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The other night I made a post asking people who intended on voting for Trump in this election to unfriend me on Facebook. This post created some backlash and I’ve been accused of being unpatriotic, not having respect for other opinions, not believing or understanding how Democracy works and even not allowing other people to have an opinion different from mine.

I’d like to say something. 

 

I grew up hiding who I was. I walked the halls of EVERY SINGLE educational establishment in fear. In MeadowBrook Junior High it could have been a swift punch on the shoulder while “Fucking faggot” was whispered just loud enough that everyone but the teachers would hear. 

 

One night outside my dorm room in the Christian college of OVC a few guys banged on my door and threatened “There’s no room for fucking faggots here. You should go home where you belong."

 

In the relative safety of progressive Athens, I once had a professor at Ohio University openly mock my homosexuality in front of the entire class. No one stood up for me, no one reprimanded the professor.

My partner Bruno and I would never dream of holding hands in many places in Athens. The other week we stopped at Walmart for window blinds and we subconsciously kept a distance from each other. It would have been foolish to invite trouble after having walked by all the pickup trucks with Trump stickers on our way in. 

 

So. Here we are. I’m 40 years old and very likely will never feel completely safe in this country that I love. It’s an election year. And the party that Trump is representing would like to:

 

1. Take marriage back to only between a man and a woman.

2. Support adoption agencies that refuse same-sex couples

3. Affirm conversion therapy

4. Ban transgender people from their appropriate bathrooms

5. Support “Religious Freedom” for businesses to refuse service to LGBTQ customers

 

So, when I ask that you remove me from your “friends” list on Facebook and it upsets you? Let me tell you something. 

 

1. Not being able to marry upsets me.

2. Not being able to adopt upsets me.

3. Being told I can “pray the gay away” by a therapist upsets me.

4. Having friends harassed for going to the bathroom upsets me.

5. Being turned away from the grocery store because I’m gay upsets me.

 

And you're upset because I don’t want to be friends with someone who supports this discrimination?

 

CRY ME A FUCKING RIVER. 

 

I understand completely how Democracy works. Whoever is elected president will be my president. I’ll be glad I voted either way. 

 

You are more than in your right to vote proudly for who you want. And I’m more than in my right to decide we aren’t going to be friends because of it. 

 

I can respect your opinion but when your opinion is that I don’t have the human right to marry, well, how much respect do you think would be adequate? Should I gleefully drive you to the polls so you can vote to strip away my human rights? Should I pour a glass of champagne for you when I’m told I can’t buy bread from the bakery because the owner doesn’t agree with my lifestyle? Oh, I guess you’ll have to buy the champagne since that wine shop has a “NO GAYS SERVED” sign in the window. My bad! 

 

So how about this: If it bothers you that I don’t want to be your BFF after you proudly stake that Trump/Pence sign in your yard then I suggest you get over it. 

 

Because trust me, I already have.

Via White Crane Institute // THE 2ND MARCH ON WASHINGTON FOR LESBIAN AND GAY RIGHTS

 

More than a half million people (between 300,000 and 1,000,000, according to organizers...considerably more than the number that attended the current occupant of the White House's inauguration) descended on the capital to participate in the second national March on Washington. Many of the marchers were angry over the government's slow and inadequate response to the AIDS crisis, as well as the Supreme Court's 1986 decision to uphold sodomy laws in Bowers v. Hardwick.

With the first display of the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, the 1987 march succeeded in bringing national attention to the impact of AIDS on Gay communities. In the shadow of the U.S. Capitol, a tapestry of nearly two thousand fabric panels offered a powerful tribute to the lives of some of those who had been lost in the pandemic.

The march also called attention to anti-Gay discrimination, as approximately 800 people were arrested in front of the Supreme Court two days later in the largest civil disobedience action ever held in support of the rights of Lesbians, Gay men, bisexuals, and transgender people.

The 1987 March on Washington also sparked the creation of what became known as BiNet U.S.A. and the National Latina/o Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Organization (LLEGÓ), the first national groups for bisexuals and GLBTQ Latinas and Latinos, respectively. Prior to the march, bisexual activists circulated a flyer entitled "Are You Ready for a National Bisexual Network?" that encouraged members of the community to be part of the first bisexual contingent in a national demonstration. Approximately 75 bisexuals from across the U. S. participated and began laying the groundwork for an organization that could speak to the needs of bi-identified people and counter the animus against bisexuals that was commonplace in both Lesbian and Gay communities and the dominant society.

