A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis upon which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on compassion, for when you develop meditation on
compassion, any cruelty will be abandoned. (MN 62)
The near enemy of compassion is ordinary sorrow. (Vm 9.99)
Reflection
Just as
physical pleasure and pain are natural and inevitable aspects of human
experience, the same is true of mental pleasure and pain. Sorrow can be
seen as a form of mental pain, and it is natural to feel such pain, for
example, with the death of a loved one. Compassion is also accompanied
by sorrow, but it is not ordinary sorrow; it is a higher sorrow, raised
beyond the personal to the level of a universal emotion.
Daily Practice
Allow yourself
to open to the suffering of another person; there is plenty of
opportunity for this these days. See if you can discern a difference
between feeling sorry for them and feeling sorrow on account of their
pain. See if you can feel the difference between a personal sorrow and a
universal sorrow. Practice opening to the suffering of others on this
broader, more universal level of experience and meaning.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Malicious Speech One week from today: Cultivating Appreciative Joy
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Whether I’m engaging with my grandson or whether I’m going to the supermarket and talking to the person checking out my groceries, I try to be in a place of spiritual consciousness all the time.
RIGHT VIEW Understanding the Noble Truth of the Origin of Suffering
What is the origin of
suffering? It is craving, which brings renewal of being, is accompanied
by delight and lust, and delights in this and that; that is, craving for
sensual pleasures, craving for being, and craving for non-being. (MN 9)
When one does not know and see perception as it actually is, then one is
attached to perception. When one is attached, one becomes infatuated,
and one’s craving increases. One’s bodily and mental troubles increase,
and one experiences bodily and mental suffering. (MN 149)
Reflection
Perception is
the mental process by which we interpret incoming sensory information
and create meaning from it. Perception uses the cognitive faculties of
the mind to weave words and concepts into explanations and stories that
help define the world we inhabit and our place in it. The problem is
that we often take these stories to be more real than they are, at which
point they can become sources of attachment.
Daily Practice
Learn to hold
your perceptions lightly. Perception is a useful tool and can be used by
wisdom to disengage us from suffering. But as with any tool, if we
mishandle it we can cause harm to ourselves and others. Practice
reminding yourself that your perceptions are only creating a map of the
world that may or may not depict the terrain accurately. When our
stories give rise to craving, they are doing more harm than good.
Tomorrow: Cultivating Compassion One week from today: Understanding the Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering
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If
you want to free yourself, you have to put all your heart into your
practice, patiently developing your mind every day—day in, day
out—without desiring results or wisdom.
July’s film is available now!
“Khata: Purity or Poison?,” directed by Huatse Gyal, explores the
paradoxical relationship between the meaning of the Khata, a sacred
scarf used in much of the Tibetan Buddhist world, and its materiality,
between purity and poison, to raise awareness of the unintended
consequences of our good intentions.
My
life and yours are the unfolding realization of total aloneness and
total intimacy. The self is completely autonomous yet exists only in
resonance with all other selves.
July’s film is available now!
“Khata: Purity or Poison?,” directed by Huatse Gyal, explores the
paradoxical relationship between the meaning of the Khata, a sacred
scarf used in much of the Tibetan Buddhist world, and its materiality,
between purity and poison, to raise awareness of the unintended
consequences of our good intentions.