A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
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Your Mother in a Former Life
All beings have been your mother in a former life. This is the concept my teacher presented to his class of Western students. Holding this idea in our minds, he told us, would help us to generate a sense of connectedness and all-encompassing compassion.
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Be an Empty Vessel
An empty vessel refuses nothing and receives everything that is coming at it from all directions. By practicing in this way, you can create more space to accommodate your own reactivity and the points of view of others.
Whatever a person frequently thinks about and ponders, that will become the inclination of their mind. If one frequently thinks about and ponders healthy states, one has abandoned unhealthy states to cultivate healthy states, and then one’s mind inclines to healthy states. (MN 19)
Here a person rouses the will, makes an effort, stirs up energy, exerts the mind, and strives to maintain arisen healthy mental states. One maintains the arisen equanimity awakening factor. (MN 141)
Reflection
When you consistently cultivate healthy mental and emotional states your mind and heart become increasingly healthy. You do this partly by abandoning the states that are not healthy as they come up and partly by protecting and maintaining the healthy states that arise. When you feel generous, be more generous. When you are kind, become even kinder. When you care for someone, protect that caring intention.
Daily Practice
Equanimity is the culminating factor of the seven factors of awakening, the state to which the development of all the others leads. Whenever you notice you are highly attentive to something but are not caught in attaching to it if it's pleasurable or resisting it if it's painful, you have discovered a moment of equanimity. Feel what that is like and try to maintain that state in the ensuing mind moments.
Tomorrow: Establishing Mindfulness of Mental Objects and the Fourth Jhāna One week from today: Restraining Unarisen Unhealthy States
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RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Intoxication
Intoxication is unhealthy.
Refraining from intoxication is healthy. (MN 9) What are the
imperfections that defile the mind? Negligence is an imperfection that
defiles the mind. Knowing that negligence is an imperfection that
defiles the mind, a person abandons it. (MN 7) One practices thus:
“Others may become negligent by intoxication, but I will abstain from
the negligence of intoxication.” (MN 8)
One of the dangers attached to addiction to intoxicants is weakening of the intellect. (DN 31)
Reflection
Right living
means understanding the things that cause us harm and directing our
lives away from these things toward those that bring out our best and
contribute to our well-being. Just as certain foods strengthen the body
and others weaken it, so too certain things strengthen the mind and
others weaken it. Negligence, for example, weakens the mind, while its
opposite, diligence, strengthens it. Understanding this is important.
Daily Practice
See if you can
identify the toxins in your life that weaken the mind, and then work
toward reducing their influence. Many things can be toxic and
intoxicating, including substances, activities, relationships, views,
and emotional habits. Take an honest inventory of what you intuitively
know to be harmful and helpful, and take steps to abandon the things
that are toxic and cultivate those that are wholesome.
Tomorrow: Maintaining Arisen Healthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Harming Living Beings
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