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However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too social
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
One reflects thus: "A person who acts in hurtful ways is displeasing and
disagreeable to me. If I were to act in hurtful ways, I would be
displeasing and disagreeable to others. Therefore, I will undertake a
commitment to not act in hurtful ways." (MN 15)
Reflection
The classical
teachings list three modes of action—body, speech, and mind—not four.
Social action is not a category in the ancient texts, but it is an
important aspect of our modern world, and the Buddha had plenty to say
about how to act among others. The same principles apply: reflect
carefully on how you interact with others and learn to behave in ways
that are healthy and bring about healthy relationships.
Daily Practice
One of the best
things we can learn from others is how not to act. Whenever we see
something in others that is disagreeable to us, we can take the
opportunity to refrain from acting the same way ourselves. Instead of
blaming others or feeling insulted by them or putting our energy into
rebuking them or trying to change them, none of which is useful or
likely to be successful, let’s learn instead what not to do ourselves.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Intoxication One week from today: Reflecting upon Bodily Action
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The true understanding is that the mind includes everything; when you think something comes from outside it means only that something appears in your mind.
Frivolous speech is
unhealthy. Refraining from frivolous speech is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning frivolous speech, one refrains from frivolous speech. One
speaks at the right time, speaks only what is fact, and speaks about
what is good. One speaks what is worthy of being overheard, words that
are reasonable, moderate, and beneficial. (DN 1) One practices thus:
"Others may speak frivolously, but I shall abstain from frivolous
speech." (MN 8)
When a person commits an offense of some kind, one should not hurry to
reprove them but rather should consider whether or not to speak. If you
will not be troubled, the other person will not be hurt, and you can
help them emerge from what is unhealthy and establish them in what is
healthy, then it is proper to speak. (MN 103)
Reflection
The fourth
category of right speech is refraining from frivolous speech. This is
not meant to stifle us entirely or to reduce human expression to
essential facts and nothing more; rather, it is an invitation to pay
more careful attention to what we say. It is healthy to speak what is
true, to speak about what is good, and to be moderate in our speech,
even if other people are not. What can you say that is helpful?
Daily Practice
Has it ever
occurred to you that some people speak just for the sake of speaking, or
say anything and everything that comes to mind, or go on indefinitely
repeating the same stories? See if you can notice yourself doing this
from time to time. Practice being aware enough of your own speech
patterns to notice whether you are always saying something useful or
necessary or valuable. Sometimes it is better to stay silent.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Social Action One week from today: Refraining from False Speech
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The
classical antidote for fear in Buddhist teachings is metta, or
lovingkindness. With lovingkindness, we instill a sense of kindness,
care, and connection into our way of being that is profound in terms of
shifting the energy of fear both within us and around us.
Sebene Selassie, “Meditation Q&A with Sebene Selassie”
WINTER SOLSTICE- In the Northern Hemisphere, the winter solstice, sometimes known as Yule,
occurs on or very close to this date. In the Northern Hemisphere, it
marks the first official day of Winter. In the Southern Hemisphere, the
summer solstice occurs around this time.
YULE
is a winter festival celebrated in Northern Europe since ancient times.
In pre-Christian times, Germanic pagans celebrated Yule from late
December to early January on a date determined by a lunar calendar.
During the process of Christianization and the adoption of the Julian
calendar, Yule was placed on December 25, in order to correspond with
the Christian celebrations later known in English as Christmas. Thus,
the terms "Yule" and "Christmas" are often used interchangeably,
especially in Christmas carols.
In Denmark, Norway and Sweden the term jul
is the common way to refer to the celebration, including among
Christians. In these countries the highlight of the yule celebrations is
the Yule Eve or Christmas Eve on December 24, which is when children
get their Yule or Christmas presents by a character resembling Father
Christmas called julemanden (Denmark), julenissen (Norway), or jultomten
(Sweden).
In Finland, it is called joulu, in Estonia jõulud, and in Iceland and the Faroe Islands jól.
Yule is an
important festival for Germanic neopagans, Wiccans and various secular
groups who observe the holiday at the winter solstice (December 21 or 22
in the Northern Hemisphere, June 20 or 21 in the Southern Hemisphere).
