No
Senado, projeto cria lei semelhante à determinação do CNJ garantindo a
conversão de união estável entre pessoas do mesmo sexo em casamento
civil. Opine sobre a proposta http://bit.ly/1HsEoD4
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A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Today's Daily Dharma: Liberation Through Suffering
Liberation Through Suffering
It
is very hard to extract some sort of enduring positive gain from dharma
practice without taking a really thorough look at your own mind. The
first step is a very close look at the nature of suffering: seeing what
suffering is and getting to know our own suffering. It is through that
deep intimacy with our own suffering that there is liberation.
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Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Via Nieuwhof: Some Advice on Same-Sex Marriage for US Church Leaders From a Canadian
Ed Stetzer wrote a helpful background post to the shift in opinion that led to the decision and included links to a number of other leading articles in his post.
The social media reaction ranged from surprising to predictable to disappointing to occasionally refreshing.
I write from the perspective of a pastor of an evangelical church in a country where same sex-marriage has been the law of the land for a decade.
That does not mean I hold any uniquely deep wisdom, but it does mean we’ve had a decade to process and pray over the issue.
I hope what I offer can help. It’s my perspective. My fingers tremble at the keyboard because my goal is to help in the midst of a dialogue that seems far more divisive than it is uniting or constructive.
There will be many who disagree with me, I’m sure, but I hope it pulls debate away from the “sky is falling/this is the best thing ever” dichotomy that seems to characterize much of the dialogue so far.
The purpose of this post is not to take a position or define matters theologically (for there is so much debate around that). Rather, the purpose of this post is to think through how to respond as a church when the law of the land changes as fundamentally as it’s changing on same-sex marriage and many other issues.
Here are 5 perspectives I hope are helpful as church leaders of various positions on the subject think and pray through a way forward.
Make the jump here to read the 5 Points
Via JMG: AUSTRALIA: Parliament Might Hold Free Vote On Same-Sex Marriage In August
Via Reuters:
Australia will soon decide whether to legalize same-sex marriage under a cross-party bill which may allow parliament members to vote according to their conscience, rather than along party lines, media reported on Wednesday. The debate over whether to follow countries like the United States and Ireland in recognizing same-sex marriage has strained relations between Australia's socially conservative Catholic Prime Minister Tony Abbott and members of his Liberal Party in favor of the change. A cross-party bill, sponsored by two Liberal Party lawmakers is expected to go to the federal parliament on Aug. 11, Sky News Australia said. There is speculation that Abbott may appease his own party members by allowing them the freedom to vote independently, in recognition that they favor the legislation. Abbott's sister is engaged to a woman and has called for bipartisan agreement.The first day of spring in the southern hemisphere is September 23rd.
Via JMG: US Virgin Islands Fall In Line
The Virgin Islands have become the final US territory to comply with SCOTUS.
Governor Kenneth Mapp has announced that he’s currently working on an executive order to direct government agencies and departments to follow the U.S. Supreme Court’s June 26 ruling in favor of same-sex marriage. Mapp made the announcement during a Tuesday morning press conference at Government House, stating that upon taking office in January, he swore to uphold the laws of the land. “The Government of the Virgin Islands as a civil society can no longer discriminate on marriage,” Mapp said. “The nation has arrived, pursuant to the Supreme Court’s ruling, at full marriage equality — when two consenting adults appear for a marriage license and apply for that license, civil society is required to respond. And so persons of the same-sex can be married in the U.S. Virgin Islands.” The governor stressed that the U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling does not force churches and ministers to perform same-sex or any other kind of marriage, however as the territory’s leader, he must abide by the law.The territory has a population of 106K.
Via JMG: Bilerico Project Calls It Quits
Long-running LGBT group blog The Bilerico Project has called it quits after eleven years. Founder Bil Browning writes:
Reposted from Joe Jervis
Projects are meant to be temporary and so was Bilerico Project. After more than a decade, it's time to wrap up our experiment. The media landscape has changed dramatically over the past decade and so have our lives and the LGBT movement itself. It's time to turn the page and start something fresh in this new environment. My first post in 2004 was a quote from Margaret Meade. "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." I think we've done our part to make the world a better place. This will be my last post on Bilerico Project. The site will be archived at bilericoproject.com so that all 31,000+ posts will still be available for readers. It's been a long strange journey and I've loved every single moment of it, but the time has come to end the project and call it a success.From JMG: "In the early years of this here website thingy, there were only a handful of us doing LGBT news aggregation and commentary before behemoths like Buzzfeed, Huffington Post, and other major sites launched LGBT verticals. Bilerico now joins Mike Rogers, Pam Spauding, Andrew Sullivan, and John Aravosis in LGBT blogging history. Hail to the independents."
