7, 2014

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The five world religions are like the five fingers of the hand, pointing to the same moon. And I wonder, along with my children, what is the moon?

- Sarah Ruhl, "Five Questions for Sarah Ruhl"

Via Daily Dharma

Bringing It All Back Home | November 6, 2014 While an attitude of nonattachment is essential, it would be sadly misguided to imagine we need to give up love and affection for our children or other family members in order to follow the Bodhisattva Way. - Lama Jampa Thaye, "Bringing It All Back Home"