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Tuesday, March 19, 2024
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Intention: Cultivating Lovingkindness
Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on lovingkindness, for when you develop meditation on
lovingkindness, all ill will will be abandoned. (MN 62)
The proximate cause of lovingkindness is seeing the lovable qualities of beings. (Vm 9.93)
Reflection
We can all
practice being kinder to one another. If we are able to make
lovingkindness the basis upon which our mind is established, then we
will all become kinder. The principle is so simple: the emotions we feed
and nurture will grow stronger, and their opposites will starve and
eventually die off. The immediate benefit of such practice is not only
the growth of kindness but also the withering of hate and ill will.
Daily Practice
The way to
develop lovingkindness is to bring to mind the lovable qualities of
others. Try looking at a puppy or a kitten. Don’t you just love it? It
has many lovable qualities. All the people you know also have such
qualities; you just have to look for them and call them to mind.
Practice seeing how often you can find something lovable in another
person, even someone you might not like that much. Cultivate
lovingkindness.
Tomorrow: Refraining from False Speech One week from today: Cultivating Compassion
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