By 1987, Latino GLBTQ activists from Los Angeles, Houston, Austin, and elsewhere had been meeting for two years, discussing ways to work together to further the basic rights and visibility of GLBTQ Latinas and Latinos. But with AIDS having a disproportionate impact on Latino GLBTQ communities throughout the United States, the activists recognized the need for a national organization and met at the March on Washington to form what was then called NLLGA, National Latina/o Lesbian and Gay Activists. Renaming themselves LLEGÓ the following year, the group has since expanded to address issues of concern to Lesbian, Gay, bisexual, and transgender Latinas and Latinos in other countries.

Along with the formation of new national groups, the most lasting effects of the weekend's events were felt on the local level. Energized and inspired by the march, many activists returned home and established social and political groups in their own communities, providing even greater visibility and strength to the struggle for Lesbian, Gay, bisexual, and transgender rights. The date of the march, October 11^th, has been celebrated internationally ever since as National Coming Out Day to inspire members of the GLBTQ community to continue to show, as one of the common march slogans proclaimed, "we are everywhere."

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Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation // Words of Wisdom - October 11, 2020 💌

 

As we each listen to the intuitive message of our hearts, the society of which we are a part listens too. 

- Ram Dass -

Via Daily Dharma: Maintain a Questioning Mind

 A closed mind... is a great disadvantage for those who aspire to follow any spiritual path. But an open mind, which questions and doesn’t accept things simply because they are said, is no problem at all.

—Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo, “Necessary Doubt”

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Via Tricycle // Facing Fear, Finding Peace

Facing Fear, Finding Peace
 

Overlapping global crises including the coronavirus pandemic, racial injustice, and extreme climate-change events have brought us face-to-face with our deepest fears: Fear of illness and dying. Fear of change. Fear of loss of livelihood. Fear of an unknown future.
 
How can we meet our fear and pain with an open heart and transform these challenges? The ancient wisdom of Tibetan Buddhism tells us that when we’re able to recognize and embrace difficult emotions in the moment, we can step into the eye of the storm—the refuge of calm awareness at the very center of our being. 
 
Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche, one of the few Bön masters in the West, is known for his ability to make ancient Tibetan practices relevant to life in the modern world. In October’s Dharma Talk series, he offers four traditional practices to transform fear and pain into spaciousness and inner strength. 

Tenzin Wangyal will also be leading a live virtual practice session on Tuesday, October 13, at 1:00 p.m. EST. Click here to learn more and register.

Watch the Dharma Talk now »

Also this week:

• Take a look inside a childhood spent in a Tibetan Buddhist monastery in A Little Wisdom, Tricycle’s October Film Club selection.
   
• Succession star Arian Moayed discusses the healing power of theater (and meditation) on the latest episode of the Real Change podcast series with Sharon Salzberg.
   
• Here’s how to break past the barrier of “I don’t have time” to make your meditation practice a daily habit.

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Via LionsRoar: You Have the Buddha in You: An Interview with Thich Nhat Hanh

In this exclusive interview, Thich Nhat Hanh reveals details about his family, sheds light on a little-known Buddhist master, and explains how—if you have mindful ears and mindful eyes—the Buddha is always teaching.

Photo by Duc.

Throughout my retreat at Blue Cliff Monastery, I was curious about the quaint little brown house, which the monastics referred to as Thay’s hut. Finally, on the last day, I was invited inside and saw a cozy room brightened with fresh orchids, an image of the Buddha touching the earth, and a candlestick filled with white tapers and decorated with birds.

Thay was seated at a rustic table, low to the ground, and I was ushered to a cushion beside him. During our interview, he revealed personal details about his family, uncovered the remarkable history of a little-known Buddhist master, and explained how—if you have mindful ears and mindful eyes—the Buddha is always teaching. Partway through our conversation, Jo Confino of the British newspaper The Guardian joined us, and the conversation turned to how meditation practice can benefit business leaders, organizations, and society.

As you read the interview, please keep in mind that there is one thing that didn’t make it onto the page, and that is Thich Nhat Hanh’s frequent, joyful smile.

What is the role of a teacher in spiritual practice?

A friend can be a teacher, a fellow practitioner can be a teacher, and you yourself can be a teacher. A teacher is anyone who helps you practice and find more freedom—even freedom from your teacher.

You have to be intelligent and not be dependent on your teacher. If you follow him or her with blind faith, it’s not good. There is no perfect teacher. You can learn the good things from him or her, and you can also help your teacher to be better. Very soon there will be a teacher within you, and you can follow that teacher.

So a good teacher is someone who helps you not depend on him or her all your life. That is why the Buddha said before he died, “Go back to yourself. Take refuge in the island within you.”