As with other
holidays at this time of the year, it is about the shortness of the day
and the long dark night, and it is celebrated, traditionally, with the
burning of a log all night to keep the light or carry the light over the
divide of the old year to the new.
The burning of
the Yule log, the decorating of Christmas trees, particularly with
lights, the eating of ham, the hanging of boughs, holly, mistletoe, etc.
are all historically practices associated with Yule. When the
Christianization of the Germanic peoples began, missionaries found it
convenient to provide a Christian reinterpretation of popular pagan
holidays such as Yule and allow the celebrations themselves to go on
largely unchanged, versus trying to confront and suppress them. The
Scandinavian tradition of slaughtering a pig at Christmas (see Christmas
ham) is probably salient evidence of this.
The tradition is
thought to be derived from the sacrifice of boars to the god Freyr at
the Yule celebrations. Halloween and aspects of Easter celebrations are
likewise assimilated from northern European pagan festivals.
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Bring your awareness back to the rising and falling of the breath, and
just note the rising and falling. Because the ego is so clever, in which
it’s constantly judging, so just sit and do the practice, holding only
that awareness.
If
our minds are agitated by anger and resentment, our efforts to promote
peace are more likely to create more conflict and perhaps ignite more
violence. An angry mind is not a reliable instrument for promoting peace.
Ven. Bhikkhu Bodhi, “Fostering Peace, Inside and Out”
Whatever you intend, whatever you plan, and whatever you have a
tendency toward, that will become the basis on which your mind is
established. (SN 12.40) Develop meditation on equanimity, for when you
develop meditation on equanimity, all aversion is abandoned. (MN 62)
The characteristic of equanimity is promoting objectivity toward beings. (Vm 9.93) Having seen a form with the eye, one is neither glad-minded nor sad-minded but abides with equanimity, mindful and fully aware. (AN 6.1)
Reflection
Equanimity is
the quality of mind in which we are neither drawn toward something that
is enticing nor pushed away from what is repellent. Like a plate balanced on a
stick, the mind does not tilt forward or backward but remains poised in
the middle. We can still act from this state, and in fact our actions
tend to be more balanced when we are grounded in the equipoise of
equanimity rather than carried off by passion for or against something.
Daily Practice
Equanimity is
cultivated with the practice of mindfulness. Being aware
non-judgmentally means being aware of an object of experience without
the mind being biased in favor of it or against it, without favoring or
opposing what it is or what is happening. Practice bringing an attitude
of "this is simply what is happening now" toward whatever occurs,
instead of "I like [or don’t like] this," or "I approve [or don't
approve] of this."
Tomorrow: Refraining from Frivolous Speech One week from today: Cultivating Lovingkindness
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RIGHT VIEW Understanding the Noble Truth of the Way to the Cessation of Suffering
And what is the way leading
to the cessation of suffering? It is just this noble eightfold path:
that is, right view, right intention, right speech, right action, right
living, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. (MN 9)
This is one thing proclaimed by the Buddha who knows and sees,
accomplished and fully awakened: If a person abides diligent, ardent,
and resolute, their unliberated mind comes to be liberated, their
undestroyed toxins come to be destroyed, and they attain supreme
security from bondage. (MN 52)
Reflection
We come now to
the fourth noble truth, the path. Defining suffering, understanding its
source, and recognizing that it can be stopped (the first three noble
truths) are relatively straightforward, but the path to accomplish the
end of suffering is infinitely varied. Eight path factors are
enumerated, but each culture, each generation, perhaps even each
individual treads this eightfold path in a unique way.
Daily Practice
The promise of
the path leading to the end of suffering is that the transformation of
suffering is possible and attainable. Here we are told quite directly
that the path is there and that it does lead to the goal of liberating
the mind. But it takes effort, and a large part of the practice is
learning to "abide diligent, ardent, and resolute." See what these words
mean in your own experience and bring this commitment to all you do.
Tomorrow: Cultivating Equanimity One week from today: Understanding the Noble Truth of Suffering
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