The latest dharma talk has been added to the GBF website, podcast and YouTube channel:
Letting Go Into Wholeness – Jokai | Gay Buddhist Fellowship
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In this quietly powerful talk, Jokai Blackwell reflects on how Zen practice invites us into a deeper intimacy with life — not by escaping discomfort, but by softening our resistance to it. He shares personal stories and teachings from Zen and early Buddhism that reveal how clinging to control or certainty only increases suffering.
Instead, Jokai encourages listeners to cultivate a practice of surrender: of returning, again and again, to the grounded experience of the body, breath, and present moment. This embodied awareness becomes a gateway to wholeness — not a fixed state, but a dynamic unfolding that includes everything, even the messy and uncertain.
He outlines several key teachings to support this shift toward presence:
Wholeness is not perfection: It's the capacity to include and be with whatever arises.
Grasping and aversion fragment our experience: They reinforce the illusion of separation.
The body is a reliable refuge: Returning to bodily sensations helps us drop into direct experience.
Letting go is active, not passive: It's a courageous practice of turning toward, not away.
Practice is relational: Awakening unfolds in connection — with self, others, and life itself.
Jokai’s words are both spacious and grounded, inviting listeners into a felt sense of trust — not in outcomes, but in the wisdom of showing up fully to the life that’s already here.
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