You are not lost when your teacher is no longer in human form, because your teacher is always alive in you and in his disciples. When I practice calligraphy, sometimes I invite my late teacher to join me, so as teacher and disciple we do it together. Breathing in, half the circle. Breathing out, the other half. When I smile, my teacher smiles.

I invite all teachers of the past to do a circle with me, and I know that my hand is not my hand. My hand is also my father’s hand and my mother’s hand. Sometimes I invite all my friends to do it with me, because they are me also.

Will you tell me a little about your father?

My father was an officer in the royal army. At that time in Vietnam, the king and his government were controlled by the French, so my father’s main job was to go and search for areas where poor people could resettle. He liked to do that. From time to time, I would go with my mother and visit him, far away in the mountains.

My father bought a bell and some sutras and tried to recite them. He wanted to practice Buddhism, but he was very busy and did not succeed. I feel good because I do it for him.

I can do this because we all are the continuation of our fathers, our mothers, our ancestors. This is true. When you do walking meditation, they walk with you. If you take peaceful, happy steps, they also do. You do not have a separate self, so you can practice for all your ancestors. If you encounter the dharma and experience transformation and healing, all of your ancestors profit from your practice. So my father and mother in me are very happy.

This week, you mentioned that your mother had a miscarriage before she had you. You said that as a child you thought the baby she lost was you, and that she miscarried because you weren’t ready to be born yet. I was wondering what your opinion of that lost baby is now. Does a baby who dies before it’s born continue in any way?

The baby has no separate self. The self of the baby is made of the mother, the father, and other elements. So these elements will come together again, and the next baby is neitviether exactly the same nor a different one.

If you suffer from losing a baby, it’s because you are caught in the notion of self. It’s the insight of no-self that can liberate us from grief. You have no-self and that tiny baby has no-self. It’s like when you try to build a sandcastle. If conditions are not good, the sandcastle will collapse. You can build the castle again, but you cannot say this is another castle, because it’s made from the same materials. Nothing is lost.

Can you tell me a little about Zen in Vietnam? Does it have a particular flavor or character that distinguishes it from the Zen practiced in other countries?

There was a Buddhist teacher in the first half of the third century who was born in Vietnam and became a teacher of meditation. His name was Tang Hoi. He was a historical person, not like Bodhidharma, who is traditionally credited with bringing Zen to China in the sixth century. A lot of things have been imagined or invented about Bodhidharma’s life, but Tang Hoi left behind his writings, which are still preserved.

Our Zen is a continuation of what Tang Hoi taught. In Vietnam, there is a tendency to always go back to the original scriptures. When Master Tang Hoi taught meditation, he mostly used the sutras of original Buddhism but taught them with the spirit of Mahayana Buddhism. So in Vietnam, we profit from this. We never fly too high and lose the roots.

Meditation practice in Vietnam is also very engaged in society. We have had kings who practiced meditation and invited teachers to come to their palace. They always had a meditation hall in the palace and made good use of the teachings and practice in their political life. One king in the thirteenth century abdicated in favor of his son and became a Buddhist monk. He took care of the spiritual aspect of the nation and his son took care of the political aspect. He travelled to the Hindu kingdom of Champa in central Vietnam and made peace. He walked the country barefoot and taught people how to practice the five precepts and abandon superstitious practice.

So in Vietnamese Buddhism, politics and spirituality support each other. Spirituality is not cut off from the world. Meditation is not a place where you hide yourself.

Why is it important for Buddhism to evolve?

Society has changed. Young people have a lot of suffering, a lot of doubt. If you want them to ponder the sound of one hand clapping or ask them if a dog has buddhanature, they cannot stand it. If you continue to teach like that, you lose people. Buddhism has become marginal in Korea and Japan because that is what they are doing.

Throughout the history of Buddhism, teachers tried to offer the teachings in such a way as to respond to the needs of their time. If they invented silent illumination, if they invented koans, it was because at that time those things worked. But when these things do not work anymore, why cling to them?

Our practice has to respond to the suffering of modern people. That’s why teachings on communication and reconciliation are important. These teachings are easier for people to understand, even children. But that does not mean these teachings do not have a strong Buddhist base. Their foundation is in no-self, impermanence, interbeing.

We have to be intelligent followers of the Buddha. We have to make good use of the teachings. We have to present the teachings and the practice in such a way that people can make use of them and transform themselves.

As I said, Vietnamese Buddhism is very close to original Buddhism, but we make good use of the spirit of Mahayana. There are a lot of wonderful things in Mahayana Buddhism. For instance, in original Buddhism the Buddha’s body is the nirmanakaya, his human form. But in Mahayana, the Buddha’s real body is the dharmakaya, the body of ultimate truth, and that body never dies.

