Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Living: Abstaining from Harming Living Beings

 

RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Harming Living Beings Harming living beings is unhealthy. Refraining from harming living beings is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning the harming of living beings, one abstains from harming living beings; with rod and weapon laid aside, gentle and kindly, one abides compassionate to all living beings. (M 41) One practices thus: “Others may harm living beings, but I will abstain from the harming of living beings.” (MN 8) This is something that leads to the welfare and happiness of a person in this present life: good friendship. Here, one associates with people—whether young but of mature virtue, or old and of mature virtue—who are accomplished in trust, integrity, generosity, and wisdom; one converses with them and engages in discussion with them. Insofar as they are accomplished (in these things), one emulates their accomplishments. (AN 8.54)

Reflection Learning to live in harmony with other people is a tremendously valuable skill, and like any skill it can be learned through practice. What is required is a basic commitment to causing no harm, followed by the regular cultivation of gentle and kindly behavior. One important element emphasized here is to choose carefully those you associate with. Good friends are a precious resource and are to be cultivated as a form of practice. Daily Practice Just as you get better at tennis by playing with people better than you, so also you become a more virtuous person by associating with people of “mature virtue,” regardless of their age. Seek out people of integrity, generosity, and wisdom whom you can trust and allow their noble qualities to rub off on you. Learn from others how to be a better person and thereby also become a teacher to others by example. Tomorrow: Restraining Unarisen Unhealthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given Share your thoughts and join the conversation on social media #DhammaWheel Questions? Visit the Dhamma Wheel orientation page.