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The Sacred Polyester of Tibetan Khata Interview with Dr. Huatse Gyal by Karen Jensen
Once
made from wool, these highly symbolic textiles are now frequently made
of polyester—and quickly polluting the planet. Tricycle speaks with
anthropologist Huatse Gyal about their various meanings, history, and
the conundrum of religious waste.
Compassion on a Global Scale Rick Hanson interviewed by Ronn Smith
Dr.
Rick Hanson, who launched The Global Compassion Coalition (GCC) in
2022, has assembled a substantial group of like-minded individuals and
organizations in support of what he sees as essential for the future of
our planet.
While
the dharma rain falls equally on each of us, we must do the
work—through our practice, or right endeavor—to grow into the best
versions of ourselves.
Mark Herrick, “Keeping in Mind Our Interbeing Through the Parable of the Medicinal Herbs”
In her new novel, The Gathering: A Story of the First Buddhist Women,
scholar Vanessa R. Sasson highlights the stories of women who
challenged assumptions about what it means to be a woman and what women
are supposed to want.
Harsh speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from harsh speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning harsh speech,
one refrains from harsh speech. One speaks words that are gentle,
pleasing to the ear, and affectionate, words that go to the heart, are
courteous, and are agreeable to many. (DN 1) One practices thus: "Others
may speak harshly, but I shall abstain from harsh speech." (MN 8)
When one says, "All those engaged in the pursuit of self-mortification
have entered upon the wrong way," one thus disparages some. But when one
says instead, "The pursuit of self-mortification is a state beset by
suffering, and it is the wrong way," then one is not disparaging anyone
but is simply stating the truth. (MN 139)
Reflection
Certain words
or phrases that appear harsh are simply part of the natural vocabulary
of different social groups, and are not necessarily spoken harshly. But
notice how certain ways of speaking are accompanied by a harsher mental
state. Certain words bring with them a particular emotional tone, and
this draws our mind into harsher places than necessary. Learning to see
and avoid this can be helpful.
Daily Practice
In the example
given in this passage, notice the difference between criticizing a
person and criticizing the person’s behavior. When you disparage
someone, you invite a defensive measure such as a counterattack; when
you disparage their actions, you give the person room to distance
themselves from their behavior. Try this for yourself. See if you can
develop the habit of criticizing actions instead of people. It is not as
harsh.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Mental Action One week from today: Refraining from Frivolous Speech
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Whatever you intend,
whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will
become the basis upon which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop
meditation on appreciative joy, for when you develop meditation on
appreciative joy, any discontent will be abandoned. (MN 62)
The manifestation of appreciative joy is elimination of discontent. (Vm 9.95)
Reflection
It turns out
that feeling good about the success or well-being of other people is
good for you. The natural inclination of the self is toward selfishness,
which is aimed at getting what we want and need. This is a useful
function up to a point, but if we are ever to evolve beyond it, we need
to reverse the process and cultivate care and concern for others.
Wishing them well and celebrating their good fortune is a good place to
start.
Daily Practice
Keep on the
lookout today for what happens to other people and wish them well when
you see or hear of someone having good fortune. This is actually an
excellent remedy for your own discontent. If you are not happy about
your lot in life, you can immediately lift yourself into a better state
by taking joy in the good fortune of others. Rather than resent their
success you can use it to help raise your own mood.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Harsh Speech One week from today: Cultivating Equanimity
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