So if you know how to listen mindfully, the Buddha never stops teaching. The Earth is a beautiful expression of his teachings. The wind, flowers, and trees continue to teach impermanence and no-self. That is the body of the Buddha—the body of truth that never dies. So if you have mindful eyes and ears, you continue to see the Buddha. This corresponds to the notion that the kingdom of God is available in the here and the now. We could even help Christians change the notion of the kingdom of God. God can be the dharmakaya, the true body of the Buddha.

Some people say that once someone reaches enlightenment, they no longer produce karma. What do you think of that?

Karma is action. When you produce a thought, that’s karma, either good or bad. When you say something, that’s karma. When you do something, that’s karma.

When you are enlightened, your karma can only be good karma. You have no discrimination, no anger, and no fear, so what you think, what you say, and what you do can only bring good results. The end of samsara means the end of negative things. Why would we wish good things to stop? We want good things to continue. Our practice is to have the good things continue for a long time. That’s good karma.

If you look at the Buddha, you see he is still operating. He’s teaching, he’s doing, because his disciples are his continuation. So the Buddha is still producing karma—good karma! So you cannot say that the Buddha, because he is enlightened, has stopped producing karma. That’s not true.

In Buddhism, the Buddha, the community of practitioners, and the teachings are known as the three jewels. How do we relate to them?

The three jewels are inside of you. You have the Buddha in you. It is your capacity to wake up, to understand, to love. If someone has plenty of these things, he or she is a Buddha, and we want to have as many buddhas as possible.

You have the dharma in you. There must be a method to produce compassion, understanding, and freedom, and that is the dharma. The dharma in you may be weak or strong, according to your practice.

Then, in order to produce the powerful energy of enlightenment, compassion, understanding, you need a sangha, a community. You build a sangha and together you help each other nourish the Buddha and the dharma in you.

The three jewels are very concrete. They are not objects of belief. You cannot deny the existence of the three jewels. They are not something outside of you. They are inside of you. The Buddha is not on a cloud. The Buddha is awakening, understanding, and compassion, and you have buddhanature. Practice helps buddhanature grow and that protects you. That is your refuge. It’s very scientific.

There is a Buddhism of devotion, in which people think of the three jewels as outside of themselves, as being above them or beyond them. That belief helps them. But there is a deep Buddhism—a Buddhism of practice—where you can generate the energy of the Buddha for yourself and for your community. There is a tendency to lose deep Buddhism for devotion Buddhism, so we should try to help the Buddhism of practice last. Otherwise, Buddhism becomes a religion like other religions, which are about relying on a superior power to save us.

As part of your North American tour, you’re going to meet with the CEOs of some leading technology companies. What do you think of business leaders and employees learning meditation?

We don’t have to worry whether meditation is being misused to make money. Meditation can only do good. It doesn’t just help you calm your own suffering. It also gives you more insight into yourself and the world. If your business is causing environmental problems and you practice meditation, you may have ideas about how to conduct your business in such a way that you will harm nature less. When you experience the wisdom brought about by meditation, then naturally you want to conduct your business in a way that will make the world suffer less.

So don’t worry about whether meditation is serving a wrong cause. It can change a wrong cause to a good cause.

How do you view competition in business, politics, and our personal lives?

Many of us believe that you can only be happy when you leave other people behind, when you are number one. But you don’t need to be number one to be happy. [Laughs] I don’t want to be number one.

We have to reconsider our idea of happiness. Even if you are successful in making more money, you still suffer. Maybe your competitor doesn’t make as much money as you do, but they are happier. So do you choose to be happy or to have the other kind of success?

To be happy is the real success. When you are happy, you don’t need to compete anymore. You compete because you are not happy. The practice of meditation can help you suffer less and be happy.

In our society, it feels like everything’s speeding up and people are feeling overwhelmed.

The problem is that people believe that happiness is in the future. But if you stop speeding and running, you can find happiness right in the here and the now. There is no true happiness without peace. If you continue to run, how can you have peace? We are running away from ourselves, our families, and nature. That is our society today. We are afraid of going home and taking care of ourselves. We do not have the time to take care of our beloved ones. And we do not allow Mother Earth to heal us.

We lose ourselves in our little devices. But companies could use their intelligence and goodwill to create instruments that help us go home to ourselves and heal ourselves. Suppose I could wear something that would detect when there’s too much adrenaline in my blood. It would produce the sound of a bell, which would help me stop and breathe in and out. That would help me. It would remind me: You have a strong emotion. Stop doing what you are doing, embrace your emotion, and find out where it has come from. That kind of electronic device would help me go home to myself rather than lose myself. So we don’t have to reject or throw away all devices. Rather, we can make good use of them.