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the day 01/07/2015
“A máscara não tem nenhum comprometimento com a verdade. A vítima, por
exemplo, sofre muito, mas esse sofrimento não tem nada a ver com sua dor
original. É apenas mais um mecanismo de defesa, uma forma de fugir da
dor. Esse sofrimento é completamente desnecessário, ele não serve para
nada, pois é um falso sofrimento.”
“La máscara no tiene ningún compromiso con la verdad. La víctima, por ejemplo, sufre mucho, pero este sufrimiento no tiene nada que ver con su dolor original. Es solo un mecanismo de defensa más, una forma de huir del dolor. Este sufrimiento es completamente innecesario, no sirve para nada, ya que es un falso sufrimiento.”
“La máscara no tiene ningún compromiso con la verdad. La víctima, por ejemplo, sufre mucho, pero este sufrimiento no tiene nada que ver con su dolor original. Es solo un mecanismo de defensa más, una forma de huir del dolor. Este sufrimiento es completamente innecesario, no sirve para nada, ya que es un falso sufrimiento.”
"The mask has
no commitment to the truth. The victim, for example, suffers a lot, but
this suffering has nothing to do with one’s original pain. It's just a
defense mechanism to escape the pain. This suffering is completely
unnecessary. It serves no purpose since it is a false suffering."
Via Sri Prem Baba: Flor do Dia- Flor del Día - Flower of the day 30/06/2015
“A identificação com a mente agitada gera o estado que conhecemos como
‘loucura’. Muitos acreditam ser “normais” porque não falam sozinhos ou
não quebram coisas, mas isso não é sinal de sanidade. Existem estados
diferenciados de loucura. Algumas pessoas aparentam ser normais, mas
internamente são completamente loucas. Me refiro a uma falta de eixo que
se manifesta por não sabermos quem somos. Nesse estado de identificação com a mente, é muito comum tomar o real como irreal e vice-versa. E esse tipo de loucura é muito normal”.
“La identificación con la mente agitada genera el estado que conocemos
como "locura". Muchos creen ser "normales" ya que no hablan solos o no
rompen cosas, pero esto no es signo de sanidad. Existen estados
diferentes de locura. Algunas personas aparentan ser normales, pero
internamente están completamente locas. Me refiero a una falta de eje
que se manifiesta por no saber quiénes somos. En este estado de
identificación con la mente, es muy común tomar lo real como irreal y
viceversa. Y esta clase de locura es muy normal”.
“Identification with an agitated mind generates the state that we call ‘madness’. Many people believe they are ‘normal’ because they don’t talk to themselves and they don’t break things, but this is not a sign of sanity. There are different states of madness. Some people seem to be normal, but inside they are completely mad. I am talking about a lack of centeredness which occurs when we don’t know who we are. In this state of identification with the mind, it is very common to mistake reality for something unreal and vice versa. This type of madness is very common”.
“Identification with an agitated mind generates the state that we call ‘madness’. Many people believe they are ‘normal’ because they don’t talk to themselves and they don’t break things, but this is not a sign of sanity. There are different states of madness. Some people seem to be normal, but inside they are completely mad. I am talking about a lack of centeredness which occurs when we don’t know who we are. In this state of identification with the mind, it is very common to mistake reality for something unreal and vice versa. This type of madness is very common”.
Today's Daily Dharma: May I Be of Service
May I Be of Service
May I become an island for those seeking dry land
A lamp for those needing light,
A place of rest for those who desire one,
And a servant for those needing service.
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Tuesday, June 30, 2015
Via JMG: White House Lights Planned For Months
Politico reports that the idea to bathe the White House in rainbow lights was conceived months ago.
SPOTTED, at 4 a.m. Sat. at the White House: Jeff Tiller, 32, the White House director of specialty media (includes LGBT outreach) and former press-advance marvel, who had the inspired idea of bathing the North Portico (“The President’s Front Door”) in rainbow lighting. The crowds were gone, sunrise was coming, and the lighting contractors who had installed the rainbow were long asleep. After spending the night at the White House in a lawn chair, Jeff climbed downstairs to the tradesman entrance to unplug the lights that he had conceived of months earlier.You can thank Tiller on Twitter. (Tipped by JMG reader Mike)
JMG Headline Of The Day
Via Media Matters:
Reposted from Joe Jervis
On June 26, the Supreme Court issued a decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, holding that the Fourteenth Amendment requires that states issue marriage licenses to same sex couples. Conservative media and the National Rifle Association (NRA) quickly seized on the decision to draw a parallel with concealed carry reciprocity, a top federal legislative priority of the NRA. Reciprocity legislation, also known as federally mandated concealed carry, would force states to recognize permits to carry concealed guns issued by other states, regardless of what the issuing state's standards are for issuing permits. Reciprocity legislation has been introduced in both chambers of the U.S. Congress, but conservative media and the NRA view Obergefell as an opportunity to argue that the Constitution extends at least some right to reciprocal permit recognition regardless of whether Congress acts. The problem with that argument, however, is that the 2008 landmark Supreme Court case District of Columbia v. Heller limited the scope of the Second Amendment right to gun possession to people's homes.
