A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too social
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
A person is content with any food they may get, speaks in praise of such
contentment, and does not try to obtain things in improper or
unsuitable ways. Not getting things one does not worry, and getting them
one makes use of them without being greedy, obsessed, or infatuated,
observing such potential dangers and wisely being aware of how to escape
them. (AN 4.28)
Reflection
Contentment is a
healthy character trait, to be cultivated by appreciating what you have
at every opportunity. Every moment your mental state plants a seed that
becomes rooted in the traits of the unconscious mind, influencing what
mind states will arise in the future. Feeling content here and now
inclines the mind to feel content in the future, while obsessing over
what you do not have only leads to more discontent.
Daily Practice
Practice
intentionally being aware of the things you have rather than focusing on
what you lack. This will not only lead to greater personal happiness
but contribute to social harmony as well. There is always something you
can feel content about, even if it is just the fact that you are able to
eat a meal every day. Notice when you find yourself wishing for
something different regarding food and try to let go of this and be
content.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Intoxication One week from today: Reflecting upon Bodily Action
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Sometimes
in Buddhist practice one is advised to be wary of engaging in overly
intellectual practice. This is not to say that the Buddhist tradition is
anti-intellectual, but rather that it’s easy to substitute descriptions
from books for experiences gained in meditation.
Frivolous speech is
unhealthy. Refraining from frivolous speech is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning frivolous speech, one refrains from frivolous speech. One
speaks at the right time, speaks only what is fact, and speaks about
what is good. One speaks what is worthy of being overheard, words that
are reasonable, moderate, and beneficial. (DN 1) One practices thus:
“Others may speak frivolously, but I shall abstain from frivolous
speech.” (MN 8)
I assert and proclaim such a teaching that one does not quarrel with anyone in the world. (MN 18)
Reflection
It is entirely
natural that people have differences of opinion. It is not entirely
necessary that they quarrel about these by getting angry, abusive, or
dismissive, or otherwise generating unhealthy and harmful emotions. It
is enough to hold and express your own opinions and let others hold and
express theirs. You can still encourage them to change their opinions
but to do so in discussion and conversation rather than with
quarreling.
Daily Practice
See if you can
imagine what sort of a teaching you might follow such that you would not
be inclined to quarrel with anyone in the world. Do you have to take it
personally when someone disagrees with you? Do you need to have other
people change their opinions to align with yours? See what it feels like
to acknowledge that others have different opinions than yours and to
feel at ease with that, with no need to have them change.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Social Action One week from today: Refraining from False Speech
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If
we lack inner freedom, any intense sensory experience can generate
strong attachments that entangle us. On the other hand, if we know how
to perfectly maintain our inner freedom, we can experience all
sensations within the pristine simplicity of the present moment, in a
state of well-being that is free from grasping and expectation.
"The minute you get near human beings, you are always saying, 'You're
too this,' or 'I'm too that.' The judging mind comes in. So I practice
turning people into trees, which means appreciating them the way they
are."
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on equanimity, for when you develop meditation on equanimity,
all aversion is abandoned. (MN 62)
Equanimity is the way to purity for one who has much attachment. (Vm
9.108) When a person, tasting a flavor with the tongue, is not attached
to pleasing flavors and not repelled by unpleasing flavors, they have
established mindfulness and dwell with an unlimited mind. For a person
whose mindfulness is developed and practiced, the tongue does not
struggle to reach pleasing flavors, and unpleasing flavors are not
considered repulsive. (SN 35.274)
Reflection
We all
naturally have many attachments. Much of the time we cherish these and
feel they are the very things that make life worthwhile. In the Buddhist
analysis they also cause us suffering, lead to bodily and mental
troubles, and cause a lot of harm in the world. The emotional stance of
equanimity is a way of fully experiencing things without being caught by
them, of tasting their flavor without attachment or revulsion.
Daily Practice
Experiment with
your experience when you are tasting and consuming food. It is usual to
like some things and dislike others, but what if instead you had
equanimity toward what you are eating? This doesn't mean eating bland
food; rather, it means not focusing on preferences but fully
appreciating the pleasant flavor of some bites and the unpleasant flavor
of others. Notice the different textures without favoring or opposing.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Frivolous Speech One week from today: Cultivating Lovingkindness
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