I myself have a “Now watch.” When I look for the hour, it always says “Now.” I can put this watch to my ear and breathe in and out, according to the sound. Usually I take four seconds for an in-breath and six seconds for an out-breath. I stop thinking and just enjoy my breathing. So I make good use of a very simple device. But they can also make more sophisticated things to help me practice.

How do we find a positive purpose for our lives?

Everyone wishes to do good, because all of us have buddhanature. When you have found a way to do good, you are at peace with yourself and happiness becomes possible. But you have to use your own intelligence to find a way. The good way, the right way, is the opposite of the bad way. The bad way has been bringing you suffering. Instead of wrong view, you want right view. Instead of wrong thinking, you want right thinking—thinking with compassion and understanding.

When you look at the path that is not noble, you can see the other path. So looking into suffering, you see the way of happiness. That’s the teaching of the four noble truths. You don’t need to be a Buddhist to understand them. You just need to take the time to look into your own suffering and happiness.

What is the key to happiness?

A student may think that he cannot be satisfied until he gets his diploma. But when he gets the diploma, he is only happy for a few days before he says, “I need to get a job and a house.” So, nothing can satisfy a person if he is always running.

Stopping and learning to be happy in the present moment is the key. We call this aimlessness. It is enlightenment. So a student can be very happy even if he has not got his diploma. There are always conditions for happiness in the present, but maybe you don’t know how to enjoy them. You don’t recognize them and you look for happiness in the future.

Buddhism is the teaching of waking up. Our society needs a collective awakening in order to save ourselves from our crises. So the practice is that awakening should take place in every step, everywhere. If you have awakening, you know that you have a path of happiness. You stop suffering, and you can help many other people do the same.

Via LionsRoar: Smokey the Bear Sutra

 

Smokey the Bear Sutra
By Gary Snyder

In this 1969 sutra, the celebrated American poet contemplates our sacred responsibility to protect all of life on Earth.

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Via Daily Dharma: Live with Genuine Intention

 The wisdom and insight cultivated from meditation allow us to see things as they are and act in the most skillful way. All situations, no matter how similar, are fluid and require their own genuine responses.

—Brent R. Oliver, “I Take Refuge in the Humor”

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Via Daily Dharma: Receiving Life’s Wisdom

 We [can] realize the nature of our true selves as we really are, with our imperfections and so on, and at the same time we [can] understand that we are the recipients of this immeasurable wisdom and compassion of life that sustains us and embraces us at all times.

—Interview with Reverend Patricia Kanaya Usuki by Jeff Wilson, “The Great Compassion”

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Via Tricycle // Buddhist teacher Larry Ward’s new book invites us to heal from the karma of racism

 

America’s Racial Karma

Photo by Jovelle Tamayo

The existence—and persistence—of racism can be baffling. Our society sees the suffering of historically disadvantaged people and treats them with scorn rather than compassion. Buddhism would explain that our current situation is the result of karma. But what does that mean? Contrary to popular depictions, the Buddhist notion of karma is not a tit-for-tat system of crime and punishment where people suffer for their past sins. Karma is a theory of action and consequence that describes how good deeds generate good results and more good deeds in a positive feedback loop, while bad deeds do the opposite. Through the lens of Buddhist karma, we may be able to understand how racism and the pain it causes are perpetuated.

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Via Daily Dharma: Create Space for All Things

When we take the one seat on our meditation cushion we become our own monastery. We create the compassionate space that allows for the arising of all things: sorrows, loneliness, shame, desire, regret, frustration, happiness.

—Jack Kornfield, “Take the One Seat”

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#ProudBoys Santos Sérgio e Baco

 

 

 

Hoje, 7 de outubro, a Igreja celebra a festa dos Santos Sérgio e Baco.

 

Embora esse fato seja evitado pelos católicos conservadores, há teses e indícios históricos de que os dois eram gays e formavam um casal. Viveram no século IV e eram oficiais do Exército Romano. Sendo descobertos como cristãos homossexuais, foram martirizados juntos, 

no ano de 310, na Síria.

Que os Santos Sérgio e Baco, vítimas da homofobia, roguem por nós!

 

Today, October 7, the Church celebrates the feast of Saints Sérgio and Bacchus.

 
Although this fact is avoided by conservative Catholics, there are theses and historical indications that the two were gay and formed a couple. They lived in the 4th century and were officers of the Roman Army. Being discovered as homosexual Christians, they were martyred together,
in the year 310, in Syria.

 
May the Saints Sérgio and Bacchus, victims of homophobia, pray for us!