Via WAPO: For Obama, rainbow White House was ‘a moment worth savoring’
For Obama. seeing the White House illuminated in rainbow colors Friday night "was a moment worth savoring."
Speaking
at a joint news conference Tuesday with Brazilian President Dilma
Rousseff, Obama made a point of saying just before leaving that one of
the best aspects of last week was viewing the crowds who had gathered in
front of 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue to celebrate the symbol of gay pride
on full display.
Via JMG: 26M Rainbow Their Facebook Profile
Via CNN Money:
Over the past three days, 26 million people have super imposed rainbows over their Facebook profile pictures using a free tool provided by the company. The rainbow filter launched Friday and continued to gain steam over Pride weekend, garnering more than half a billion likes and comments all over the world. Famous people including Russell Simmons, California Attorney General Kamala Harris, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Arnold Schwarzenegger, and Brazil's president Dilma Rousseff changed their profiles. The tool was created by two Facebook interns during an internal hackathon last week. Changing a profile picture is easily dismissed as low-effort activism. But for many people who are not typically political it was a way to quietly show support.
Via : Michael Coren: My unlikely sermon at the Metropolitan Community Church
Former outspoken social conservative Michael Coren found ‘no condemnation, no cynicism, no grudges’ when he recently spoke at a church focused on outreach to LGBT people.
By:
Michael Coren
Published on Mon Jun 29 2015
There she goes: plump, porky and with wings.
Yes, pigs can and do fly. Or to put it another way, we now have
undeniable proof of climate change because hell has frozen over. Michael
Coren, long a public opponent of same-sex marriage and certainly not
considered a friend to the gay community, is asked to preach at
Toronto’s Metropolitan Community Church.
MCC is not exclusively gay but its central
theme, its charisma if you like, is outreach to LGBT people and in all
of its many international branches it is at the heart of the struggle
for full equality. Indeed in Toronto its leader, Brent Hawkes, is one of
the most high-profile, visible and eloquent leaders of the gay
community.
It was Brent who invited me. I have written
before about how in the past two years I have undergone something of a
conversion on the road to Toronto, left the Roman Catholic Church,
abandoned social conservatism and become one of those liberal Christians
I used to mock. It’s been a pilgrimage and one that — while coming with
a heavy professional and personal cost — has made me a better person
and a better Christian.
I came to realize that anywhere there is love
there is God, that judgmentalism is vehemently anti-Christian and that I
had, well, got it wrong. In one of those glorious paradoxes my feelings
were confirmed by the sweeping, organized and vicious campaign against
me by social and Christian conservatives. By their lack of love you will
know them. Which is when Brent approached me and asked me to speak. We
have known each other for years because we often appeared on opposing
sides on television and radio; neither of us ever thought we’d be
embracing, close to tears, in front of the altar of his church.
I’ve spoken to hundreds of groups and haven’t
felt nervous for decades. Yet suddenly this 56-year-old man who hosted a
nightly television show for 16 years was most definitely nervous. How
many of these people had I hurt, how many had lives made more difficult
by my writing and broadcasting? I’d never hated but I had given an
intellectual veneer to the anti-gay movement, had enabled — even
unintentionally — some muddy bigotry.
There were two services, with a combined
congregation of around 700. And as I walked in on that hot, rainy
morning I was drenched in love and acceptance. No condemnation, no
cynicism, no grudges. As a constipated Englishman I was several times
close to weeping as I witnessed a sense of authentic Christian community
that I have, with all due respect, seldom found in mainstream church
settings. I saw collectives of warmth and support, groups of people from
various ethnicities, backgrounds, sexualities and experiences united in
acceptance. After three months of abuse, accusations and firings from
men and women who claim to be Christian my sense of liberation was
exquisite. A dawn of the miraculous after the dark night of the cruel.
I told them
that as a straight man who had reversed his position on gay rights and
marriage I had recently experienced a glimpse of a shadow of a whiff of
what it must be like to be a gay Christian. I said that some of the
finest Christians I had ever met had been gay Christians. I said that
remaining Christian in the face of hostility and even vitriol was an
indication of enormous depth of faith and a living, fleshy example of a
glorious mystery. I spoke of unconditional love, of what Scripture
actually said about sexuality rather than the popular and misguided
caricature of Biblical truth, I said that the only absolutes were grace
and love.
The point is that in the 200,000 words of the
New Testament perhaps a mere 50 in any way concern same-sex attraction,
yet tens of thousands speak of charity, care for the poor, forgiveness,
love, empathy, gentleness and kindness. At its best the church has led
the way for the state but on this issue the contrary is true, as we
witnessed with the recent U.S. Supreme Court decision. There is still
time to do the right thing however. As I said, pigs can fly and Michael
Coren can speak at the Metropolitan Community Church.
Michael Coren can be contacted at mcoren@sympatico.ca
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